You like that guy a lot and you have talked for a long time. At one point you stepped forward, thinking you weren't going to be disappointed. Unfortunately you were wrong. Maybe you still like him, or you just want to just keep talking to him. It might be embarrassing at first, so read these tips.
Steps
Step 1. Wait for the right time
Wait for the occasion when he will feel comfortable with you. It could take a week, maybe months, to find the courage to tell him something. When you feel like it, you can try again.
Step 2. Make some effort
Start by sitting next to him during class. Stay close to him while you queue for something. Talk to his friends. Give him a look when you are in class. If he is looking at you too, there is a good chance that he wants to talk to you: it's time to let him know that you are not afraid to face him.
Step 3. Ask your friends to be close to you and talk to them showing you are lively and amused
He will certainly notice. You appear nice and joyful, improvise a few lines when he is near, smile or hum a song that he also knows.
Step 4. Watch it more often
Talk to him, get closer to him. Behave like a friend.
Step 5. Be yourself
Even if you try to dress well and look pretty, if he likes you it's more about your personality than anything else.
Step 6. Don't think that communicating with that guy will give you another opportunity to win him back, just focus on re-establishing a dialogue with him, or a friendship
Step 7. After trying with him, give yourself a break, to forget the disappointment and to make sure that the embarrassment between the two of you vanish
When you feel ready, try to get to know him better simply as a friend. Send him some text messages like "hello, how are you?", That make him understand that you are not angry with him. And who knows, maybe one day you could impress him and conquer him!
Step 8. When you are back to texting regularly, end yours with little kisses
You will let him know that you still like him.
Step 9. If these tips don't lead to any results, find another guy, with whom you have more in common
You can start dating new acquaintances during lunch breaks or in your free time.
Advice
- Remember to always feel comfortable in his presence. Do not overdo it.
- Don't ask him out through his friends, you won't make a good impression.
- Just treat him like a friend.
- Do not be overly friendly with him, he will understand that there is something strange.
- Be kind and friendly. If he lets you know that he would like to be your friend, catch the signs and consider it a first step to reestablish communication between you.
- Try not to let him know that you still like him, treat him like he's one of your friends!
Warnings
- Don't spend too much time on it. If someone has rejected you it is because they are not interested enough in you, so you have to accept this reality, even if it could hurt you.
- If you are already friends, or if you want to become friends with him, never start an argument by talking about his rejection: it will only make him feel uncomfortable and you will regret it. He will not know how to react and how to tell you that you are not his type, and you will give him the impression of being too anchored in the past.
