To hit a guy, you need to be friends with him first. If you know him, talk to him; only then can you make your move. Read on to understand exactly how.
Steps
Step 1. Try to get to know him
If you have mutual friends, ask them to make introductions; otherwise, you have to be the one to make the first move. Go for it, and try to strike up a conversation with him. Pretend that something has fallen on the floor, such as a book, pen, or whatever. If he were kind enough to pick it up, it would be a good opportunity to have a chat.
Step 2. Find out if they have an account on any social network
It feels more comfortable to talk online than face to face.
Step 3. Find out what his interests are
It would help if you have many in common. What is his favourite football team? Does he like to read? If you have a social media profile, finding out this information should be easy enough.
Step 4. If the kid goes to your school, things would get a lot easier
Step 5. Say hello to him every time you cross the corridors and smile at him
Step 6. Be confident and try to look your best
Step 7. If the boy is in class with you, try to sit next to him
You can ask him to help you with his homework. If he were to accept, that would be a great sign: it would mean that he is interested in you.
Step 8. Invite him and his friends to your party or to a movie
Take the opportunity to talk to him whenever you get the chance - but don't get attached to him like an octopus.
Step 9. Talk to his friends, but don't stick around with them all the time
Step 10. If you feel that you have become familiar enough with him, make your move
Step 11. It would be best if you secluded yourself with him
Choose a place where your friends and mates cannot see you. If you are his friend on social networks, you can use them to make an appointment with him. Explain that you have something important that you need to tell him.
Step 12. Don't be too explicit
It could be embarrassing. Tell him "There is one thing I would like to tell you" and then tell him you like it.
Advice
- Be more expressive when you talk to him and above all honest.
- Don't try to talk to him every time you meet. Let him find you sometime.
- If he tells you he needs to think about it, give him some time to do it. Don't pester him while he is thinking about it; you might make him uncomfortable.
- If he should reject you, don't be sad.
Warnings
- Don't do any of this if you think he's not interested in you.
- If he starts avoiding you, doesn't look you in the face while you're talking to him and tries to distance himself, it means he doesn't like you. It's best to leave it alone and go your own way.
