If you've spotted a Cancer with your radar, fasten your seat belt. You are about to embark on an interesting journey. Cancer is the most faithful and caring sign, but it is also a combination of dynamism and complexity. Those born between June 22nd and July 22nd are quite sociable. Are you ready for the challenge?
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Breaking the Ice
Step 1. If you want someone to fall at your feet, know that this is the right sign for you
The Cancer woman is the emblem of the lady who awaits the knight in shining armor. Love romance, intimacy and being loved unconditionally. The Cancer man is romantic and a knight, he does his best for you with gifts and timid compliments. Despite moving slowly, the love story is in her heart.
Cancer needs to see that you are the right person. For things to go right, it's up to you to take the initiative. So grab your white horse and go trotting. For a Cancer, in all its dynamic glory, it's worth it
Step 2. Learn more
Since Cancer people are very cautious, it would be advisable to get to know each other well before starting a more intimate relationship. Becoming friends first will allow them to slowly fall at your feet.
Cancer is a very loving sign. It enriches the relationship with physical contact, hugs and subtle - but significant - demonstrations of affection. Warm them up with your proximity. They will love to reciprocate
Step 3. Go on the attack
If you are a girl, you may need to make the first move instead of waiting for him to make it. If you are a guy, be careful as she may need more time to be ready to kiss you. This doesn't mean she's not interested in you, it just means she has yet to come out of her shell!
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Never ask to go out with others, this could make them feel uncomfortable. Ask to go out alone. Invite them on a casual but fun date. Nothing that is too stressful or with too many clichés.
Just because he's Cancer doesn't mean he can't have fun. Try going to the beach or swimming pool, as this is a water sign
Step 4. Don't play games
Those born under the sign of Cancer are very intuitive when it comes to understanding people and their intentions, so don't waste time playing the precious, playing cat and mouse, or any other kind of useless game. It is as if they are able to penetrate you and understand that you are not sincere.
Cancer people, if they feel comfortable, will be direct with you. They need you to be direct with them in turn! If you're presenting an image of yourself built around them or trying to be mysterious, they won't drink it. They are really good at understanding people, so don't even think about hiding your emotions
Step 5. Make them feel at home
Cancer is a sign that has a strong bond with family and home. Generally, they prefer to stay in their home, but if you can make them feel comfortable anywhere else, you are on the right track! Let them know that they are part of your home and that they can also move freely.
Talk about your family. Let people know how much you value yours and that it is a value you care a lot about. They will find comfort in knowing that you have the same way of thinking. The family for Cancer is very important and nothing will ever make him change his mind
Part 2 of 3: Know What to Expect
Step 1. Accept that your Cancer is old-fashioned, traditional, and loyal
These are not bad things! In fact, I can be quite positive. When you catch a Cancer, they will be loyal to you eternally. He expects you to be the quintessential love story representation: loving, kind, maybe a little traditional and faithful, just like him. Nothing wrong with that!
When it comes to getting them to bed, they might be a bit like vanilla. More romantic and sensual than spicy and exotic. But if you win their trust, they will be more likely to expand their world. As long as they know I'm safe with you
Step 2. Know that they may have trouble trusting
Trust issues are human. Those born under the sign of Cancer usually have them as a trademark. They "want" to trust others, but it is really difficult for them. Especially due to any negative experiences from their past and the resentment that follows. However, they love to love others, so it's all about give and take.
This is probably the most negative side of Cancers. It can be very difficult to break their shells. But if you have the will to do it, it can absolutely be worth it. You will find a tender and sensitive heart that will place you above everyone and everything
Step 3. Realize that Cancer needs to be indispensable
If this sign were to have a label, it would be "thoughtful". This is their basic characteristic - the only way they know how to behave. So be willing to lean on them. They "bloom" like this. Be open about your needs and they will try to meet them. It makes them happy!
Let them take care of you when you are sick. Talk to him about a problem when it arises. Ask them for advice for a problem at work or with your friends. Let them make you dinner! A good deal, right?
Step 4. Prepare to be super pampered
Those born under the sign of Cancer are the most loving people of all signs. If you want a relationship that is more "unpredictable", Cancer is not for you. They will love to show you romance and love, be prepared to reciprocate!
This does not mean that they are sticky. While they may still be, it is something so pure it would be hard to blame it. They just want to be close to you and show you how much they care about you. It is truly admirable. If only everyone were able to love as a Cancer does
Part 3 of 3: Consolidating the Relationship
Step 1. Always be reassuring
Don't be precious - Cancer will likely think you're not interested and don't give a damn. If they seem to be unsure about themselves or the relationship, don't hesitate to comfort them. They would do the same for you!
They will not tolerate a bad temper on your part. If you get angry or disappointed with the little things, they will think you are not rational. If you get too angry with them, they'll think you don't care. They can become quite sensitive when they feel vulnerable
Step 2. When you say something, say it seriously
Cancer weighs heavily on words. If you offer them a declaration of love, they will take it as a declaration of love. So you have to mean what you say. If you want to sleep with a Cancer, don't tell them you love them. Don't try to sweeten the pill. It won't get you anywhere!
If you don't weigh your words and say things that you don't really think, they will probably still notice and think you are a liar. While it may not be lies to you, to them it is. So choose your words carefully and wisely. Cancer will always remember what you say
Step 3. Be direct
Cancer may not be open to you initially, but once they get past their armor, they'll show their interest and expect honesty to match theirs. So be direct! Let him know how you feel. You would appreciate the same behavior towards you, wouldn't you?
Step 4. Untie the tangle of their complexities
Cancer is a crab. They have an outside that is very difficult to break, but inside there is a sensitive and emotional person. Sometimes they can seem very weak, but also strong and independent. In short, they are very dynamic, an unpredictable sign. Are you able to adapt?
They are very complex and can be quite fragile. If you piss off a Cancer, they'll sulk you for days. When they feel safe and loved they are winning, wonderful human beings. When they feel vulnerable, they close in a hedgehog. It's up to you to bring out the greatness in them
Advice
- If you are an Earth sign (Taurus, Virgo or Capricorn), you need to understand that while you think with your head, Cancer feels with your heart.
- Try not to get sucked into their changing mood.
- Don't date a Cancer when you are both very young, unless they are mature enough to understand that love can sometimes hurt.
- Always be there for them.
- Prove that you are consistent and trustworthy, and Cancer will be the best partner you ever had!
