They say that the eyes are the window to the soul, but what is certain is that they are the door to a first date. Eye contact is a universal way to start flirting. To do this correctly, you need to take care of your eyes and learn how to use them when interacting with the object of your attention.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Enhancing the Eyes
Step 1. Curl your lashes
Curling your lashes will make them appear longer and fuller, resulting in your eyes looking bigger. The beauty of this method is that the trick is there but you can't see it. To get the desired result, buy or borrow an eyelash curler.
- Grab the curler like it's a pair of scissors. Open it and rest it at the base of your lashes, with the curved part facing up and away from your face.
- Once the curler is in place at the base of the lashes, close it gently, then release it and close it again in short intervals. Gently roll it up to curl your lashes. Hold it in this position for a few seconds, then slowly drag it along the entire length of the lashes, opening and closing it gently.
Step 2. Keep your eyebrows tidy
Many men prefer not to treat them in any way, but it is often important to do so, especially if they are particularly bushy and indomitable. Look for a beautician who has experience with specific treatments for men - don't assume that a professional will be able to do this just because your partner is satisfied with how she works.
Eyebrows generally need to be treated with tweezers rather than waxing. Waxing makes lines hard, edgy and artificial
Step 3. Comb the eyebrows
Take a special comb, then comb it up and towards the temples - you will see that this will make a difference. Even without using cosmetics, combing them will make them look fuller and more tidy.
Step 4. Get a homemade eye treatment
There are completely natural treatments that require an exposure time of no more than 10 minutes. A finely sliced cucumber or Granny Smith apple can help fight eye swelling. Similarly, a sliced potato can be used to lessen dark circles.
To make sure that the color around the eyes is always uniform, do the treatment with potato slices twice a week
Step 5. Use the eye drops to fight the redness of the eyes.
Available in pharmacies, the eye drops can be used to reduce redness caused by fatigue, allergies and certain substances.
Avoid taking alcohol and drugs, as they can cause redness
Step 6. Use the eye cream
It is a type of cream that should be applied to the eye area. It has the same anti-aging properties as other moisturizers, but also contains specific ingredients to treat the skin of this area and remedy its imperfections. For example, it helps prevent swelling by keeping the skin smooth and glowing. Like other moisturizers, it also helps fight wrinkles.
Part 2 of 3: Taking Care of the Eyes
Step 1. Get enough sleep
You can often have problems with bags, soreness or discomfort in the eyes due to lack of sleep. Generally, it is recommended that you sleep eight hours a night, but this tends to vary with age.
Step 2. Take care of the power supply
Zinc and vitamins C, E and A are good for the eyes. For more, eat oranges, mangoes, strawberries, carrots, peaches, nuts, seeds, papayas, and spinach. As for zinc, eat turkey, chicken, yogurt, and fortified cereals.
Step 3. Drink eight glasses of water a day
Water keeps the skin hydrated, healthy and young. Instead, avoid overdoing alcohol, which dehydrates.
It is for the same reason that moisturizers help keep the skin around the eyes young
Step 4. Keep your skin clean
Take care of the delicate eye area. Do not use harsh soaps and avoid rubbing it. Protect it by applying a non-abrasive cleaner with a cotton swab.
Step 5. From time to time, massage the skin around the eyes to promote good circulation
Draw small circles around the inner edge of the eye, then work your way up to the temples and work your way down to the jaw. Repeat for good results.
Part 3 of 3: Flirting with the Eyes
Step 1. Your eyes must be slow and controlled
If you move your eyes quickly, it will appear that you are casting furtive glances. When you slowly move your eyes towards the person you are interested in, you will seem more confident. Plus, she'll likely notice you're looking at her, so you'll have a much better chance of staring back.
Before looking at the person you're interested in, it's best to give them time to react and look at you. If she thinks she took the initiative, she will feel a greater interest in you
Step 2. Look her directly in the eye
It is one of the most intimate things you can do. Looking a stranger in the eye for two minutes has been shown to fuel emotions associated with passion and love. However, you should take it easy on someone you don't know. Watch it for three to five seconds before looking away.
- Avoid stealthily shifting your gaze from one eye to the other. Instead, look directly at the center.
- Focus on her face, not on other parts of her body.
Step 3. Smile at her
When you look someone in the eye, smile. A smile is an almost universal sign of courtship and conveys positive intentions. Try to be honest: a genuine smile activates different facial muscles than a fake one, and is generally considered more attractive.
- Think positively and calmly. The eyes and smile reflect the mood.
- To convey more emotion through your eyes, try raising your eyebrow while smiling.
Step 4. Be insightful
If she doesn't look back or smile back, she may not be interested in you, otherwise she would behave differently. After looking away for a while, look into her eyes and see how she reacts. Come closer and say hello.
Step 5. Keep looking her in the eye, but don't stare
While talking, keep eye contact about 80% of the time. Make sure you watch her talk to you so that she actually seems interested. When you make a joke or look like you're putting on airs, look away. Constant eye contact at this stage of the conversation may sound like you are desperate for a reaction, so you risk appearing unsure of yourself.
