Do you dream of that beautiful boy with wonderful eyes? Do you have a thing for the coolest guy, the one who changes a new girl every day? Can't resist the bad boy's charm and want to try your luck? Read these tips on dating a seducer.
Steps
Step 1. Ask yourself what you would like to achieve
There's a good chance he doesn't want to commit to a serious relationship, so if you dream of marrying him and having children with him, you'd better wake up and accept reality. Realize that he is a seducer! If you feel ready to be in a relationship like this, move on to the next tip.
Step 2. Find out his interests
What kind of girls does he like? The good girls, the innocent ones, the intellectuals, the most popular girls, the geese or the aggressive and rebellious girls? Do an investigation. Once discovered try to transform yourself into the type that attracts his attention, yes, unfortunately sometimes it is necessary to take this step to seduce a playboy. If you don't like, you can always set your sights on a normal guy.
If you don't know what kind of girl he likes, here's a tip: seducers, like all guys generally, prefer girls who are not vulgar, who dress well and are feminine and sexy, who have a good social life and who love and they respect themselves. In the right situations (like in a club or disco) wear more provocative clothes
Step 3. Prepare yourself mentally
The seducers think that one girl can quickly be replaced by another. Get ready, it could be the same fate, think that the relationship could end very soon, that you could be used and abandoned.
Step 4. Seducers typically run after girls mostly for sex
Before having a relationship with such a guy ask yourself these questions.
- Could you be friends, are you compatible?
- Could you tolerate a betrayal?
- Seducers generally aren't too interested in a woman's needs, are you ready to sacrifice your self-esteem to be with him?
- Are you ready to have sex, or to lose your virginity with him?
Step 5. Show your confidence
Don't act like all the other silly girls around him, don't waste time flattering him because he's already getting too excited.
Step 6. NEVER ask him out
Wait for him to do it. Unless he's completely out of your league (for example, if he's only chasing skinny girls and you're normal or chubby) sooner or later he'll come over and ask you for something. It is easier to come forward if you go to the same places or the same people.
Step 7. Prepare to be dropped
When a seducer gets bored or starts cheating or breaking up (unless you do it before him). Don't be surprised if she leaves you one day, don't take her on yourself, after all, you've chosen a playboy.
Step 8. Get out with your head held high and be satisfied with yourself
At worst, you will have spent some time going out with a bad boy, or rather, the type that everyone else would like to imitate. Even if he left you (or you did) remember this experience and go on.
Advice
- Remember that playboys love funny girls, not clingy ones.
- They don't usually look for a lasting relationship, so don't blame yourself if they break up with you.
- Be a seductress too. Playboys love adventure, surprise and are born hunters. They love to find the same qualities in others too. Find a hobby that you enjoy, so when he starts talking about women in general you will be able to show yourself a more intriguing person, driven by many interests.
- If the seducer you have set your eyes on is divinely beautiful, try to figure out how many chances you have of conquering him. If you think you can embody the woman of your dreams, go for it. If you think you are a little out of his ideals, forget it, because dozens of girls will already be lining up to get noticed by him.
- To be able to handle a seducer the right way you should have had at least two previous experiences with other guys. Experience certainly helps.
- If you really want to, take the whim off, go out with him, go to bed with him, and then let him go.
Warnings
- If it goes wrong you could become cynical of men in general.
- It may remain an awkward chapter in your life, and a lesson to be learned for the future.
- Your friends and family may warn you and maybe invite you to meet other guys.
- You could damage your self-esteem and jeopardize your happiness by chasing a relationship like this.
- Be careful not to get any sexually transmitted diseases. If you go to bed together always use a condom.
