Capricorn men are known for their confidentiality, work ethic and difficulty in trusting. However, once you manage to break through the wall of cold that sometimes surrounds him, you will find under that armor an intelligent, passionate and devoted man. Go to step 1 and find out how to best date a Capricorn man.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Wooing Capricorn
Step 1. Go to events related to the world of work
The first thing to know about a Capricorn is that he is highly motivated. The best places to find it include business meetings, charity events, or career motivational meetings. Capricorn men strive to reach the top in their work, so if you show off in these places you will certainly be able to capture their interest.
Step 2. Lower the tone of the clothing
Capricorn men are quite reserved. Because of this they tend to be attracted to partners who dress in a sophisticated but more traditional way. Shocking heels and microscopic dresses are not the best choice to attract your capricorn. Choose something classy, but with a touch of femininity.
Step 3. Show your intellect
Capricorn guys like the head above all. Despite your fabulous dress or gorgeous features, if you turn out to be a goose or a freak, the Capricorn will lose all interest. Show off your brain by entertaining it with brilliant conversation. Stay on your own and stay composed - don't freak out if he makes a joke.
Don't even be afraid to throw some joking digs: Capricorns often have a humorous streak that tends to be sarcastic
Step 4. Earn their trust
Capricorns have a hard time opening up to others. Before letting you in, they will need to be certain that you are a trusted person. Be honest and open up to him, but expect some time to pass before he does it with you. Your Capricorn needs it, but with a little help from you - by showing him to support him and to be someone he can trust - he will eventually give you access to his heart.
Be careful not to betray the trust he places in you, even unintentionally. Once the Capricorn feels betrayed, it will generally take even longer before they trust again, if they do
Step 5. Don't play mind games
If there's one thing Capricorn doesn't appreciate it's relationships based on this. If he catches you doing this, clarify and wait for him to meet you halfway. Don't try to make him jealous with another guy in front of him by acting passively aggressive or being 'precious'. With a Capricorn man, you would get the opposite reaction, he would go full speed and without looking back.
Step 6. Invite him to a quiet evening
The best way to get to know your Capricorn and show him you mean it is to take the first step. Invite him to dinner, a picnic, or something else together. A noisy party might make him uncomfortable, while inviting him to an intimate dinner might lead him to open up. It's your time to put yourself out there, talk about what you're passionate about, and allow them to relax with an inspiring conversation.
Step 7. Be patient
Capricorn men are renowned for becoming friends with a woman before considering dating her. For this your patience will be tested. While dating a Capricorn, don't rush him or push him towards something. He'll draw his own conclusions as he spends more time with you. Keep his attention by showing him your support. Go to a fundraiser he organizes, read the articles he writes, give him a sincere compliment that shows him how you can be a supportive partner.
Part 2 of 2: Keeping the Relationship Alive
Step 1. Trust him
Capricorn men are renowned for taking love life as their job: seriously. They are not usually the ones who cheat. Once they fall in love with you, they will work hard to make the relationship work. Even if it takes him a while to open up, once his decision is made, Capricorn will be a devoted person by your side.
Step 2. He will often spend his evenings in the office, being late
Capricorn is a serious workaholic. He takes the job very seriously and will also do it for a long time. Be prepared for this and know that it is not a sign that he is losing interest in you. He works seriously and aims to do his best.
Step 3. Keep the drama to a minimum
Capricorns seek stability, they want devotion and seriousness in the relationship. The hysteria and games will lead him to close the story. If he is troubling you, tell him what he did to you and why you felt this way. Your Capricorn wants you to be happy and when you tell him exactly what you need or don't like, he will do everything in his power to try not to get it wrong again.
Step 4. Support him as you work at the same time to achieve your goals
The idea of a perfect relationship for a Capricorn man is one that gives autonomy to both parties. Support him in his efforts and he will do it with you. Since he is highly motivated, you yourself will need to have ideals and goals to aim for. The best relationship with these men is based on both being independent but close to each other.
Step 5. Be passionate in the bedroom
Capricorn can be reserved in everyday life but extremely passionate in the room. He has excellent attention to detail (one of the reasons he's great at work) which makes him a great lover. Meet his passion with yours.
However, remember that Capricorns are quite traditional, they will not like role-playing games, massages and other things that are a little too 'spicy'
Step 6. Know that Capricorn men don't particularly like noisy parties
This means that giving him a surprise one is probably not a great idea. As you will learn by trying to get his attention, Capricorns only have a select handful of friends and family. It takes them a long time to trust people. This is why an evening in a club with a group of his closest friends or an evening at home with you is better than going to a disco or a party where you don't know half the people.
Your Capricorn will truly appreciate the fact that you can lead the game in those social areas where he is uncomfortable. Being able to socialize is a value that the Capricorn man greatly appreciates
Step 7. Buy him simple and practical gifts
Boys of this sign prefer things that are functional and not particularly showy. Instead of the 2,000-euro watch with the gems, better a Swiss army knife or a barbecue grill in the garden, which he particularly appreciates.
Step 8. Keep public effusions to a minimum
They are not easy for him. Holding hands will be fine (he may prefer it due to his protective nature) but making out in the middle of the street would probably make him uncomfortable. Capricorns don't like to show private life, so think twice before grabbing him by the collar and kissing him in public.
Same with gossip. They are men who love the private. If they come to find that you have shared their secrets with anyone who listens to you, they may feel betrayed and lose faith in you. Only talk about your relationship with trusted friends
Advice
- Be patient. Most Capricorns don't fall in love by snapping their fingers. She needs to get to know you as a friend first.
- Always behave yourself. Capricorns are quite traditional, they won't be attracted to people who belch in public or act sloppy.
