So you found a Virgo woman who caught your eye, huh? Nobody can blame you. The girl born between August 22nd and September 21st is a seductive and entrancing woman. She is feminine and reserved and at the same time, strong and certainly of good principles. Want to know how to make sure he only has eyes for you? It's easy, with a slow approach, impressing her with your wit and adapting to her perfectionism.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Creating the Connection
Step 1. First try to be his friend
The woman born under this sign exposes herself slowly. He needs to know who you are and to be comfortable with you before the relationship can turn romantic or sexual. She loves knowing exactly what she's going through, so it's best to make friends with her first. If there's anything worth waiting for, it's definitely her.
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Use light, casual touches to get used to physical contact with you. You will creep the touch into his subconscious. We hope you start to like it and want your contact more and more. When he starts to touch you in turn, you will know that everything is going well.
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Step 2. Make the first move
Virgo women are very shy; so, be careful not to confuse this shyness with a lack of interest in you. To start a relationship, you have to be the one to take the initiative, because she is too traditional and shy for her to do so. Once he gets to know you, however, his shyness will disappear and he will trust you.
- Know exactly what you want to do - she will be drawn to your conscious determination. Tell her exactly where you want to take her for dinner or what you'd like to do over the weekend. Who could refuse an offer presented with so much confidence and desire?
- Be traditional. Don't take her to a dark, isolated room to start loosening your belt. Be romantic and take it step by step. She needs to be courted above all else.
Step 3. Be kind to him
Learn the best way to compliment her. Virgo women have a penchant for romantic words and prefer to be called "beautiful" or "gorgeous" rather than "sexy" or "hot". She doesn't like machos. Games are not for her.
She is looking for a partner who is a constant presence, who can help her not to worry and who puts her at ease even intellectually. If you want to engage in cat-and-mouse or tug-of-war, she won't be there. She wants to know that you are in love with her and her alone and she is not going anywhere. In short, he needs to trust you
Step 4. Try to have intelligent conversations with her
Above all else, the Virgo woman will esteem your mind. It's great if you're sweet and handsome, but if you're not smart, he'll walk away right away. So when you are talking to her, find what stimulates her. She probably cares about everything!
She'll love it if you can talk about current affairs, politics, literature, music, history, science and everything in between. If you can keep up with her, she'll know you deserve her and will deem you worthy of her. So start reading
Step 5. Read in his eyes
Since Virgo is an animal that needs to be flushed out of its lair, it is important to feel how it feels about you. When you're sitting next to her, look her in the eye. If they are lustful and scream that she's dying to get close to you, go find her. If they're saying, "What the hell are you doing?", It's time to back off instead.
You will be able to understand Virgo once you know how to interpret it. Sometimes you will be wrong, but, if you already have a friendship relationship, you should be good enough by now. But, if it gets bad, you could always speak to her openly! He'll appreciate your straightforwardness if you do it tactfully and diplomatically
Part 2 of 3: The Right Appearance
Step 1. Dress elegantly
The Virgo woman likes her partner to be well dressed. She is quite a perfectionist, so you need to know how to match the clothes well (she doesn't want to waste her time doing it for you!). The casual Virgo will do well with a nice t-shirt with jeans, but the more refined one requires a jacket and elegant shoes. Whatever it is, get involved.
It doesn't mean you need to be trendy. No, no, no - there are classic pieces that a Virgo woman will always appreciate. A good shirt buttoned up to the neck, a nice jacket - even a nostalgic vintage tee will get its approval. As long as you take care of your look, she will notice it
Step 2. Try to adopt good hygiene
Besides wearing the right clothes, you need to be clean! The Virgo woman needs a partner who is well cared for: this means clean ears, clean nails, clean nose, everything clean. And smell good too!
Step 3. Keep your life clean too
If Virgo gets into your car and has to move between candy wrappers to sit down, rather go on foot. Obviously to go back to his home. He can't stand messes and doesn't tolerate yours. Being with someone who is not organized for her is a total disinterest. He will have no choice but to get out of bed and clean your room for you! It's definitely not romantic.
So when you find her organizing your closet by number of clothes, you shouldn't be surprised. This is her. You shouldn't try to change the way you are - unless you're the type to leave pizza on the floor for later. The Virgo woman doesn't need a partner who is as clean as she is, but she doesn't want a dirty one either
Step 4. Be everything
The Virgo woman wants her lover to be everything - smart, funny, cute and loving. While intelligence is certainly crucial to her, ideally you should have a whole set of impressive qualities. Be as balanced as possible because she finds more and more things about you to love.
