There are few things more magical than a perfect kiss. And there are few things less attractive than a slobbering, sticky, or fickle kiss, with no rhythm or finesse. Becoming a master in the art of kissing requires a lot of practice with the right person, but there are several methods you can use to become a more skilled kisser. Follow the tips in this article to learn basic kissing techniques and find out how to make your move in this game.
Steps
Method 1 of 4: Learn the Technique
Step 1. Use a slow approach
Slowly approach her to kiss her to create a sense of anticipation. The more you and your partner are excited about the kiss, the more intense the contact of your lips will be.
- Start with light kisses to get to something more intense. By starting small you can slip more easily into intimacy with your partner.
- Take breaks between kisses to make eye contact without your lips touching. You can leave your hands on your partner's hips or shoulders, or you can gently stroke her face. Looking into her eyes, you will show her that all your attention is for her.
Step 2. Let the dog just drool
There is nothing worse than a kiss full of saliva. Nothing. Other than making you look like you don't know what he's doing, no one wants to end up with a face full of your drool. Maybe just a little.
- Avoid opening your mouth too much. A gaping approach will cause you to lose a lot of saliva that will end up on your girlfriend's face, as well as make you look ridiculous.
- Swallow often. Do not forget to swallow the excess saliva while kissing. The saliva has to get somewhere, and not on your girlfriend's face.
Step 3. Pucker your lips slightly
This will add volume, but don't curl them too much. If you do this and lean them forward too much, they will lose volume and won't be so good to kiss (Girls: it's the same position of your lips as when you put on lipstick!)
Step 4. Tilt your head slightly
Most people who write with their right hand find it more natural to tilt their heads to the right, and left-handed people to the left. The important thing is that you both tilt it on the same side (for example both to the right or to the left), to create a mirror effect that will allow you to join the lips.
- Slowly move your head from side to side. You can make the kiss more interesting by switching sides between kisses. The movement should be done at the end of a kiss and just before starting another one.
- Do not move your head from side to side too often. This will create a strange rhythm that may make both of you uncomfortable.
Step 5. Use your tongue for a French kiss
Gently swipe your tongue over your partner's lower lip, tongue and gums. Start with a gentle motion and increase the pressure and pace as your partner starts kissing back in the same way.
- Don't put your whole tongue in your partner's mouth, one third is enough. Make quick, circular movements and make sure your tongue is always moving. Dropping it in your partner's mouth isn't sexy.
- This is where things could get a little too "wet". Remember to swallow often to avoid a buildup of saliva that could end up in your partner's mouth. There is a fine line between being sexy and looking like a Saint Bernard. Try not to go beyond it.
Step 6. Break the kisses with romantic looks
Remove your lips from hers every now and then, leave some space and look each other in the eye. Taking a break will make the kiss more intense when you start over. Plus, there's no better way to show someone you care than to look them softly in the eye.
Step 7. Be creative
Try different nibble / suck / kiss / tongue combinations to keep your kiss engaging and exciting.
- Give the "lip sucker" move a chance. Kiss your partner's upper lip while she nibbles your lower lip, then switch.
- Break the kiss with small, gentle bites. Sensually nibbling on your partner's lower lip can be an interesting variation of pace. Be careful not to bite too hard, you don't want to eat it.
- Mix pop kisses with more passionate kisses. This will add something extra and serve as a break in intensive make-out sessions.
Method 2 of 4: Use Your Whole Body
Step 1. Pay attention to your partner's body language
Kissing is not limited to what your mouths do. Your whole body is involved, with the aim of making this experience as sensual and enjoyable as possible. The way your partner moves the rest of his body while you kiss will let you know how he feels and what he thinks about your performance.
- Positive signs: Your partner draws you to him, squeezes you, kisses you and caresses you with a sense of urgency, smiles or squeals, or sighs frequently. If you notice that your partner reacts positively to certain of your moves, be sure to remember them. He will appreciate your attention and understand that you are doing your best to understand what makes him feel best.
