Below are the signs and behaviors of those who are not telling the truth. Be on your guard if your man or woman exhibits these behaviors - they may be lying to you!
Steps
Step 1. Whenever you ask your partner to explain something to you, pay attention to where their eyes go
To your left or to your right? If he looks to the left it might mean he's lying. If he looks left (his eyes go to your left but it would be his right) it means they are creating what they are saying - inventing what to say. If he looks to your right, he is remembering, tracing back what he is going to say, it means that he is telling the truth.
Step 2. Check if his hands are in his pockets or if he is somehow covering the palms of his hands
This is an instinctive movement to hide, it is covering up something.
This only applies to boys
Step 3. Are you covering your throat?
This means that she is feeling threatened, and potentially it could mean that she is lying.
This only applies to girls
Step 4. Pay attention to how she reacts to you
Are you becoming hostile or angry? It is a sign that he is lying. Those who tell the truth need not be angry when, for example, someone asks them where he was last night, if he really was where he says he was. Reacting nervously is also a red flag.
Step 5. There are other ways his eyes will tell you what is really going through his head
Can't he look you in the eye? One obvious way is that he is unable to look you in the eye while he is lying. But there is a way you may not know. Is he looking you in the eye for long periods of time, almost as if he wants to make you look down? If he fixes his gaze in your eyes and never looks away, it means he's trying to take control. It can also mean that your boyfriend or girlfriend is trying to win your trust in some way by showing that he can watch you talk. A person who tells the truth has a normal gaze, looks at you for a few seconds and then moves his gaze again.
Step 6. Wrapping one leg around a chair leg is another sign
It is an external signal of an internal control - he or she is instinctively doing it because he is hiding something. He's not telling you the whole truth. Also check if his arms or legs are crossed.
Step 7. A pale face is synonymous with fear, and if it turns red it indicates shame or anger
Step 8. Pay attention if he pauses before answering or if he answers very quickly, perhaps even before you have finished asking the question
These are signs that he is lying.
Step 9. Is he too kind or overly apologetic?
This may indicate that he is lying.
Step 10. After you ask a question does it ask you to repeat it?
Does he / she repeat the question herself? These are also clues that he is lying to you.
Step 11. Any body language your partner utters that is not normal for him / her could be a sign that he is lying
(For example, using more or less hand gestures than normal while explaining something).
Advice
- If he tries to change the subject, he is lying.
- If the person uses a lot of "umms" they are insecure or lying. If he uses more than usual he is lying.
- Anger following an obvious question doesn't mean he's lying, but a surprise question that causes anger very often represents a deception of some sort.
- Just because your boyfriend or girlfriend fits some of the criteria doesn't mean they're lying.
- If a guy hurries away or touches his face a lot, he may be lying.
- If your partner exhibits one or more of these signs, he is most likely lying to you!
- Learn to trust your partner.
- These are signs that are good for both men and women. (With the exception of the number 2 and 3. Number 2 is a thing for men and should be checked in boys. Number 3 is a thing for women and should be checked in girls).
- Number 1 is correct if the person is right, there is a lot more behind the gaze patterns and just because someone is "creating" a memory doesn't automatically mean they are lying.
