Are you worried about your virtual relationship? Being a good online boyfriend is very different from being a good partner in real life. Showing interest in your partner's passions, putting her at ease, and being honest with her are all good ways to show your love how much you care about her.
Steps
Step 1. Before doing anything in a virtual relationship, be careful
Online predators are everywhere and you have to be careful about giving out your phone or work number. Never even give out your address, or any personal information that might reveal your identity. Don't think that because you are a boy, you are not vulnerable - these precautions are good for anyone who wants to venture into a virtual relationship.
Step 2. Take a nice picture to put on your profile
Of course, the photo must be truly yours and not some model you think might appeal to a member of the opposite sex! Choose it carefully, so you can be sure that the photo reflects you in the best possible way. Appearance impressions are always the first you get about a person, and in the case of a virtual relationship, they're based on their profile photo - so be honest with your photo, but try to use the best you can at the same time..
Step 3. Ask what his interests are
Ask simple questions like, "Do you have a group? What do you play?" As in a normal conversation. Try to know everything you can about the other person. Online relationships work like regular relationships, so conversations shouldn't be too different.
Step 4. Don't lie
Lying, in any kind of relationship, is not good. It would be terrible to be found out in the future or to forget what you said, because you would feel stupid and your relationship could never get strong enough, as there is no trust behind it.
Step 5. Don't deceive
It's easy to fool the other person in an online relationship - but you don't have to! It's not a nice thing to do, and most importantly, it's not fair to the other person.
Step 6. Don't keep the relationship if you don't feel comfortable
If he presses to meet you and you don't want to, keep your feet on the ground. It's better to be safe than sorry.
Step 7. Meet in a place with lots of people around so that you both feel comfortable
Restaurants or malls with a lot of people and any other place where there are a lot of people could do. DO NOT invite this person into your home until the relationship you have is healthy, steady, and you have been together for long enough to be as safe as possible.
Bring friends with you to any meeting with people you've met online, even if it's a very busy place - it's for your safety
Step 8. Consider not meeting her and maintaining your virtual friendship relationship
Step 9. Don't take his words at face value
Some of these online dating sites are getting quite sophisticated in how they get people to know, but that doesn't mean they can't make mistakes. Another important tip is to always check the profiles of the people you find on these sites before accepting a meeting with them. Just because a computer, unable to feel emotions, calculates that you and this person can be a good match, doesn't mean it will! Take a good look at his profile and exchange a few emails before making the decision to meet.
Method 1 of 1: After you have met
Step 1. Send him some small gifts
Send him small gifts such as chocolate, flowers, a card, etc. Have them delivered to his workplace so he can cheer up in the middle of a hard working day. If he doesn't work, send them home. Don't do them too frequently, though, or she may get used to it too well!
Step 2. Take her out once in a while
Sometimes, instead of relating online, you go out together if you live close by. Take her to a movie or to the nearest carnival. Small outings work wonders for this type of relationship.
Step 3. Don't get too attached
Take breaks from time to time instead of talking to each other all the time. You don't have to converse 24 hours a day 7 days a week - it has to be an extra, not the main part of your life! Make sure it doesn't interfere with your work / school / etc.
