It's hard to deal with bad boys. They love to use women and then kick them out on the sidewalk after they're done doing their thing. By reading this article you will learn what you have to do when you have to deal with one of them.
Steps
Step 1. Stop flirting with him
If he starts flirting with another girl, that's none of your business! You may feel hurt inside, but you have to believe that you are the most attractive woman on this earth and that you can have any guy you want. A self-confident woman drives men crazy.
Step 2. Start flirting with her acquaintances
Do you have Facebook? Let this casanova know that you are interested in someone else, and that you are just waiting for this guy to return your feelings. Leave messages on their wall, send them virtual gifts, etc. On Facebook, everyone knows everything about everyone, sooner or later.
Step 3. Pretend to be busy
Make plans. Go out with friends.
Step 4. If you're pairing up with this casanova, show your best and make sure you're always perfect
Make other guys notice you and pay attention to them. I hate to say it, but try to think of it as a game. It's hard to deal with a Casanova and you don't have to let him hurt you.
Step 5. Become a bad girl
Do not do anything you would regret and behave that way only in front of the casanova and his most trusted friends. For no reason you will have to fall into the arms of the casanova, and always be loyal to your friends. They will always be there for you, and if you are a good friend, you must always be there for them too.
Step 6. OK, now it's time to teach Casanova a lesson
Try to establish a connection between you, and immediately afterward behave in a detached way. Be nice, but act as if you are not aware that you are playing with him. The Casanova love to be the center of attention. They would not be able to survive without having the world revolving around them. Be interested in him, but when he tries to make his move, be gentle but aloof at the same time. Talk to other guys and hang out with them mostly.
Step 7. If the casanova starts to get clingy, saying things like "I need you," and other nonsense, give him some rope
Don't go too far by giving him exactly what he wants, but be interested even just a little.
Step 8. Now, you have to decide
Who is the prey and who the hunter? Don't do the things that all Casanova want to get from girls; I can never repeat this enough! Wait a couple of weeks, observe how he behaves and how things are going between you. If you want to be in a serious relationship with this guy, you need to figure out if he's really capable of having one. If you just wanted to teach him a lesson, forget about this idiot and try to avoid him. He probably feels the same way he made women feel when he played with their feelings.
Advice
- Make sure this person is really a Casanova, and that he was just trying to use you. Don't play with a nice guy's feelings, please.
- Forget whatever you feel about this guy. If you still felt connected to him in some way, this strategy would fail miserably.
- For example, think about when you notice two people have started dating. Are you feeling jealous or would you like to be in the girl's place? If you don't care about the Casanova, you shouldn't feel anything, but if you still feel something for him, you'll feel envious.
- You need to flirt with other people and make sure the casanova knows you are doing it. This way, you should be able to spark some spark of jealousy in him. You can also try flirting with one of his friends, as long as it's not someone who is very close to him. So stay away from his best friend and try an acquaintance he likes.
- Expect the worst. Depending on your age, some of these guys may have a lot of experience with different partners, or have just used whatever girl they could find. It's a very sad thing, but try not to become one of the achievements on his list! He will try to use you and then try to get rid of you. Don't let him fool you!
- Stop talking about Casanova with his friends. Guys tell each other everything, so remember that everything you say to them is as if you say it to him.
Warnings
- Look your best, put on some perfume, keep fit and live your life. Your world doesn't have to revolve around one person.
- Be careful.
- Don't go out and flirt with people you don't like. Try not to skew your relationship with your friends because of this person. They are the ones who really matter.
- Try to be sure of yourself. You are beautiful and unattainable.
- Friend, try to be honest with yourself. Are you sexy enough to be able to carry out this plan? You have to be able to turn men around as you please.
- Don't make a fool of yourself.
