Shyness is a human feeling, but it can prevent people from enjoying many beautiful things, one of which is kissing. It should never be an obstacle in people's lives, and especially in romantic relationships. If you and your partner have a hard time kissing because you are shy, there are many ways to solve this problem. The following article will give you some pointers that could make your relationship less complicated.
Steps
Step 1. Find the right place
If both of you are shy, it is unlikely that you will want to kiss in public. After all, it's not always a good idea to swap this kind of affection in front of other people. So, find a place where you feel comfortable so that you can kiss smoothly. While it should be quiet and comfortable, it doesn't need to be decorated with candles and flowers. This is the first step in starting to overcome shyness.
Step 2. Choose the correct words
If the atmosphere is relaxing, don't be silent. It's true that kissing doesn't require conversation, but in your case there may be a small difference. You have to make your partner feel the need to kiss you and, as a result, by chatting, you will let him know how much you like and want it.
Step 3. Sit close to each other
Since you are both shy, it is better for you to sit instead of standing. Once you are seated, look each other in the eye. It is very difficult for the introverted to maintain eye contact, but in this situation it is necessary. After some time, your partner's gaze may slowly drop and focus on your lips. In the meantime, it is likely to approach while you stay in your seat.
Step 4. Hold hands
In this way, the need to kiss will increase and the other person will be encouraged to take the initiative. Don't be embarrassed because even three-year-olds can hold hands.
Step 5. Begin kissing, but not passionately
Yes, you will be able to put aside your shyness for a while, but only for a while. Your partner will bring their face closer to yours and you should do the same. Naturally your lips will come into contact and at that moment you will start kissing. However, do not prolong this moment and do not get too carried away by emotions. When the kiss is over, you can't wait to repeat it. At that point the shyness will have completely disappeared, giving way to passion.
Advice
- Think about how much you like your partner.
- Remember that the other person is with you for a reason: you like him and he wants to kiss you!
- Believe in yourself.
- Remember that with shyness you will not go anywhere.
- Imagine you don't have another chance to kiss your partner.
- Have fun.
Warnings
- Don't think too much, or you might look awkward.
- Don't let shyness take over.
- Don't make it clear to the other person that you are trying to kiss them.
- Don't be put off by your partner's behavior.
- Don't lose heart if things don't go the way you expected.
