Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities of a person, whether it is a boy or a girl. Learning to believe in yourself will help you date a confident girl. Skip to step one now to figure out how to behave appropriately.
Steps
Step 1. Be direct and positive; also, don't be afraid to face and overcome your fears
Girls like these can't tolerate the insecurity that prevents personal growth.
Step 2. Introduce yourself
It's okay if she's completely random, but be prepared to tell her the truth about why you approached her (you think she's beautiful, smart, etc.).
Step 3. Make sure you have a strong will
Confident, self-sufficient, and witty girls love challenges, not lickers.
Step 4. Ask her out
Don't make it too formal and romantic. Self-confident girls appreciate the ability to dream, as long as they know how to distinguish between 'dream' and 'reality'. Make sure, especially if it was you who proposed it (which may not even be the case), that it is unconventional, casual and unique.
Step 5. Be prepared to surprise her from time to time
Self-confident girls love good ideas followed by smart implementation.
Step 6. Ask her to be in a stable relationship
At some point, if she likes you and she hasn't asked you already, ask her to be your girlfriend.
- If he says no, get your things together and move on. Never pursue her. If he wants you to be just friends, ask yourself if you can accept him.
- If she says yes, keep treating her well, don't rush too much (let her set the pace, otherwise she'll just feel like a sex object) and you'll have a great relationship. Remember to also respect your limits and let her know if she is going too fast. Go at the speed desired by the person who needs the most time.
Advice
- Not all self-confident girls will try to dominate or control you or your relationship. No truly self-confident person will try to dominate or control you, but they will often take control of the situation. A confident person will justify their arguments with meaningful reasoning, and you will have to do the same to change their mind.
- Don't treat her like a doll. You will be dropped. It is an achievement, but not a prize to be won to show it around. Keep it with you because you admire it, not because your friends admire it.
- Keep living your life. Successful women are attracted to success.
- Self-sufficient and intelligent girls don't feel the need for a boy. Don't expect it to fall into your arms in no time.
- Be prepared to lose against her, in discussions or in any kind of competition. Lose with grace. "Lose the battle, win the war".
- I know their worth, so be prepared to fight for such a girl. It is worth it.
- Treat her like the woman she is. Girls with a free spirit and no fear of living life to the full do not admit that they are treated badly by boys or anything else.