- Negative signs: Your partner pushes you away, tries to move away by pressing on the shoulder, does not touch you, just moves his lips or tightens them to force you to stop.
Step 2. Touch her neck, ears and face
A mini massage in these sensitive areas can be very exciting. Brush it with your fingers and press your thumb circularly over these areas.
Step 3. Squeeze her arms, shoulders and back
You can be a little more rude in these areas. A good squeeze can give your partner chills. If you're feeling bold, you can even squeeze her butt. You will be able to understand where she wants to be touched thanks to body language.
Step 4. Place your hands on her shoulders or around her waist
Move your fingers and / or thumb gently up and down in circular motions to make her feel that you are there with her.
- Usually women place their hands on the shoulders of the man and the men around the waist of the woman, but in practice it depends on your height difference.
- Having said that, the position is not important, it is being well together that matters.
Step 5. Use your index finger or thumb to lift her chin while looking into her eyes, then kiss her
This exchange of glances, accompanied by a light touch, can be very pleasant.
Step 6. Pull her hair back by running your fingers through it and bring it behind her neck, just above her neck
This gesture means "I want you".
Method 3 of 4: Avoid bad breath
Step 1. Stay hydrated
A dry mouth can cause bad breath and sticky lips. Remember to drink enough fluids every day to make sure you have smooth lips and a kiss-proof breath.
Step 2. Avoid foods and drinks that cause bad breath
More importantly, don't take your partner for dinner to a restaurant where they serve food that causes bad breath. Some blacklisted foods are:
- Garlic.
- Onions.
- Tuna or sardines.
- Spicy foods.
- Coffee.
- Alcohol.
Step 3. Brush your teeth and floss twice a day
Even though this advice is repeated over and over, there are people who ignore the basic rules of good hygiene. Remember to wash your teeth and floss twice a day to get rid of any residual bacteria in your mouth. Bacteria cause bad breath. Also use mouthwash for extra freshness.
Step 4. Try to always have mints or gum with you
Especially after consuming any food, remember to eat mint or chew gum before kissing someone. If you choose gum, spit it out before the kiss. Your partner certainly does not want to eat the rest of your gum, which by the way could go awry during the kiss.
Method 4 of 4: Prepare Your Weapons
Step 1. Apply lip balm several times a day
Lip balms, especially those made with shea butter or various moisturizing oils, are great for treating chapped lips. Even if you don't have such problems, a lip balm will make your mouth even more kissable.
- Even if they taste good, avoid lip balms with artificial flavors and fragrances and even colored ones. The additives they contain may dry out the lips.
- Just before kissing your partner, apply a menthol lip balm. Menthol activates the body's cold receptors, and when you touch his lips, you will feel a tingling through your body.
- Apply a lip balm with an SPF 15 when you need to go outside to protect them from harmful UV rays.
Step 2. Use a scrub once a week
You can make a lip scrub by using a white or brown sugar base and adding a liquid. Olive, coconut, and honey oil are great ingredients for a sugar scrub.
- Apply a generous layer to your lips and massage in circular motions using a toothbrush for a deeper exfoliation.
- Do not massage aggressively, you have to remove dead cells, do not make your skin bleed.
Step 3. Eat a diet rich in fruits, vegetables and nuts
Vitamins B, C and Omega 3 fatty acids are great for the skin. Make sure you are getting enough of these essential vitamins to keep your lips firm and soft.
Advice
- Keep your eyes closed while kissing. Open eyes are creepy.
- Live the moment. Don't think about anything else while you kiss.
- Don't put on lipstick before kissing a man. They don't like to have it spread all over their faces.
- Don't think about it too much, just let yourself go.
- Don't forget to use your whole body during the kiss.
- Apply a lip balm that tastes good before kissing.
Warnings
- Don't breathe through your mouth while kissing, try breathing through your nose.
- Don't choose a restaurant that serves spicy or smelly food if you're planning on kissing your partner.
- Don't open your mouth wide.
- Don't bite or squeeze your partner too hard during the kiss. He is not attractive, and you could hurt him!
