How to turn the page after losing someone you loved.
Steps
Step 1. Make a list of the things you've always wanted to do but haven't done yet
You probably had a lot of projects in mind and you weren't able to carry them out because that relationship was keeping you very busy. Once you have completed the list you will realize how many things you still have to get out of life.
Step 2. Don't waste time pitying yourself
Breaking up is always difficult, even if you were the one who made the decision. What matters is to understand that life goes on. Start something new, don't worry if and when you complete it, a new experience will still make you happier.
Step 3. Find your old friends
Or meet new friends. One way to meet like-minded people is to join a group, or club, related to your interests.
Step 4. Brainwash yourself to overcome sadness, or use logic:
if your ex was suffering, think that now you are free of it. Reflect on the negatives and rejoice in thinking that you have saved yourself from a harmful relationship. If the person to forget was really pleasant then it will be more difficult, but focus only on the positives, think that you have had the opportunity to meet them. Remember that everyone comes into our life for a reason, what matters is the quality of a relationship, not its length.
Step 5. Bless your Ex
Despite everything that has happened, make an effort to forgive sincerely. If possible, confront your Ex and tell him that, despite the pain he caused you, in your heart you have forgiven him for everything he did to you. Doing so will help you move on, and believe in others once again.
Step 6. Don't stay indoors
You don't need to spend money to go for a walk, to look for the sky, to read a good book or to enjoy the many little pleasures in life.
Step 7. Forgive yourself
Remember that there is always a lot of love to give to others and there are many ways to enrich your life. Learn the lesson and embrace enlightenment. Devote yourself to a cause more important than your problems, and suddenly your worries will fade away.
Step 8. Keep Hope Alive:
With suffering it is easy to harden, but remember, changing will not make you happier. Religion, music, animals, sports, could bring energy back to your life.
Step 9. Refrain from always talking about your finished love
Or your friends will soon find escape routes and it will become even more difficult for you.
Step 10. Erase everything
Phone and chat numbers. It will be painful at first but it will help you not relive the past or feel the temptation to dial its number.
Step 11. Get rid of all poems, songs and movies:
walking around your house you will not have to have anything in front of you that makes you think about love over.