To make her want more, talk to her about everything. Intrigue her. It could be literally anything. If you want to talk about eighteenth-century Swiss art, fine. If you want to talk about the Kardashians, great. Show her that you can handle every part of her and her mind
Part 3 of 3: Being Compatible
Step 1. Help her worry less
The Virgo mind is continuously in operation. All time. She is constantly fussy about something, including herself. She needs someone who can help her calm down, be her rock. If you can do this, there will be no way she can let you go.
- When you see that she is thinking, ask her what is going on. If it doesn't open, don't give up. He may simply feel uncomfortable asking for help. Let her know you're there if and when she needs you.
- By the time you get to know her better, chances are you already have some idea of at least some of the reasons she's worried. Try removing the chestnuts from the fire by relieving her from some chore. Do you have to run errands? Clean the house? What can you do to help her have more time to relax?
Step 2. Face her perfectionism
Since his mind is constantly in operation, he notices every detail. If there is something wrong, he will surely notice. Likewise, when the shirt is a little wrinkled in the back, she notices it right away. When your spice cabinet isn't tidy, she gets it. It is not a very serious problem, but it is something that will remain in his head.
Things can take a little longer with her because of this. Even though the Virgo woman will always be on time, she probably knows how to allocate more time to specific commitments. If she is the creative type, she could indulge in her art for days
Step 3. Take her to the outdoors
Virgo women love the country life. If you want to see her smile, take her out. Take her on a picnic or go hiking. Rent a pedal boat and sail on the lake. She's not the type to complain about the weather or need her hair to be perfect all the time. Bring her outdoors and you will offer her a memory to keep forever!
Step 4. Know that it can be quite confidential
Sure, there will be times when she feels like opening up, but she usually wants to stay private. Keep your displays of affection to a minimum - you will have time to be affectionate at home.
Sometimes the Virgo woman is silent about her emotions. If you want to know what he is thinking or feeling, you may need to ask him. It's not because she doesn't have feelings for you; it's only because she feels that emotions are an incredibly personal matter
Step 5. Keep your word
The Virgo woman must know she can trust. For this reason, be sure to keep your word. For example, if you say you will call her at 3pm, call her at that time, not half an hour earlier or later. If you are reliable, it will approach you without a problem.
So, before you state that you will do anything, make sure you can actually do it. Don't make promises you can't keep, and if you have to break them, it must be for good intentions. You will need to explain your situation to her. She will appreciate your honesty and your attempt to meet her
Step 6. Make compromises
Virgo women hate fights. They will make you do what you want, but deep down, they will be very disappointed. This can lead to deep fractures in the relationship. Meet his needs for the happiness of both of you.
Check your character. A normally kind Virgo woman is very disappointed with unwarranted anger. Listen to her when she talks to you. Usually what he tells you is important, otherwise he wouldn't bother you
Step 7. Be faithful
Virgo women are very sensitive and seek a loyal and faithful partner. Virgo may love courtship, but once they feel they are in a relationship they are completely centered on it. The man capable of conquering a Virgo woman will be the only man in her life.
Virgo women are very sensitive and are looking for a stable partner who is loyal and faithful. She might flirt as well, but, once in a relationship, she fully engages. The man who wins a Virgo woman will be the only man in her life
Advice
- Never, never, never lying to a Virgo woman. He is strong enough to accept any truth and cannot stand dishonesty.
- Be trustworthy and honest to build trust. Virgo tends to worry and this will help put her at ease.
- If you decide to get a Virgo woman, you must behave like a gentleman and NOT like a primitive. Virgo women hate people who try to control them and, like Scorpios, they never change to please someone.
- Virgo women like the smell of candles, fresh laundry, perfume and cologne.
- Virgo will forgive, but only if she realizes that you are truly sorry for hurting her: don't do it again.
- Virgo women don't decide to date a man based on appearances or money. So it is essential to have a great sense of humor and a good outlook on life.
- Don't promise a Virgo lady anything you can't keep.
- Virgins hate louts and filth; they don't date men who don't take care of themselves - and their homes.
- If your car is dirty and doesn't have a full tank, forget about them as well.
Warnings
- You have to be patient with the Virgo woman, because it takes some time to get to know her.
- If you are mean, selfish, sloppy, ignorant, rude or lazy, a Virgo woman is not for you.
- Virgo women can be really terrible when they get angry.
