Have you been stuck in the "friend zone" with a special girl and instead would you like her to look at you with different eyes? The following are some simple tips to make sure you arouse the interest of the person concerned.
Steps
Step 1. Be patient
This girl, who has been your friend for a long time, will not magically fall in love with you overnight, despite all the progress you may have made with her. Don't think that just because you are good friends, she has to think that you can be a great boyfriend once you reveal your feelings to her. You have to try to make her understand by giving her clues. Remember that you'll have to get the odds to your side before you get busy, but we'll get back to that later.
Step 2. Continue being a good friend to her
Don't stop doing everything you used to do with her in order to start flirting relentlessly. You would scare her and endanger your relationship.
Step 3. Be bold
This is why you probably got stuck in the friend zone. Let her know how amazing you think she is (without exaggerating), live in the moment and, when you go out, compliment her about her physical appearance, for example: "You are always gorgeous, but, with that dress, today you are perfect … really. extraordinary."
Step 4. Flirt more
Start flirting with her a little more. Learn the art of kino, touch her, especially when flirting with her. It's not enough to just flirt with her, however. Flirt with other women too, especially in her presence (without overdoing it), let her know that you want the others too. This way, you will be on an equal footing because she will think you are confident and will respect you more.
Step 5. Make your move
At this point, you should be ready to ask her out. The best tactic is to invite her to an event where you will be the protagonist, for example, your birthday party. Take her somewhere outdoors or in a quiet place, where no one will disturb you, hold her tight, look her straight in the eye and ask her: "Would you like to go out sometime?" He will immediately understand that you do not mean going out with friends.
Step 6. Make physical contact right away
The best way to get out of the friend zone is to get intimate. When walking, hold her hand, put your arms around her waist, and watch her body language. If he doesn't try to pull you away, it means he's comfortable with you.
Step 7. The kiss
If the right opportunity happens before your appointment ends, grab it; otherwise, greet her with a hug by placing your hands lightly above her waist. Press lightly with your fingers on his back. She will get closer to you; kiss her cheek, kiss her neck, look her in the eye and aim for her lips.
Advice
- Remember not to overdo it. If you try to force things and she isn't ready to establish a different kind of relationship with you, keep in mind that you could ruin your friendship forever.
- Try to take care of your appearance more.
- Wait for the right time.
