Is the strangest kid in school / church / some sort of club hitting on you? Is he trying to make you fall in love with him but isn't there the slightest chance that you will give him a date? Is it stickier than glue? Well, just follow the steps below and you will get rid of it in a flash!
Steps
Step 1. Never look him in the eye
The golden rule. If you look at him with disgust then he will think it is a loving look and he will fall in love with you even more.
Step 2. Keep your distance
If he approaches you, start talking to someone. ANYONE! even someone you don't like, the important thing is to do it!
Step 3. If you used to call him, don't call him again
Step 4. If he sends you messages, do not reply to him
It will clarify the ideas.
Step 5. Flirt with other guys
This will show him that you are interested in someone else.
Step 6. If she puts together enough courage to invite you out, don't be disgusted
Rather, tell him that you like someone else. Whether you have a boyfriend or not, tell him. He will be disappointed. If you and your boyfriend break up, don't let him know. He will ask you out right away.
Step 7. Never tell him that you are single
He'll think you want me to invite you out.
Step 8. Don't smile at him
Even if you are a kind person. Do not do it.
Step 9. Don't talk to his friends about him
Step 10. Don't behave badly or horribly with him
Yes, sure, you want him to understand your feelings but you DON'T want him to hate you.
Step 11. Just let him know how you feel once
Don't tell him more times, it would be annoying, very annoying!
Step 12. Don't talk to him
If you make any move to talk to him, he'll get the wrong idea… and he'll think you like him.
Step 13. Push him away if he gets too close, and say "NO!"
Advice
- Never be alone with him, stay with your friends.
- If he tries to touch you in a way that makes you uncomfortable, don't be afraid to resort to self-defense.
- Try to avoid it.
- If it forces you to do something you don't feel comfortable with or don't feel ready for, tell someone you trust.
- If he starts talking to you he quickly finds a place you "definitely have to go to for a while".
- If he keeps calling or texting you then it's best to talk to someone you trust. He might find a solution.
- Try to recommend some girls to go out with. Insist that that person likes you and that you don't want to piss them off by dating them.
Warnings
- Be prepared for her requests to go out.
- Don't let him follow you.
- If you get in touch in some way, he'll think you like him.
- Never be alone with him.
- Tell someone if you think the situation is getting out of control.
- Don't be too cruel. You don't want me to hate you.
- Don't involve others.
