When a girl has a boyfriend as her best friend she feels she has a strong interest in, it's not always easy to ask him out. There is the fear of losing friendship and for this he will be hesitant to make an invitation. If you are a girl who wishes to have more than a friendship with her best friend, call him because it's time to find the courage and ask him out!
Steps
Step 1. Behave as you normally do
Being yourself is extremely important. Not only will he get suspicious if you act strangely, but he'll likely get on high alert and not show up.
Step 2. Ask him questions about what he does on the weekend
He is your best friend. As far as I know, you could suggest that they go to the library together.
Step 3.
Step 4. Compliment him
By being his best friend, you will already know something about him. Let him know you appreciate what you know about him. Don't overdo it, but be sensible.
Step 5. Ask him if he would like to see a movie or do something that interests both of you
If you feel uncomfortable to call and make an appointment, just ask him if he wants to "go to the movies". Congratulations! You asked him out!
Step 6. Go further
So, do you want to kiss him? Take your time! If he's someone worth dating beyond friendship, take it easy. Let the relationship grow and mature a little. Beautiful things take time. Be happy that he is your best friend and make sure nothing ruins your bond. However for you he will come to the edge of the earth as a best friend. Don't complicate the situation. The most important thing is to make sure that she feels the same way about you.
Advice
- Don't beat yourself up if he pushes you away. Maybe he's not ready for this change. Accept that you are still her friend and be open, honest and forthright about this so that nothing changes in your friendship.
- Be gentle and subtle when flirting with him if you're the shy type. If, on the other hand, you are more courageous, dare a little more by putting your hands on his hips or doing a rather sexy gesture. Remember he is still a friend, regardless of everything.
- Sometimes it's best to casually tell him what you really feel, and when you do, be modest. If he already suspects something, declaring yourself can eliminate some tension and possibly make your friendship stronger.
Warnings
- Don't be impatient, or you risk scaring him.
- Even if you're nervous, don't get someone else to ask them for you. It's best to see his first reaction right away. Also, the other person is not likely to tell how they really feel.
- Try not to get noticed while trying to seduce him, because people can notice and you risk feeling embarrassed if everyone knows that he has not paid you back.
- Don't tell all your friends you like them. Absolutely not. You have to be the one asking him out. He won't like the idea that anyone but him already knew what you were feeling.
- Don't get another friend to ask him for you.
