When you hear the word "conservative," you usually think of politics, but being a conservative (or traditionalist) girl goes beyond political identification. It's a life style. This article gives tips on how to live (or just emulate) the life of a conservative girl.
Steps
Step 1. Define what "conservative" means to you
A conservative is defined as a person who "favors a traditional vision and values; tends to oppose change; has a traditional or restrained style; moderate, cautious".
- "Conservative" can be applied to appearance, lifestyle choices or political ideas.
- You can be a traditional girl in just one of these aspects or all of them. It's your choice.
Part 1 of 3: Look
Step 1. Choose the right clothes
Choose clothes that fit you, but that aren't too flashy.
- Start with a wardrobe of neutral colors (black, white, gray, brown, light blue) and add colors just to give it an extra touch.
- Shirts, dresses, pants, jackets, skirts are fine to start with.
- You can also be fashionable by avoiding clothes that are too tight, short or vulgar.
- Some details make the difference, such as fastening an extra button on your blouse or wearing a shirt under a sweater that is too tight.
- Do not wear sweaters with too deep neckline that show the décolleté: it is good not to uncover too much. Or if you're wearing a shirt, fasten all the buttons. You will still get a nice effect, but you will appear more correct, sensitive and conservative (ie the effect you want!).
Step 2. Choose the right accessories
Jewelry and other accessories should be modest, tasteful and classic.
- Pearl necklaces, diamonds, tennis bracelets are all examples of classic jewelry.
- A printed scarf, a shiny brooch or a simple necklace are the easiest way to add some color and style while maintaining good taste.
Step 3. Choose a classic hairstyle
Conservative girls have neat but simple hair.
- A simple hairstyle is best. The slightly scaled bob is a good choice. A neat chignon or ponytail are also good options.
- You can also dye your hair, but choose natural colors. You won't see many traditionalist girls with green locks in their hair.
- Whichever style you choose, keep your hair clean.
Step 4. Keep the makeup simple and discreet
Choose neutral and natural colors.
- Apply only light makeup.
- If you like to use bright make-up, choose one part of the face to highlight and the rest do it in a discreet way. Pair a red lipstick with lighter eye makeup; if you like a brighter eyeshadow, choose a neutral colored lipstick or lip gloss.
- A discreet tattoo is acceptable, but do it in a place where it is easy to hide it under clothing.
Part 2 of 3: Traditionalist Lifestyle and Philosophy
Step 1. Adopt the traditionalist lifestyle
A girl who chooses a conservative lifestyle is reserved, cautious, attentive and polite. Sometimes she may seem a bit old-fashioned, but above all, she respects herself and others.
Step 2. Respect yourself and your body
Conservative girls respect themselves, their bodies and their health. They take great care of themselves.
- Get enough sleep, eat healthy food, and exercise.
- Go to the doctor and dentist regularly.
- Do not abuse alcohol and other substances; or even better, don't hire them at all.
Step 3. Respect others
Traditionalist girls have good manners, respect etiquette and are always very polite.
- Don't interrupt when someone is talking. Wait your turn.
- Always say "please", "thank you" and "sorry".
- Address others with "Mr." or "Mrs.", unless they tell you to call them by name.
- Help when you can. Keep the door open for others (yes, women can too), or leave room on the bus for an elderly person.
Step 4. Make appointments and have fun, but be careful
Conservative girls can have a love life, while remaining secretive.
- Let the boys look for you. Avoid too much flirting and don't randomly throw yourself on a date.
- You don't necessarily have to wait for marriage to have intercourse, but wait as long as possible. It's another way to respect yourself!
- Don't brag about your achievements. A traditional girl doesn't go around saying who she kisses.
- When evaluating a guy, focus on personality, interests and values; don't stop at physical appearance or sexual attraction.
Step 5. Listen to more mature music
Although you can enjoy any kind of music, a more conservative person usually prefers country, gospel music, older contemporary authors like Maria Carey or Michael Buble), classic rock and, in general, the current Top 40. Rap, alternative music and other forms of rock are not the most popular genres in this context. Jazz and classical music might be in your taste.
Step 6. Try to be prudent with money
A conservative girl is usually very money-conscious. He knows it's important to think about the future.
- Make a budget and stick to that. Always plan to set aside some savings.
- Avoid running into debt. If you already have one, make a repayment plan.
- Make prudent investments. You certainly don't want to lose the money you have saved. Check each investment well before signing up.
Part 3 of 3: Politics
Step 1. Learn what it means to be a conservative in politics
If you want to identify yourself as a conservative in the political sphere as well, you need to know what that means. Conservatives usually believe in:
- Economic freedom, low taxes and free market;
- A system of local government and rights for citizens;
- An approach to constitutional laws based on the intentions behind them;
- A strong national defense system.
Step 2. Understand the difference between political and social conservatism
Many conservative politicians also believe in traditional social values. Eg:
- A particular emphasis on faith, family and religion;
- Traditional marriage and other family values;
- Abortion must be strictly limited.
Step 3. Find out about political parties
You don't necessarily have to join a political party, but knowing them is a good way to start.
- Read the programs of conservative political groups. Many conservatives identify with the Republican Party.
- Also inquire about conservative parties in other countries.
- Decide if you agree with their ideas.
Advice
- Learn what core themes are most important to you. You will be able to discuss this if anyone were to ask you what things you believe in.
- Don't let your friends change you. If they are true friends, they won't try to do it.
- Just because you want to be a conservative girl doesn't mean you have to be a housewife. Feel free to pursue any career that is compatible with what you believe in.
