Love a Married Man. How complicated are these simple 4 words? One could read them and think, possible? No matter which side of the fence you are on, you will still agree that this is a controversial and morally sensitive topic. How does it start? The touch of a hand, an innocent conversation, a look? This article is for women who love men who are married to one another and need positive guidance and support to overcome their problems.
Steps
Step 1. All relationships are based on the following concepts:
- Desire: when a person (visually) observes another's actions or their appearance, creating an image of interest.
- Attraction: Occurs when a person feels (feeling) a connection with a person that goes beyond the image.
- Love: is a combination of desire and attraction characterized by a certain level or intensity.
Step 2. In relationships, there are varying depths of desire, attraction and love
This is why some relationships are built on a deeper and more lasting bond. Marriage is considered the ultimate expression of the intensity of love and "positive proof" that your partner is irrevocably and unconditionally attached to you and will stay with you until the end of time. This is a valid interpretation of marriage, but the value given to it depends on the individuals who embark on this adventure. If the level or depth of the aforementioned elements is taken superficially, the commitment will not be supported by an eternal bond.
Step 3. A married man involved with another woman, sexually, sentimentally, or in any other way disagreeing with his marriage vows, he is in fact not married (sentimentally).
- Marriage is a sacred (emotional) contract, in which two people declare, in accordance with the laws of God, a mutual commitment and love.
- A (physical) wedding is a ceremony in which two individuals declare their mutual commitment and love to relatives and friends.
- When the man violates the (emotional) contract, he is a mere participant in the (physical) marriage ceremony.
Step 4. There is also a very real possibility that all of us (men and women) can love more than one person at the same time on a deep level
Maybe that's the way it is for him / her, and it's the same for you. This can be even more true if both sides are open and honest with this type of situation.
Step 5. Be ready for the challenge
Truthfully, a single man can cause more drama, detriment, and unnecessary pain to your life, if his intentions aren't admirable. Which often happens. He can fool you for months, even years, and leave you stunned and confused as to why he doesn't want to commit, why he just wants dates to go to bed or be friends with benefits, you probably already know this type of man, the eternal gamer. With a married man, you know he has tried to commit to a serious and monogamous relationship, and is probably a good father and breadwinner and a great lover, all considered excellent characteristics by women, secretly desired in a man.
Advice
- You have to value yourself and honor yourself, so you don't end up like the mat and run to his side when he calls just because it suits him. You are inevitably low on his priority list, but if he has to make an effort to have your love and is unable to, don't hesitate to go ahead and move on to someone who will.
- You deserve to have a relationship that is totally and completely yours. Don't stop looking for a man who is capable of being part of an honest relationship.
- This article Not he wants to suggest you run after married men; it's only for women who are already dating a married man and need to hear opinions. Do yourself a favor, before you hear all the "why you shouldn't do this or that", give them the benefit of the doubt and treat them with respect; let go of your inhibitions, your double standards, and move on without remorse. If you don't do this, you will be hurt unnecessarily. This Not it's a relationship suitable for the faint of heart.
- Seek professional help if you feel that you are losing control and cannot find your way. It is not healthy to remain in a relationship that causes pain or is violent in some way.
Warnings
- Perhaps you will want to satisfy him continuously because you feel in competition with his wife. Slows! This is not a race. Have faith in your decisions and analyze the facts yourself. Discretion is the key. Don't let anyone know about your relationship. You have to face your decisions and actions alone in this relationship. You will have no support system and you will be judged as an outcast. This will only bring more heartache and cause you unnecessary emotional baggage and doubts about your relationship.
- You deserve a man who loves you. And everyone has the right to follow their instincts - including the man who wants you. It is normal and healthy to listen to your instincts.
- Do not create, assume and make a hasty and negative judgment about him, just because he is married. Follow your instincts, avoid questioning yourself. If the relationship isn't healthy and he's a womanizer, abusive, or just a constant lie, walk away as fast as you can. Do not enter into a sexual relationship or do any immoral act that could defame you, his wife or other family members. It will be difficult because as a woman you have a natural desire to comfort your man, and turn everything wrong in his world into right.
- When he has to resolve issues with his wife, children, work or health, he will put you on a break. This will hurt you if you are used to communicating with him on a daily basis, but that's why he likes you. It can come back to you without consequences.
- Remember that we all give off vibrations and everyone involved in your life could actually understand what is going on. Maybe the wife knows this too and gives her consent for this to happen, otherwise it couldn't happen - so you don't have to feel guilty.
