Picking up your girlfriend can be a fun and exciting gesture. Just ask her permission first to make sure she agrees. You can simply lift it, as if you are carrying a bride, or, if you want to have fun, try to take it like the firefighters do, carrying it on your shoulders. However, if you are not properly prepared, avoid carrying someone like this in an emergency.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Picking Up a Girl
Step 1. Place your arms around the girl
To start, use your arms to wrap around the girl you intend to carry. You can put one arm around her back and the other behind her knees. Have him put his arms around your shoulders for an easier grip.
Step 2. Stand up using your legs
When lifting an object that weighs more than a few kilos, it is preferable to lift yourself by leveraging your legs rather than your back; in this way you will avoid unpleasant tearing. Squat down and place your arms around the girl. Then stand up with your body weight supported on your legs instead of your back.
- You can keep your balance by spreading your legs slightly before lifting it, so that you have a wider support.
- If you feel like you are losing your balance, it is preferable to bring the girl back to the ground and start over, so as not to be in danger.
Step 3. Hold the girl close to your body as you pick her up
When carrying a heavy object, you should make it fit as close to your body as possible. One person makes no difference. If you hold the girl closer, everything will seem more intimate and romantic.
- Bring it closer to you. Grab it so that there is little space between you, wrapping it in your arms.
- You can gently squeeze her legs and back, bringing her body closer to yours.
Step 4. Keep your back, shoulders and neck straight
When carrying a heavy object, your back, shoulders and neck must remain straight. Therefore, when picking up a girl, try to stand with your shoulders back, straightening your back. You could put a foot in the wrong place by taking on a person's weight, but try your best to keep your body erect. Imagine a vertical line passing between the ankles and the tip of the head.
Step 5. Tell her to hold on for more support
There is no need to drop the person you are holding, otherwise you risk hurting yourself. For added security, ask her to hold on to you. He can gently wrap his arms around your shoulders so that he has extra support.
Step 6. Put it down when you are tired
Since most people weigh more than 45 pounds, it certainly isn't easy to pick up someone. Therefore, lift a girl as long as you have the strength. When you begin to feel some tension in your muscles, gently bring it back to the ground.
- Bend slightly, so that you are lowering yourself with leverage on your legs instead of your back.
- Lower the arm supporting her legs, allowing her to put her feet on the floor.
- Help her up in case she stumbles as you put her down.
Part 2 of 3: Support As Firefighters Do
Step 1. Tell the girl to stand up
Usually this socket is used to save someone in case of an accident. However, if you are not properly prepared, it is not a good idea to intervene using this method when a person is injured. You can still upload someone like this for fun. To begin with, ask the girl to stand in front of you, so that you are facing each other.
Step 2. Position yourself to pick her up
In the early stages, shift your weight to your right leg. Place the latter between the girl's legs. Then tell her to place her right arm on your right shoulder. Put your head under her armpit and wrap your arm around her right knee.
Step 3. Squat down and have him lean towards your shoulders
Once you are in position, squat down. Ask her to lean her body towards your right shoulder and shift her weight to the right side. Next, take her right hand with your right hand, pulling her to wrap your neck with her torso.
Step 4. Pick up the girl
Get up from the position previously described. The girl has to encircle your neck with your chest, letting your legs hang down on the right side of your body. You, on the other hand, will have to hold her legs and right hand with your right arm. The head should be resting on the left shoulder.
- Again, try to get up with your legs instead of your back.
- Thanks to the way the weight is distributed, it is possible to use this grip to be able to carry a girl for a sufficiently long distance. However, the position can be awkward or uncomfortable for her; he will probably ask you to get off if he feels uncomfortable in the meantime.
Part 3 of 3: Take Proper Precautions
Step 1. Don't make any sudden movements if you want to avoid jerks or injuries
If you are not trained in lifting weights, you should proceed slowly when trying to pick someone up. By leveraging your legs, you can decrease the risk of straining your back, but not completely eliminate it. Therefore, get up calmly. Pay attention to the body. If you feel any stretch, stop.
Step 2. Avoid rescuing someone in an emergency if you have not received professional training
The firefighter's grip is primarily used to transport casualties in emergencies and accidents, so you shouldn't use it if you're not properly prepared. You risk inadvertently aggravating the victim's physical condition. Use it only when you want to have fun.
Step 3. Make sure the person to be picked up does not feel distressed
Not everyone likes to be relieved. Even if you've been dating a girl for a while, you may not find such a gesture funny or romantic. So ask her first if she agrees, especially if she has never been picked up by someone. Also, you should pay attention to body language. If he is standing with his arms folded or taking a step back, you are probably invading his personal space.
Step 4. Be careful when picking up someone from among the people
There are several reasons why a girl might not like this gesture in public. Some people feel uncomfortable when they are the object of expressions of affection among people. Also, if she is wearing a short skirt, she may worry that her underwear will accidentally be seen as it is being lifted; in this case, he is likely to hold the skirt with one hand. Therefore, before picking up a girl in front of everyone, ask her permission.
