You feel really lucky to have a gorgeous girlfriend, but there is one thing that worries you: how to turn her on? Being your girlfriend, you should already like her, but maybe you don't have much intimacy yet. It's natural to feel nervous, but remember that if there's the attraction, you'll just have to find the right moment, set the mood, and try some moves that will drive her crazy. It looks difficult? Read these tips and you'll change your mind!
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Create a Sexy Mood
Step 1. Behave sexy to turn her on from the start
You can do this anywhere, from the beach to a less sensual place, like bowling. To be sexy, you will need to feel comfortable with yourself and walk with your head held high, confident in your charm.
- Make eye contact when you speak to communicate your confidence.
- Smile at them in a shy and irresistible way.
- Lean towards her when you talk to her, so you'll make her want to kiss you and get closer to you.
- Before you see her, take a shower and dress well. A guy who pays attention to his hygiene is sexier.
Step 2. Compliment her on her physical appearance
If she has cut her hair or is wearing new clothes, you will need to do even more. Don't be afraid to tell her she's sexy, that her new skirt makes her legs great, or that the eyeshadow highlights her eye color.
- Your compliments should make her feel special and sexy, letting her know that you pay attention to her.
- Do not overdo it. If you compliment everything he does, you will start to sound insincere.
Step 3. Take her out
Before inviting her, plan a sexy, intimate date. Maybe you love going to the zoo or gorging on ice cream, but on this occasion, dine by candlelight in a place that gives you a lot of privacy.
- After dinner, take a walk. Hold her hand and caress her gently with yours.
- Give her a taste of what's to come. During your date, stroke her knee, brush her shoulders, or kiss her sensuously to make her want more. Don't overdo it: touch her to keep her interested, and then invite her to a more private experience.
Step 4. If you want to turn your girlfriend on, you need to create an atmosphere that makes her want to jump on you
If the date is going well and she's getting closer and closer to you, invite her over to your house to be alone. But, before you do that, make sure you have the right music and lights: a messy room or room occupied by a roommate in front of the Playstation is not sexy.
- Play some sexy background music, like R&B or jazz. Don't turn up the volume - it should feel like the music has always been there naturally.
- Dim the lights. You can also light candles. You should be able to see yourself, but the enlightenment doesn't have to be strong enough to make her feel uncomfortable or vulnerable.
- Keep the room clean and scented. Open the window every day and light some incense or a scented candle before going out with her.
- Dust and vacuum. Do not leave dirty clothes on the floor. You don't want to make her sick with poor hygiene.
Step 5. Get some sexy items so as not to lose the atmosphere that will have created before going to your house and to prolong her desire to stop by
Here's what you should have:
- White or red wine or, if you cannot drink alcohol, other drinks of your liking. Get some cups too.
- Snack. Avoid chips and peanuts, go for chocolate, crackers with cheese or sexy fruit like strawberries or raspberries.
- Clean sheets for your bed. If it's messy or unmade, your girlfriend won't even want to get close.
Step 6. Make her comfortable
Once she enters your house and is impressed by the sexy vibe created, you should make her feel comfortable, even if she has already been there. Here's how to do it as a true gentleman:
- Ask her to give you your coat and hang it up.
- Ask her if she wants to give you shoes too to make her feel even more comfortable.
- If you both drink, offer her some wine. Don't force her, but if she wants something to sip, offer it to her so she'll feel better.
- Tell her that you had a great time and that the date was perfect; you can say phrases like "The chocolate cake was very good" or "The reflection of the stars on the river was beautiful".
- Sit side by side on the sofa. If she remains standing, she may walk away from you or play with the things you have in your apartment.
Method 2 of 3: Make Foreplay unforgettable
Step 1. Start touching her gently
Once you've put her at ease and are ready for more intimacy, you can start touching her to let her know you want her. If you are already sitting close, let your legs touch each other. You can slide your hand down her thigh or hug her. Here are other ways to turn her on:
- If you hug her, you can start playing gently with her hair.
