While seducing a guy may seem a little tricky, for some women, the ability to attract men is a real art. Once the initial spark is struck, you must try to create a lasting bond that leads you to frequent dating. By using the power of body language, learning to keep the dialogue alive and having faith in yourself, you can win the guy who makes your heart beat.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Using Body Language
Step 1. Smile at him and keep an open posture
Adopt open body language by smiling at him as he speaks. Keep your arms relaxed, without crossing or contracting them.
Don't hide your hands when you have a conversation. In fact, it has been shown that keeping your hands and wrists clearly visible so that soft skin can be seen is a strategy that appeals to men
Step 2. Tilt your head and watch him speak
By tilting your head, you show interest and involvement. Avoid looking behind him, looking around, or lowering him to check his phone, otherwise you will let him know that you are not interested.
Step 3. Lean back
It is a form of non-verbal communication that allows you to tell him that you are attracted to him. It is effective when you are in a group of people, but you want to let them know that you are interested in them.
Leaning on him will push him to do the same without him realizing it
Step 4. Don't be afraid to blush
When we feel attracted to someone, blood begins to flow all over the face, causing the cheeks to turn red. It is actually a way that the human body developed during evolution in an attempt to attract the opposite sex. So, blushing in the presence of the guy you like will let him know you feel attraction towards him and send him a signal that he will surely recognize.
Step 5. Position your feet so that they are facing him
The position of the feet reflects the attitude towards the interlocutor. So, if they point in your direction, it's a sign of attraction. If, on the other hand, they are facing the exit, there is likely to be no interest.
Step 6. Don't use the bag as a shield
The way you hold your bag when you're with a guy can actually be a form of non-verbal communication. For example, if you squeeze it tightly or hold it in front of you, it means you are nervous and uncomfortable. Conversely, if you hold her by your side or arrange her so that she is not in the way, it means that you feel attraction and feel relaxed.
Part 2 of 3: Knowing how to converse
Step 1. Be willing to talk about some details about yourself
By revealing some important details in your life that go beyond the normal conversation, you will have the opportunity to create a more intimate bond between you. For example, you could just tell him how many siblings you have, that you come from a small town or that you love jazz music. Trusting some personal information will show that you begin to trust him. If he behaves the same way, it means that you are both trying to build a more serious relationship.
- Be careful not to find out too much or too soon. By adding a few more details each time you see each other, you will increase mutual attraction.
- More personal questions, like "How is your relationship with your mother?" or "What do you think about having children?", should only be asked after several appointments and once a bond of trust and mutual understanding has been established.
Step 2. Identify what topics you like to talk about
A good conversation can be very exciting for a man, especially if it is about topics that interest both of you or that you get along on well together. The rule of not talking about religion, politics or money on a date is outdated. However, travel or favorite TV shows can be a great way to keep the conversation going and make it enjoyable for both of you.
- Finding a common point of interest will show you attentive and open to knowing his tastes and preferences. While you may not always agree, trying to establish mutual understanding can strengthen the relationship.
- If you know he's as big a sports fan as you are, ask him, "So what do you think about last night's game?" Alternatively, if you like pop culture, bring up the latest installment of your favorite series or talk about celebrities you are a fan of.
Step 3. Don't hesitate to express your views
Avoid being passive during a conversation or saying "yes" to everything he says. By expressing your opinion, you will let him know that you can think for yourself and that you are not afraid to be honest. An intelligent woman who knows what she wants and how to get it attracts men wherever she is.
If it asks you a direct question, like "What is the most beautiful place you've been to?" or "What are you looking for in a person?", answer frankly and then ask him the same question. This will show him that you are interested in keeping the conversation going, but also that you are not afraid of being honest. It's an approach that most men find challenging
Part 3 of 3: Trust Yourself
Step 1. Show off your elegance
While it is important to take care of personal hygiene (brushing teeth and hair and showering regularly), it is even more important to dress to feel confident and determined. For example, you could wear a tight dress with heels or a pair of jeans and a T-shirt. By showing your style through clothing, makeup and looks, you will make it clear that you are not afraid to be yourself.
Most men are attracted to women who dress according to what they think is sexy, instead of wearing clothes that men consider sexy
Step 2. Ask him to do something, as long as he keeps you quiet and feels confident and decisive
Instead of spending your time on them doing things you don't find interesting or inspiring, suggest a fun activity that puts you at ease. For example, you could invite him to a mountain climb or a tête-à-tête dinner. By sharing your passions, you will have the opportunity to get closer to him and strengthen your relationship.
Step 3. Try to bring out the best in each of you
Try to encourage his passions and support his goals, and expect him to do the same with you. As your relationship grows stronger, never forget to bring out your best sides. In this way you will always feel at ease and you will not lack the desire to be together for a long time.
