You like that classmate of yours and would like to know him better but you are too shy. No fear. This guide is for you!
Steps
Step 1. Find the right place and time
Sometimes even the most flirtatious experts can't win over their crush because they get the timing and location wrong, so think about it before making your move. Try talking to him in the lobby, at the canteen, before class, or during a gym run. Don't try to get his attention when he's surrounded by a group of friends unless he's the one inviting you. Impossible? Go to him when there are a couple of them at the most.
Step 2. Make a joke. Most guys like girls with a sense of humor. Talk about TV shows, movies and cartoons such as 'The Simpsons', 'Three and a Half Men', and 'Monty Python and the Holy Grail'. If you don't know any, ask him. Or talk about something funny your teacher said in class.
Step 3. Be cheerful
Guys don't like those who always have problems with everything. Your dream boyfriend doesn't want to hear about your quarrels with your best friend, especially when you're still getting to know each other. Try to keep a low profile and stick to topics like movies, teachers, homework, sports teams, and books. Getting to know guys as friends makes things easier!
Step 4. Ask questions and tell stories
Don't always talk about yourself! That way you'd take it apart and think you're a snob. If he is a quiet type during a conversation ask him questions such as: "How did your math test go?" or "You'll never know what happened to science today!" If you're looking a little excited, she'll listen.
Step 5. Physically flirt with him
If you are sitting next to him while you are talking, graze him with your elbow and laugh when he teases you. If you've known each other for a while, you can even wink at him and touch his hand fleetingly.
Step 6. Be slightly difficult to conquer
You don't have to throw yourself at him with open arms because you appreciate yourself. Being a difficult achievement will create a sense of challenge. For example, if he offers you to go to the movies, say, "I don't know, I might be busy." Say it with a smirk so he'll be sure you're provoking him. And if you really like him and want to do more than just flirt, say you like someone. It will drive him crazy that he will want to know who he is, if it's not him. You will also start a conversation, which is an added bonus in this case.
Step 7. Know when to stop flirting
If you've tried every idea that came to your mind to get his attention and he doesn't respond, move on. He may not be interested in you. Sometimes, after a girl starts flirting with others, the guy she's interested in catches her. However, it doesn't always happen and usually he ends up dedicating himself to the others.
Advice
- Have faith in yourself. Even if you're afraid of talking to a guy, pretend he's one of your many friends.
- If you're afraid of flirting with him, start with a banal "Hi". He will probably appreciate it, especially if he's shy himself.
- Treated to be clean and fragrant! Remember to shower and shave, use deodorant and if you want, put on some perfume such as lemon or vanilla.
- Always be true to yourself. To the detriment of everything.
- You smile! Even if you have braces, give him a smirk. And make him laugh.
- If you're always shy, try to push yourself, jump into the fray, and try to look funny and attractive, because that's the kind of girl boys want.
- Remember: flirting should be fun, not hard. If it doesn't work with him, there are others to try.
- Use the jokes to your advantage! If you start to turn up your nose laughing and he teases you, say something nice but in a derisive tone: "Well, I'm sorry I'm not afraid of being different!
Warnings
- You don't need to be skinny or rich to please a guy. You have to be nice and honest.
- If a guy tells you, "Right now, I don't know what I want" several times, it means he's not interested in you. Many girls make this mistake. Guys use this phrase because they are afraid to confess the truth.
- When flirting, be careful. Sometimes people who flirt get hurt. Protect your heart!
- Flirting is supposed to be fun. If he doesn't like you, move on to the next guy. There are so many out there!
- If you try to flirt with a guy via text message and it ends badly, you can use as an excuse that a friend stole your cell phone and do something else so that he believes you.
- Don't flirt with busy guys. It would end in a big problem, especially if the guy you like belongs to a friend of yours. Wait for them to break up!
