There are many ways to express how you feel about a guy by kissing him. Breaking up with a guy can be rewarding and romantic. Prep your lips, make yourself want and try to be spontaneous when you are alone with a guy.
Steps
Part 1 of 4: Get ready to kiss him
Step 1. Put on lip balm every night
If you have a boyfriend crush, you better be prepared. Use natural, moisturizing lip balm at night and in the morning.
- Your goal should be to have your lips hydrated all the time, not to put lip balm on your lips before kissing. Otherwise he would feel a weird taste from kissing you, and your lips would be sticky.
- If your lips are chapping regularly, use a sugar and olive oil exfoliant three times a week. Rinse and apply petroleum jelly once you've exfoliated.
Step 2. Brush your teeth before meeting with him
If you're just starting out, increase the number of times you brush your teeth to three per day instead of two. If you spontaneously give yourself a kiss, you will want to feel confident in your breath.
During the evolution of man, kisses served as an expedient to assess the health of the partner. Make sure you are sending out the right biological signals
Step 3. Talk to him and get to know him better
Even if you just met the person you want to kiss a couple of hours ago, flirting will make your date even more exciting.
- Try to encourage him if you want to make him think that you are a potential romantic interest. Try "We seem to have a lot in common" or "We have similar tastes".
- Say: "Let's go somewhere where it's less noisy / more secluded," if you want to be alone with him.
Step 4. Drink or eat something that draws his attention to your lips
Sip a drink through a straw, then lightly moisten your lips. Eat something sweet, like a strawberry or a piece of chocolate, and let it melt in your mouth.
Step 5. Whisper in his ear
Touch his arm and gently brush his earlobe with your lips while you whisper to him; you could get him very excited this way. Remember that kissing is more fun when it makes you want it.
Part 2 of 4: Getting started kissing
Step 1. Kiss him on the cheek
If you do and he doesn't make his move, encourage him by bringing your body close to his and pressing your lips against his cheek for a few seconds. Say something like, "You're sweet" to further encourage him.
Step 2. Look him in the eye
Keep your body a few inches away from him and tilt your head. Look intensely first in one eye and then in the other. Then move your attention to her lips.
Step 3. Make your move
Once you've established some tension, lean forward and press your closed lips against hers. Open your mouth only slightly before kissing him and close it on his lower lip, applying a little pressure.
Step 4. Continue giving him several closed mouth kisses, making them last for 2-5 seconds
Touch his chest or back to bring him closer to you.
Step 5. Tease him by opening his mouth very slightly, without using his tongue for the first 20-30 seconds
Part 3 of 4: Switch to French kissing
Step 1. Make slow movements
Open your mouth just a little bit more with each kiss. You just want a hint of moisture, not drool.
Step 2. Give it small samples
You can also touch his lip with your tongue instead of immediately using it to touch his.
Step 3. Open your mouth more
Touch his tongue with yours. If your boyfriend wants to get straight to the point, back off a bit, while still leaving his mouth open.
Look him in the eye when you stop. So he will understand that you want to take it easy
Step 4. Make the kiss more intense by opening your mouth more and using your tongue more over the next few minutes
Step 5. Try to make circular movements with your tongue, first making small circles, and then bigger and bigger
Avoid making the movement mechanical like that of a blender. Try to be as spontaneous as possible.
Part 4 of 4: Get in on the session
Step 1. Consider withdrawing from the kiss and gently biting her lower lip
Try to figure out if he likes it from how he reacts. If so, you may want to keep taking small bites for the duration of the kiss.
Step 2. Move your hands over her body as you kiss
If you don't want to go beyond the kiss, just touch his upper body: chest, back, waist, neck and hair.
Some men don't like it when a woman grabs their hair while others love it. Pay attention to improve your kissing
Step 3. Switch positions
If he has cornered you or is standing on top of you in a bed, try to do the same to him. You can play to take a more active role this way. If you are standing, try sitting or lying down.
Step 4. Kiss him on the neck, ears and jaw
If you've been kissing for at least five minutes, stand back and pay attention to these sensitive areas before you start kissing him again.
Step 5. Step away and look him in the eye
Take a few seconds to decide if this is going to be just a kiss or something more. Make him die of desire by teasing him.