Flirting can be difficult with anyone; therefore, sometimes knowing how to meet someone's needs can be helpful. Knowing their zodiac sign is one way to do this. In this article, in particular, we suggest how to break through the heart of a calm and reserved Cancer (June 21 - July 22 or June 22 - July 23, depending on the year).
Steps
Step 1. Recognize the sign of Cancer
To flirt with a Cancer, you first need to be able to recognize one. Asking your date of birth can make things easier, as can asking your zodiac sign directly, but a few good clues can still make the process more harmonious. Those born under this sign are often shy in social situations. Unless they have at least one good friend by their side, they are unlikely to voluntarily decide to voluntarily step out of their shell without encouragement. Try to identify those people who, despite finding themselves in an enlarged social situation, seem to want to talk to only one or two people. Those born under the sign of Cancer are highly dependent on feelings of security, therefore in every situation they remain extremely close to their "family group". As for appearance, a Cancer can often be recognized by the fact that the chest is a prominent feature. In women this can mean slightly more voluminous breasts than their body size. In men this often manifests itself in a larger chest than might be expected. It is common for those belonging to the sign of Cancer to take refuge in sweet, starchy foods and traditional cuisine.
Step 2. Loosen the approach
Since a Cancer typically finds themselves uncomfortable in larger social situations, it is best not to scare them if possible. Courtesy, calm and friendly manners are qualities to be kept in mind initially. By remembering that a Cancer seeks safety, make it clear that you do not intend to harm or disturb in any way by entering "his space".
Step 3. Be alert, somewhat protective, but still relaxed
Try not to sound threatening or too energetic. Choose relaxed body language. Those born under the sign of Cancer prefer to have a more direct and private conversation, with one person at a time, so direct your body in their direction and / or lean slightly to show that they are holding your full attention, while preventing possible distractions or interruptions..
Step 4. Be ready with compelling conversation topics
In the beginning, it is easier to engage a Cancer in an interesting conversation than in something active like a dance or a game. Prudent topics usually include cooking, children, school, history, photography, painting, drawing, and dreams. Slightly dominating the conversation is a good choice as Cancer people love to listen, don't deprive them of the time to express their views and preferences though. As they start to feel more confident, and they begin to let their guard down, it becomes easier to engage them in other activities.
Step 5. Give sober compliments
Praise like "Hey, how sexy you look tonight" is usually difficult for a Cancer to handle and can be the cause of a retreat or cause of nervousness. Friendly and thoughtful compliments are the most appropriate choice. You will know that you have hit the mark when you feel a slight agitation and see a shy but clearly sincere smile appear.
Advice
- Give yourself ample time to familiarize yourself with yourself. Cancer people may be shy at first, but that doesn't mean they're not interested in you or the topic of discussion.
- Find the clues. Cancer people will rarely express their feelings or thoughts directly and in the moment. They often tend not to say things openly right away, although the expressions on their faces and the language of their bodies are an open book.
- Be patient. It may take some time for it to decide to break out of its protective shell. And sometimes, to assert themselves in the conversation, the Cancer person might launch into a long and verbose explanation or memories of some kind. If this is the case, you can learn something about him, so be patient and listen carefully.
- Be honest and loyal. A Cancer always values sincerity and devotion. Don't flirt with other people. Cancer people tend to be jealous, like those born under the sign of Pisces and Scorpio.
Warnings
- Don't insult his family, no matter how much you complain about it.
- Do not lie and do not deceive a Cancer. They are very hot-tempered and sensitive people, and you definitely don't want to suffer from their explosive rage.
