Do you ever have a friend who doesn't reply to your messages? Is there anyone who always ignores your SMS and phone calls? Is it your girlfriend or the person you're dating? A family member? A work colleague? Well, you have found the perfect article to solve this problem!
Steps
Step 1. Plan the message content
You have to think about what you will write to the recipient to get them to respond.
Step 2. Surprise him with the message
Think of something that will astound him (only do this if it seems appropriate; aren't you going to scare him? Then read the last few lines of this passage). In that case, you need to make sure you don't overdo it with a text that is too alarming, worrying or serious. For example, you can write “Hey! I think someone has entered my garden! I heard a noise, but it's dark outside and I can't see anything! I tried to peek out the window, but it didn't help.”. If you don't want to upset him or don't think this will help you, you can instead write "I know who you like / have a crush on / love!" or "I know who you went out with tonight!"
Step 3. If your phone allows you to indicate that a message is urgent, use this function before sending it
Many mobile phones offer this setting for SMS. Before sending it, access the configurations. A list of options will open to you, including one that will allow you to report an emergency. Apply it and continue. If your phone does not have this feature, then before entering the content you have in mind write "Urgent! Read now!", "This message is urgent" or "Urgent". Probably the recipient will open it precisely because he will see this writing.
Step 4. Send this important and mysterious-looking message
The recipient will be more likely to respond if they are worried about what you wrote or are curious about what you heard about them (this only if you wrote in the message that you know who they are dating, who they like or something like that.). As a result, he will be more than willing to respond to an "urgent" text message.
Step 5. If you don't get a reply, send him the same message as before three to four more times a few minutes later, again indicating that it is urgent
If you send him a text message that appears to have important content multiple times, he will be more likely to respond.
Step 6. If he answers you, don't reciprocate or make fun of him
How to do it? Write him "Who are you?" or "What are you talking about?". After getting his answer, write "Oh, um, I think I got the wrong number, sorry." In most cases, he will continue to make himself heard by calling or texting you for two main reasons: firstly because the message was urgent, secondly because you piqued his interest, that you caused uncertainty, curiosity (he will want to know what the secret is you know) or other feelings that convinced him to respond. If you don't want to proceed, don't. For some time, he will continue to pester and talk to you because your message has sparked a lot of interest.
Advice
- Make sure the message makes sense.
- This person better know your number, as they may not answer if they don't know who you are.
- Don't sound desperate.
- Try not to write a flat or boring message. In day-to-day interactions, you definitely go out of your way to keep conversations from going off, so why bother with a text message? Don't always ask the usual questions or start the conversation in the most typical way (for example by asking "How are you?"). Continue to stimulate interest by asking questions that your interlocutor will gladly answer, and intervene witty. Make sure you don't make him uncomfortable, and don't seem desperate for attention. Maybe he's busy and doesn't have time to do it.
- You need to be sure that you are sending messages with content that you encourage them to reply to (for example, write text messages including interesting facts or ask for help - you will probably get a reply).
- Remember to indicate that the message is urgent.
Warnings
- Don't send messages that are too worrying or serious, as it could scare the hell out of you - pay attention. To avoid dramatic moments, just write "I know that one of our school friends is obsessed with you.", Or something along that line. Don't make statements that are too weird or senseless.
- Don't be vulgar.
- Don't text too many. You can send a few, at most five. Do not cross this threshold, because otherwise this person will understand that you intend to scare or annoy them (most importantly, they will realize that you are doing this only to get their attention). Maybe, if you pretend you have a problem, you can send three in three to four minutes the first time, or two in one minute and another one later. Give it a try, the important thing is not to overdo it, to the point of bothering her and making her discover what is really happening.
