Have you ever liked a girl and thought, however, that she was out of your league? The bad news is that it can happen, but the good news is that it's not an inescapable experience! If you're ready to hook a girl, this article will teach you how to do it, no matter who you are or what you look like! To drive her crazy, follow these instructions.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Understanding Girls
Step 1. Learn to behave right around women
Before choosing a girl to test your charm, you should have a clearer idea of how you should behave in front of a female presence. In fact, the more girls like you, the better your chances of the one you're interested in noticing you.
- There are many misconceptions about what women dislike: the "nice guy", sensitivity, etc. If you believe these myths, you could lose points.
- Treat your friends as if they were guys: be friendly, talk about your common interests, make jokes and listen. Add a little more education and consideration and that's it! You are well on your way to becoming the mild and courteous gentleman he hopes to find.
Step 2. Be lovable
However, don't be a doormat. It's okay - very good indeed - to be nice and sensitive, but don't overdo it, otherwise you'll look like a brother. In that case, you can say goodbye to all your hopes, so talk to her like you never would with a sister.
For example, if you tell her: "How well you are, Giulia!", That's fine and she'll love hearing it, but a brother can say it too. Rather, express yourself in this way: "Damn, Giulia, today you look really cool. Those jeans look great on you!". Do you think her brother talks to her like this? We hope not. So, avoid and give her no reason to see you in that capacity
Step 3. Appreciate it as a whole
People tend to give what they get, and vice versa. If he thinks that he only appreciates his mind, he will probably do the same with you, excluding the physical part.
Appreciate her from every point of view: her mind, her spirit and her body. Let her know that you find her sexy, beautiful or both
Step 4. Beware of girls who are not used to advances
Many charming girls are not considered because they are shy and shy or are not part of trendy groups.
- The next time you sit next to such a girl at school, strike up a conversation with her. The next time you see one standing next to you at a party or club, ask her to dance. Even if it is clear that no spark has struck, he will not forget it - and he will never look at you the same way again.
- It would be a good idea to learn to interact with girls in a selfless manner, without wanting anything more than their company. The more comfortable you are, the more comfortable you will be when you meet one you really like.
Part 2 of 3: Export the Right Way
Step 1. Change your profile photo
If the current one portrays you smiling, delete it immediately. Studies show that, unlike boys, women are less attracted to photos of smiling men. Rather, they prefer images of guys who look superb or downcast.
Furthermore, research shows that the left side of the face is considered more attractive. Take a picture with your gaze turned into the distance that turns to the right, characterized by a thoughtful and disheartened expression (like Edward Cullen) or immortalized with a bold and proud look (like Jacob Black), and you will get a lot of acclaim
Step 2. Don't force yourself
If you always look depressed or look like an attention-seeking person in a photo, you will make a fool of yourself. So, take lots of shots and pick one where you look natural and casual. Ask a girl if she can photograph you - she'll know what women like and might help you find the right image.
Step 3. Be casual
Show that you are comfortable in any situation, even if you want to run away screaming. This is what is called self-confidence.
- If you relate to girls like you are desperate, terrified of being rejected, they will understand right away and the situation may turn out to be exactly how you envisioned it.
- Don't give yourself too much air. Be cheerful and calm, and if something goes wrong, have a laugh and carry on as if nothing has happened.
Step 4. Learn to flirt
Flirting takes practice, confidence, and the ability to hide nervousness. After all, how can you interpret a person's signals if you are too busy wiping sweat or looking down? You will need to practice flirting. To improve your tactics, learn to:
- Have a brilliant conversation.
- Speak witty.
- Read body language.
- Establish physical contact with girls especially if you are looking for a way to overcome this barrier.
Part 3 of 3: Taking the Initiative
Step 1. Ask her out
If you've found a girl that you truly care about, don't be afraid to make the first move. Most women appreciate when the man takes the initiative, even if they don't accept the invitation. Also, you will feel proud that you were so brave (even if you received a rejection). Read this article for a few more chances.
- It often happens to hear that a beautiful girl is not invited out because everyone is so sure she is already engaged or thinks she is unapproachable.
- Insist. If a girl you're interested in doesn't accept your invitation the first time, try again. This doesn't mean you have to pester her or act like a stalker, but it does mean with a smile on your face, "Okay, I'll ask you again next week." After that continue your life normally. If you typically have opportunities to talk to her during the week, don't stop. However, avoid harassing her with your proposal.
- Give her some time to reflect on how brave and confident you have been by asking her out. He might change his mind.
Step 2. Do not disregard the expectations you have created
In the end, you managed to win the girl of your dreams. What do you have to do now?
- If you haven't kissed yet, make sure you're ready: clean, fresh breath, everything in order.
- If you are in a relationship, try to be a good boyfriend.
- If the story goes on, make sure you keep the relationship on track.
- If you take so much trouble to drive a girl crazy, but you screw it up once you have her, you risk hurting her!
Advice
- Make sure you make her feel special every day.
- Be yourself. You can correct your behaviors, but it is an impossible feat to change personality to please someone else.
- Listen. Pay no attention to what he says, but to how he says it. You can learn a lot about someone from the way they express themselves, as well as from what they express.
- Pay attention to changes. If she cuts or dyes her hair, tell her she's fine (as long as it's true). If she accidentally dyes her hair purple and you tell her you like it, she'll think you're making fun of her or see you as a friend rather than a boy.
- Start flirting when you feel comfortable around him. When you are ready, break the barrier of physical contact: the lower back, the middle, the hands and other areas of the body.
- Remember anniversaries and prepare a thought for her.
- Be nice to her. He will appreciate your kindness.
- Of course, there is no guarantee that you will win over any girl this way, so don't feel bad if you can't. However, these tips will increase your odds.
