When you woo a girl, there's nothing better than seeing her cheeks turn red as she tries to hide a smile, as it's a clear sign that you're doing something that works, even if it's not easy to do. Making a girl blush (not with anger!) Takes serious work, so start practicing today and someday you'll be a master at making girls blush.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Making A Girl Blush
Step 1. Give her an unexpected compliment
It's the simplest and most direct way to make a girl blush; in general, a good compliment is always welcome and, if you choose the right words with the right amount of sincerity and lightness, you will be able to make her blush. Here are some tips:
- Compliment her rather than her things; for example, you might say, "You look great dressed like this" instead of "I like the dress you're wearing."
- He talks about topics that go beyond the mere outward appearance, such as his intellectual or artistic skills.
- Don't overdo it: a compliment or two in the course of a conversation is enough, because when they become too many they can make the other person uncomfortable.
Step 2. Maintain good eye contact
Sometimes, a single glance is worth a thousand words; when you meet her gaze while you are talking to her, smile at her and look into her eyes longer than you normally would: if she is shy, just a few seconds of eye contact will be enough to make her blush; if she smiles back, she may be attracted to you, but don't rely on that alone to establish it.
Look away when something else catches your attention or someone else starts talking do not keep staring at it, because you would give the impression of being shady and mischievous
Step 3. Flirt
Not all girls blush from a simple meeting of glances, but casual courtship usually helps; flirting is a little too complex a skill to explain in one step, so check out our article on the subject for detailed instructions.
An easy way to flirt is to give a funny compliment with a playful or sarcastic effect; for example, if the girl flexes her arms to show her biceps, you could comment by saying "Wow, really sexy", both to joke with her and to be honest at the same time
Step 4. Tease her politely
It takes subtlety, but when you get good it works great: your goal in this case is to embarrass her, but only slightly and only on aspects that are not really important, because you must always keep the provocation on light tones; stop immediately if you find she is offended or too embarrassed.
A good idea is to tease her about her abilities or decisions rather than her personality or outward appearance; for example, it may be funny to tease her about her poor driving skills, while it is a bad idea to joke about unwanted facial hair
Step 5. Make a joke that only the two of you can understand
When you are in a group, try to make a joke that only she will be able to grasp: it can be a reference to some episode from the past, like something that happened to you and not to others, or something about an interest you have in common.. This way he will feel special: in front of so many people, you made a joke that makes you accomplices.
It is up to you to think of the right joke: only you can find something funny among the experiences you have shared
Step 6. Win the goodwill of his friends
Both girls and boys listen to friends, so if their acquaintances or family members think that you are a fantastic and pleasant person, they may begin to see you with different eyes, beyond friendship; the best way for you to be successful in this is to simply behave in the best possible way, taking great care of your appearance, being confident and striving to be nice to all his acquaintances.
If you are already dating, you will have an edge if you impress his parents by showing that you are polite and successful. Parental approval is essential for many girls: a little old-time gallantry and etiquette in front of her parents will make you look like a perfect gentleman; Plus, if you really want to look good, consider a nice haircut too
Step 7. If you are together, show her how important she is to you
If you hang out with the girl you're trying to make blush, you have more options, because you already share a certain level of intimacy: tell her she's extremely important to you, even talking about love in the conversation; then it is necessary that the words follow the actions to show that you are serious. Here are some examples:
- Write her a love note by hand;
- Create a compilation with his favorite songs;
- Take her for a hike in the woods she prefers;
- Go for a picnic in a place where you will enjoy a beautiful view;
- Plan a special evening even if there is no specific occasion.
Step 8. If you are not together, take the first step
On the other hand, if the person you're trying to make blush isn't your girlfriend yet, declaring yourself is sure to get her excited. You can start with a simple gesture, giving her a light pat on the back while laughing or subtly flirting to break the barrier of physical contact; if you'd prefer to be direct, ask her out - she'll love receiving an invitation, even if she doesn't reciprocate. However, if she reciprocates, a new and exciting relationship awaits you to build!
If you're ready to go for it, check out our guide on how to invite girls out
Part 2 of 2: Know What to Avoid
Step 1. Don't treat it like an object
When you compliment her, you don't have to make her feel like a sex object (or a piece of meat), but an intelligent, feeling human being. Compliment her on her beauty, her intelligence, her choices, and her personality, avoiding the following topics:
- Physical characteristics with obvious references to sexuality, such as breast size;
- Greater or less transparency or adherence of clothing;
- Origin or ethnicity;
- External indicators of religion or social class.
Step 2. Don't be mischievous
While it is normal to feel attraction to a person or to be attracted to their beauty, being too fixated on appearance can completely ruin your chances. In extreme cases, this kind of behavior can be considered abuse, because inappropriate or sexual personal actions and comments go beyond what is allowed, so avoid actions such as the following:
- Gaze or peek, especially if you look below the neck
- Asking persistent questions about previous sexual stories or experiences
- Insist on dating if she refuses or finds an excuse to explain why she can't;
- Making winking comments to mean she should have an intimate relationship with you.
Step 3. Don't touch where you don't have to
Touching a person inappropriately against their will is wrong - at best, the person in question will get angry with you; at worst, he could sue you for harassment. In case you haven't already established that some level of physical contact is allowed, keep your hands in place except for small innocent gestures while flirting, such as brushing her shoulder while laughing; if he feels uncomfortable or asks you to stop, obey, even if you think you weren't doing anything wrong.
Step 4. Don't be mean when you mess with her
As mentioned earlier, an innocent joke is a great way to flirt with a girl and make her blush, but there is a limit to be respected: teasing a girl to embarrass her or make her feel under attack can hurt her feelings or make her angry. He may be offended forever, so as a general rule avoid these kinds of arguments:
- Negative comments about her appearance or weight
- Heavy criticism of his personal, political or religious orientations;
- Gossip about family members or people they spend time with;
- Malicious imitations of tics and habits.
Step 5. Don't bet on money or gifts
A few fancy gifts or a date once in a while are perfect for showing a girl how important she is to you, but it's not a good idea to just go for luxury or expensive gifts for your dates - they might make her blush, but if is intelligent, it will be more embarrassment than anything else. Money is one thing, the ability to make a girl feel special is another. Rich people can be romantic too, but the reason they are is certainly not wealth; trying to woo girls using money, you will find yourself broke or surrounded by women with questionable priorities in life.
Advice
- Don't push too hard. Don't act like a hardened suitor at Bayside School's Screech, because girls don't usually like the company of guys hitting on all the women they know.
- If she doesn't reciprocate even though you put all your effort into it, it means she isn't interested, so don't waste your time and try to meet another girl.
- Don't be cheesy in compliments; Grotesque praise and clichés will never work like sincerity and fine courtship.
- Each girl reacts in her own way in different circumstances: when you give her a compliment, discuss an interesting topic, give her a gift or in any other situation, do it tactfully, with respect and always taking into account her personality.