- If she's wearing a necklace or dangling earrings, you can play with them and say you like them so you can get closer to her.
- You can also give her a short, sexy massage. Massage her shoulders, lower back, and back of her neck. At first, use your fingers, and then apply more pressure if his response is positive.
Step 2. Kiss her
After starting to turn her on, the time has come to kiss her. If she approaches you, looks you in the eye and licks her lips, start kissing her the right way:
- Don't use your tongue right away, even if you've been kissing for a long time. Avoid the French kiss at first, which might seem a little too aggressive.
- Brush his lips and gently touch the tip of his tongue with yours. If she likes it, switch to French kissing.
- Take breaks. Don't kiss her for five minutes straight. Stop every two minutes to make eye contact and let her want you even more.
- You can caress her hair or body while you kiss her.
- Experiment. You will make her even more aroused if you also kiss her neck, earlobes and shoulders.
Step 3. Touch it more
Now that you are kissing, you can also caress the waist, shoulders, inner thighs and breasts. Just make sure she feels comfortable.
Each girl is different. Knowing her better, you will know what she likes: kisses on the neck, caresses on the wrists, etc
Step 4. Start undressing, but do it gradually to turn her on and not make it seem like you're in a rush:
- Decide whether to take off your shirt first or that of your girlfriend: that choice is up to her. Some girls feel pressured if they have to undress before the guy.
- Take off her shirt. Put your hands under her shirt and stroke her breasts before unbuttoning or taking it off.
- Take off your shirt. Don't go any further or you run the risk of looking too eager to take action.
- Take off her pants or skirt and touch her through her underwear. Password? Delicacy.
- Slowly take off her pants or skirt (maybe you can get her to help you), remove your pants. If you want, you can ask her to finish undressing.
- Now that you're both in your underwear, you can move on to the next level, but only if she's ready.
Method 3 of 3: Move to the Bedroom
Step 1. You should communicate clearly
Although you want to go to bed right away after seeing your girlfriend in her underwear, you should be absolutely sure that she wants it too. Ask her directly, but not aggressively - look her in the eye and wait for her answer.
Step 2. Get her excited in bed
If she wants to have sex, you'll need to keep turning her on:
- Kiss her whole body: neck, shoulders, breasts, belly and inner thigh.
- Tell her she's sexy, compliment her on her favorite parts and what she does.
- Touch her genitals very gently. Start doing this through your underwear, then take off your panties and touch them with one or two fingers. Take breaks. Wait until both of you are ready - if you're not willing to wait, you'll make her uncomfortable.
Step 3. Get her aroused while having sex
Start with a position and, after reaching a certain rhythm, change it. Here are some sequences to try:
- You start at the top. After a few minutes, ask her to relieve you. If she's too shy to do this or if she doesn't feel like it, don't force her.
- Find out what she likes. If she prefers to do it slowly or more aggressively, indulge her.
- Nibble on her neck or ears.
- Don't forget the breasts. Some men are so aroused by sex that they ignore other parts of the body - remember to caress them from time to time.
- Don't get obsessed with your orgasm - make sure she has it too, or at least try it. If you lose interest after your climax, she won't be impressed by you.
Step 4. Finish off big to make her want a new meeting to come soon
After having sex, cuddle or caress her so she feels loved and appreciated. Tell her she is sexy and that you liked everything you shared.
- After she's gone, text or phone her to remind her that you were really fine.
- Keep levels of sensuality high. On your next date, be well prepared and treasure what you have learned about her.
Advice
- When you talk to her, stroke her arms, legs or inner thigh - many girls get aroused.
- Brush your teeth or spray a refreshing spray before approaching her.
- Before kissing her, look into her eyes and take her face in your hands.
Warnings
- NEVER put pressure on her: you will make her angry or scared, do not excite.
- Make sure she likes your hot caresses. If he doesn't seem comfortable, he may be thinking that you are exaggerating and ruining the atmosphere.
- Each girl is different. Find out what she likes or dislikes before making any missteps.
- Don't be in a hurry: listen to your desires, but also hers.
