Facebook has now become a kind of bar or party at a friend's house. However, if you see a pretty girl, you can't just look at her to get her attention or physically get close to her. However, it is possible to conquer a girl through a screen. How to play your cards?
Steps
Part 1 of 2: A Sensational Profile
Step 1. Post photos that flatter you
Don't start chatting with a girl if you don't update photos from elementary school. Insert some recent shots and make sure they do you justice. Don't post photos of yourself with a million different girls, or you'll look like a dude. Also avoid photos where you are drunk or behaving clumsily.
- Review each photo and ask yourself "What would a girl think?". If the answer is no, delete it.
- You can keep a couple of photos with some girls to show that the other sex likes to date. But nothing provocative!
Step 2. Let her understand that you have a social life
You should have lots of friends, post interesting publications on the wall, agree to attend events, comment on others' photos and links, let your friends comment on yours. He must realize that you are a funny guy and that many people find you agreeable.
- If you only have 10 friends on Facebook and the board hasn't been updated in a year, she'll be suspicious.
- Don't post too often - you don't want this girl to think Facebook is your life.
- Don't make her think you're trying to seduce a lot of girls on Facebook, even if you really do. Hide these types of messages and limit this kind of conversation to private chat.
Step 3. Let your profile make you look special
You shouldn't open your heart on Facebook, but allow it to browse your profile to find out something about you. If you like a certain band, post a song on the bulletin board; if you like surfing, post photos while riding the waves. Show her that you have a lot of interests besides this social network.
Part 2 of 2: Choose the Girl
Step 1. Find a nice, nice and single girl who lives in your area
In theory, it would be better to know it already. Maybe choose one from your school or from your extended social circle. Better to avoid complete strangers. Make sure he's not in a relationship; if you can see the photos, avoid girlfriends with super possessive looking guys.
Step 2. Ask her for friendship and wait for her to accept you
A complete stranger may ignore you and even block you, especially if you found her by accident and she lives in the other part of the country.
- If you've talked to her for two minutes and aren't sure if she remembers you, you can text her when you request her friendship. Don't write too much: “I enjoyed talking to you at Michele's party” is enough.
- If you see a nice girl's comments on your friend's wall, try to join the conversation. Come forward if she likes your comment or responds to you.
- Be aware that Facebook has a strict anti-harassment policy. If you send her a friend request and she doesn't accept it, don't insist or bombard her with aggressive messages, or she'll report you to the site and your profile will be disabled forever.
Step 3. Go to their page after they accept your friend request:
you will find out more about her and see if she is active on Facebook. The more you know, the easier it will be to talk to her. Pay attention to the following aspects:
- Check if you have any mutual friends and look at her photos to see who she goes out with. If you recognize someone, name them casually during a conversation.
- Learn about her hobbies by looking at her photos, reading the publications on her wall and seeing which bands she likes. So you will know if she likes to go to the beach, play tennis or go out every night.
- Check out his links. Do you like the songs from Justin Timberlake's latest CD? Do you like an article on Obama? Seize his interests.
- Read his posts to find out what he thinks about work or school, what his favorite team is or what he will do next weekend.
Step 4. Start talking to her
Do not rush. Don't text her that you find her sexy right after she accepts your friend request. Develop your friendships and study his publications. Then, start commenting on her photos or status. Make sure she gets back to you and likes your comments - you don't want to talk to yourself.
- Engage in a long conversation via comments at the right time. If she keeps writing to you, then she must like you.
- As the relationship develops, you can post a link on his wall. Do this only once and wait for her to reciprocate before repeating it.
- Don't tell her that you know her interests because you have analyzed her page. Say you accidentally realized you have something in common with her. Or, if you know she supports Milan, post a status on the team and wait for her to leave you an "Like".
Step 5. Send her a message
Once you have a certain feeling, you can move on to the next level. Just a sentence about something that made you think of her or a link to something she likes. You can flirt a little.
- Wait for me to answer. If he asks you a question, then he will want to keep talking to you.
- Answer her. After a few exchanges, it is clear that they are interested.
Step 6. Start chatting with her
Not everyone likes this Facebook feature, and she may be connected over her phone or while at work, so she may not be aware of your message. If she likes to chat, use this medium to deepen your knowledge.
- Flirt if she seems interested in you. You can greet her by saying “You looked great in the photo you just posted”. Let her know you like her, but don't overdo it.
- Talk about your common interests or things she likes. Do you remember everything you found out about her by looking at her profile? They will come in handy.
Step 7. Ask for her number (optional)
You can text her that you love talking to her so much and would like to hear her voice. However, only try to do this if you are confident, otherwise you risk appearing intrusive. If she accepts, this is a good step to take before seeing yourself in person.
Step 8. Ask her if she wants to see you, unless you're flirting with her just for fun
You can tell her “I love talking to you on Facebook, but it would be better to do it in person. Would you like to see us?.
- You don't have to invite her to a candlelit dinner - ask her to go for a coffee or a drink with you. If she doesn't know you at all in real life and you don't have a lot of mutual friends, she may be unsure of your trustworthiness, so offer to meet up in a public place.
- You can give her your number and wait for her to give you hers.
- Enjoy yourselves. If he agrees to see you in person, then deepen your relationship in real life. If he refuses you, don't be upset. The great thing about Facebook is that you can choose more than one girl at a time.
Advice
- Be calm and confident.
- Choose the girls who can really like you.
