Attention boys and girls! Do you like the guy from the biology class? Or maybe the one who has breakfast every Friday at the same bar as you? Either way, this article will give you tips that will help you date him. Start, therefore, from the first step!
Steps
Part 1 of 4: Prepare for Success
Step 1. Before starting the talk, you need to have a place in mind
Probably the safest idea is to choose a hotel (or your home). If you decide for your home, clean it well, otherwise book the hotel.
Step 2. Wear something sexy
Wear something intriguing, a little tight, but avoid overdoing it by using leopard-print leather or fabrics.
Step 3. Don't overdo your drinking
Drinking is fine, don't feel guilty, but do it consciously. If the night is really interesting, you will want to remember it the next morning, don't you?
The safest option is to avoid alcohol entirely. If you don't want him to pressure you, tell him you're allergic (sulfites are known allergens and are in almost all alcohol)
Step 4. Talk to him privately
You need some quiet time to talk. If you are at a party, take it to a corner where you can hear what you say.
Step 5. Make sure it's the right choice
Some research has shown that there is a relationship between starting a relationship and depression, anxiety and low self-esteem. This does not mean that you will suffer from these emotional disturbances, but make sure you are not trying to have sex just to fill an inner void. There are better ways to make your life happier and more fulfilling.
Part 2 of 4: Start courting him
Step 1. Stay close to him
When you talk to him, get very close to him, whether you are standing or sitting. He must be able to see the neckline of your shirt, smell your scent and get lost in the depths of your eyes.
Step 2. Sit on his lap
Get playful and sit on her lap, you will send her body a clear message of where she would like to be.
Step 3. Don't be afraid to make out with him
When you come to kiss, make the kiss "yours". Let him know who's in charge. Nibble on it a little. You have to be passionate, making him imagine what he can expect from you.
Step 4. Let your hands do the talking
Use your touch to let him know what you have in mind. A casual caress or a more serious groping can let him know what you have in mind.
Step 5. Tell him what you want
If he doesn't understand, tell him clearly what you want. Guys find that a woman who takes this kind of initiative is really sexy. Just say something like, "I'm a little tense, I think I should get some exercise. Do you want us to go out together? Do you want to help me with that?"
Part 3 of 4: Basic Precautions
Step 1. Tell him NO
If you change your mind, you can say no. If, at any time, you feel uncomfortable, tell him no. There's nothing bad. Do what you think is right and do not allow anyone to guide you to do something that does not convince you.
Step 2. Don't drive drunk
And don't let him do it either. You don't want your outing to be in the emergency room.
Step 3. Make sure someone knows where you are
You never know what might happen. For your safety, notify your best friend or someone you trust.
Step 4. Keep an eye on your glass
Don't leave him unattended: even if your boyfriend is a fair person, not everyone who goes to the place where you are is necessarily.
Step 5. Bring protection and insist on using it
Nobody wants to lose their health, right? Even if you're a girl, get a condom if he doesn't have one. Don't let it even tell you about not using it. Learn to put it on if he doesn't know how to do it.
Step 6. Bring your phone
Again, you don't know what's going to happen, keep useful numbers on hand, like taxi service. Or a friend's number if you want to talk to someone later.
Part 4 of 4: After You Get Out
Step 1. Wake up first
It is advisable, to be able to get out of bed without embarrassment.
Step 2. Keep calm, you have nothing to be ashamed of
Stay calm and have fun.
Step 3. Clean yourself
Put on your clothes, take off your makeup quickly if it's dripped and fix your hair to give it a casual look. You could also fix any mess you may have made during the night (without making too much noise).
Step 4. Leave before things get awkward
Leave the hotel or find an excuse to send him away from your home. If this is your first outing, things can easily get awkward.
Step 5. Don't apologize
You don't need to apologize to anyone for dating a guy (unless you're engaged). Don't apologize to him. You would both just feel bad for no reason.
Step 6. Give him a kiss goodbye
A quick kiss will help you break up in a positive way. Leave your phone number if you're interested in a second round.
Advice
- Be yourself and naturally. If you're nervous or distant, the guy might not think you really want to go out with him.
- Bring some mints.
- Remember that dating a guy can be fun! If you don't like it, it's time to stop.
Warnings
- Don't feel broken if they don't like you. It just means he didn't have to go. Get him out of your mind and find another guy.
- Don't be ashamed of anything.
- Don't become a game for him. Stay in control!
- Say NO to anything that makes you uncomfortable.
