The secret to an unforgettable lap dance? Be loose, sexy and confident in your body. Here's how to make one to drive your him crazy!
Steps
Part 1 of 4: Creating the Atmosphere
Step 1. Wear sexy clothes that emphasize your strengths but also make you move comfortably
You can put a sporty top and leggings over sexy lingerie, a long dress, or any piece of clothing that makes you feel hot.
If you have decided to combine lap dancing with a striptease, lingerie and skintight dresses are ideal for this purpose. If you are wearing a garter, the underwear should go on top. High heels make your legs sexier
Step 2. Put on some sexy and suitable music for a lap dance
Practice to make sure it fits your moves. A lap dance, in general, shouldn't last more than a minute or two: if you're good, your boyfriend will jump on you before the song is over. However, it is better to prepare more than one piece so that you don't run out of music in the middle of the lap dance. Here are some perfect tracks:
- "So Alive" by Love And Rockets
- "Skin Trade" by Duran Duran
- "Cream" by Prince
- Billy Idol's "Cradle of Love"
- "Not Enough Time" by INXS
- "Say it Right" by Nelly Furtado
- "Let Me Put My Love Into You" by AC / DC
- "Love Me Like You Do" by Ellie Goulding
- "wRoNg" by Zayn
- "Work" by Rihanna
Step 3. Dim the lights
Lap dancing is sexier if you don't perform it in a blinding light. Turn them off, cover the brightest lamps with a scarf or cloth or light a few candles. Your man will have to see you at work, but not be able to count the freckles on your face.
Step 4. Choose a sturdy and comfortable chair, with solid legs and a reliable backrest, as it will have to support your weight and that of your partner, otherwise you risk breaking it and hurting you
Step 5. Let your partner sit comfortably in a slightly sloping posture with legs partially apart
Her body language should say "Hey, come dance here".
Part 2 of 4: A Sexy Approach
Step 1. Walk around the room like a pro who has performed lap dances a million times and knows it's great
Walk with one foot in front of the other, with your back straight and shoulders high. Start swaying and slowly run your hands along your body to give your man a taste.
Step 2. Keep the expression right
Direct your sexy gaze to your him and your body. Part your lips and smirk to show him that you know you're sexy.
Step 3. Go around the chair walking as we showed you before and continuing to sway
Stroke your partner's shoulder and lower yourself when you are in front of him to engage him even more.
Step 4. Sit down
Lap dancing can't begin until you've actually sat on your man's lap. Stand in front of him by bending your chest towards his face and pulling your butt slightly out and slowly lower yourself to sit on your lap.
Step 5. Wrap your legs around the back of the chair to support yourself and not fall
Step 6. Gird your man's neck with your arms as you continue to sway
Step 7. Tease him
As your bodies are so close, it brushes his lips, leaving him with a very strong desire. Don't get the mood too hot for now, show off your hot moves first.
Part 3 of 4: Exhibiting your Moves
Step 1. Act like you are the sex goddess
Slowly pull your legs away from the back of the chair and stand between his spread legs. Place your hands on his knees and move towards his face, then lower yourself as you swing until your face is close to his belly. Place your hands on his hips for a single second and stand up, always without haste.
Step 2. Move your hips as if you were drawing the number eight
Do it in front of him until he can no longer resist. Let your hands run over your breasts and the rest of your body. You can also try to turn around and turn away from him.
Step 3. Touch your body
Push your man firmly against the chair and stand in front of him, but without your bodies touching. Caress your body, as if you were soaping it. Be sensual and close your eyes. Pretend you're in the shower. If he tries to touch you, take his hand away from you.
Step 4. Turn your back to him while you are between his legs and slowly lower yourself until you touch the floor with your hands
In the meantime, shake your butt near her crotch, her belly or even her face. Keep moving your body seductively as you get up.
- If you feel confident, you can turn your face to smile at him mischievously.
- You can rest your hands on his knees instead of on the floor.
Step 5. Sit on your boyfriend's lap while keeping a hand on his shoulder
Lean back until you almost touch the floor. Gently move your free hand as if you are asking a bull in slow motion.
Step 6. Lean back even more if you have a flexible back and touch the floor with your free hand as your pelvis rotates around your man's
Now, place your other hand on the floor as well and move your pelvis down and up.
Step 7. Dance behind your man
If you're feeling really sexy, get behind the chair and slowly bring your chest closer to her head. Then, lower yourself as you caress his torso until you go up to his face. Don't try to do this for more than 15 seconds, or you'll drive him crazy.
Part 4 of 4: Conclude on a high note
Step 1. When you move your legs away from the back of the chair to stand up, lean towards your man to make it easier
Step 2. Squeeze your man's shoulders firmly, but not too roughly
Step 3. As you bring your chest closer to your partner, push your butt out to keep your balance
Step 4. Use his body to get up
Slowly push your shoulders back as you put your feet on the ground and find your balance.
Step 5. Stay sexy
Keep swaying your hips and running your hands over your body as you stand up.
Advice
- Wear comfortable heeled shoes, so you will avoid slipping or falling, ruining the atmosphere.
- Be confident, or at least pretend you are. If you think your lap dance is terrible, keep swaying regardless of your thoughts (maybe you are too self-critical!).
- Remember that you do this for fun and to add spice to your relationship. If you don't feel ready, avoid it.
- Good fun!
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