Have you met the most perfect guy of all time? Would you like to show him that you like him but don't want to find out too much? Do you want to know how to conquer your "crush"? Read on for some helpful tips to win that special someone's heart.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Preparing for Success
Step 1. Try to be the best version of yourself
You have to try to be lovable if you want someone to fall in love with you. If you are a beautiful person, many will fall in love with you naturally.
- Take care of your body. Eat a balanced diet, exercise, maintain adequate hygiene, and wear clean, non-crumpled clothes.
- Make something of your existence. Don't stand in front of the TV all day - you will become nothing more than a boring amoeba! Take a specific path and set goals. Try to do what you've always wanted to do. The passion you feel for what you do is a great source of attraction and he will notice it for sure.
- Behave yourself. It might sound rhetorical, but it's true. If you want others to treat you with affection, love, and respect, you should start doing it with others first. Usually we fall in love with happy, generous and nice people.
Step 2. Make sure it's the right one
It's not nice to expose yourself too much with the wrong one! He will need to be ready for a relationship and compatible with you. If it's not, you're wasting your time and you'll end up heartbroken.
Step 3. Know it well
Knowing a person is essential to be pleased. This does not mean knowing the basic details such as: where he works and when he was born. It means really knowing it, and appreciating it for what it is. If you like him as he is, it will mean a lot to him.
Talk to him and try to understand what his values are and how he thinks, eg. at the political and religious level. This is a great way to get to know someone. Also try to understand his hopes and dreams
Part 2 of 3: Building Lasting Relationships
Step 1. Explore his hobbies and passions
Learn about these things and show interest in things they like. But don't pretend, because he will find out. Try going and watching him play - this will help you build a bond and find things in common.
Ask him to teach you about his favorite sport. You can also try listening to some pieces of his favorite musical genre
Step 2. Support him in difficult times
He will be much more likely to have feelings for you if you show him that he can trust you and that you are the same.
If possible, help him solve his problems, such as helping him with hard subjects or listening to him when he has to choose which parent to stay with following the divorce
Step 3. Help him become the person he wants to be
Anyone would like to be with someone who makes their partner better. It makes us feel better about ourselves and reassures us that we can do people good if we really try. Try to make him a better person by encouraging him to do the things he likes and giving him the space to do them.
Remember: it's about helping him make those changes he wants in his life. You shouldn't be condescending, trying to change it the way you want it, or giving it unsolicited advice
Step 4. Show him how strong you are
Share your passions with him but also show him how far you've come. He should see that you are happy and fulfilled because you do the things you enjoy and that make you unique. He will find you attractive because you are motivated to change your life for the better.
It is normal to have weaknesses. There is nothing wrong with feeling down every now and then. Let him help you (if he offers to do so). Together you can make yourself stronger, better people
Step 5. Give him his space
Respect his person and try to give him his space. Don't be possessive and don't absorb all of her time. If he sees that he can feel free and find support with you, he will fall in love much more easily.
Step 6. Build trust between you
Don't constantly question the things he says or believes in - trust him and show him. Show them that you are a safe haven where they can find confidence and peace of mind.
- If he reveals a secret, keep it. If you find something that embarrasses him, don't take it out.
- Share your secrets with him and show him your secret sides. Take off your armor and let him support you. Don't stress him out if he spends time with other girls. If he knows you trust him he will appreciate you even more.
Part 3 of 3: Extra Help
Step 1. Find a girl
If you want to conquer Miss Perfection, you will need to learn a few tricks, but it's not always as difficult as it seems. Be sure of yourself and you will conquer it in no time.
Step 2. Ask her out
The very thought of asking that perfect girl out is terrifying. What if he says no? Get some useful advice and you will see that it is not as difficult as you think.
Step 3. Find a guy
Having a boyfriend can be very difficult. Girls are in the difficult position where boys are usually expected to propose themselves! But nothing prevents you from finding your prince charming if you feel alone.
Step 4. Find your ideal person
Do you feel like you're always wrong? Do you feel like you have a crush, but have a long history of dealing with the wrong people? You should look inside yourself and try to understand why.
Step 5. Learn to flirt
This will make it much easier to conquer your "crush". It is difficult to resist those who can flirt well!
Advice
- Smile often, to show how fun it is to have you around and to light up your face.
- (Recommend from a girl). If you stare at it for a while or wait for it after class, you could earn points. But, if you expect it, don't show you're waiting for it: pretend you're waiting for a friend. Wait for him to make the first move - guys like to win over girls who seem disinterested.
- Make him feel good by complimenting him and behaving naturally. He too will feel looser and it will be easier to talk to him.
- Wear clothes that flatter your body.
- (Advice from a guy) Don't worry too much about your appearance. If he really likes you, he'll see you beautiful even without makeup.
- Don't wear clothes that are too low-cut. He may get the wrong idea and consider you an easy one.
- Offer him a sheet or piece of paper by writing your number on the back.
- If he ignores you and doesn't want to be friends with you, imagine starting a relationship!
- If you have a profile on a social network (Facebook, Myspace, etc.) add it! When he's your friend, you can text and chat with him, starting with school stuff and then moving on to more intimate topics, throwing a joke here and there.
- If you are great friends and you don't want to ruin the relationship or you don't want to be rejected, invite him to your house, ask him to see you on the beach or other topics of common interest. Ask him if there are any good movies in the cinema and ask him something like "Would you like to go and see" enter the name of the film "? Then we can go somewhere else …"
Warnings
- Don't stalk, or he may think you are weird, although to some extent it can also be flattering!
- If you think they don't like you, hold on and pretend you don't care. But you have to remember that every guy is different and that jealousy will have no effect. Rather he will choose to let you go and forget about you or he won't like you anymore.
- Don't misbehave with your friends when he's around or he'll think you're someone to avoid.
- Don't embarrass him in front of his friends.
- Don't forget to let him know what your feelings are, but do it lightly, without blurting out everything, rather trying to do it naturally. So he will notice it, but not too much.
- Don't be a control freak. While it's okay to know what's going on around you, not giving him his space will only push him away from you.
- At school / work, don't stare. He'll get scared and probably won't talk to you for the rest of the week.
- Never ask him "Do you like me?" or you will create awkward situations. But you can say, "Yes, I am (insert descriptive word) but nice!" and if he says yes …
- Don't treat him too much like a friend!
- Don't be afraid to make the first move.
