If you are here it is because you are looking for secret techniques to attract a man, woman or similar. Well, there's nothing secret, you just have to be comfortable with yourself.
Steps
Step 1. Don't seek attention. This means laughing unnecessarily, out loud to get people to notice or think you are funny. There is a big difference between a cute but whispered laugh and a fake and coarse one. The latter in fact makes you annoying.
Step 2. Don't be afraid to defend your musical, artistic, etc. tastes
At the same time, respect the fact that we all have different opinions from yours. Being narrow-minded isn't cool, arguing about something to educate others and yourself is an alternative to quarreling.
Step 3. Don't swear too much
It is neither cute nor funny. Sometimes a few bad words are fine, but if everything that comes out of your mouth is obscene or offensive then others will not appreciate you. Learn how to control your mouth.
Step 4. Be sure
Do not be uncertain in front of others: even if you are not looking for compliments or pity, you would seem so.
Step 5. Develop a technique for everything you do
What does it mean? Well, it means doing everything well, efficiently and maybe with a bit of madness. Excessive movements aren't always considered cute, funny, or playful so don't become a speck.
Step 6. Be happy
Don't spread negative energies around you. If you have nothing nice to say, just be silent. The purpose of communication is to make positive changes.
Step 7. Don't judge. The things you say about others reflect what you think about yourself. If you love yourself, you will also love others. You don't have to fall in love with them, just respect them.
Step 8. Don't be a stalker. It's embarrassing, it's scary, and ultimately it drives people away. If you constantly text someone who "doesn't" want to know about you and they stop responding, you should let it go. Don't follow people, don't keep their photographs hidden somewhere, and don't build an altar to worship them.
Step 9. Don't look for others. If you are constantly on the hunt, friends will think that you are not a complete person. You will never find the other half because you were not born as part of a perfect whole, YOU are a whole person and the purpose of a relationship is sharing with another person.
Step 10. Don't be selfish
Sharing is loving and sometimes people ask for something to borrow. If you have an aversion to lending things to others, then you can kindly explain it. Don't be lazy if you have to take something out of the bag, do it and extend the pen or whatever. If this person is known to return items in terrible condition or not to return them at all, then it is probably best not to lend them.
Step 11. Don't make it personal
For example, don't always and only talk about things related to you. Many don't care to be updated on your life, especially if you ignore them when they talk, there are Facebook and Tumblr if you think your life is so important.
Step 12. Don't talk about people you don't know
In fact, don't speak ill of anyone. Confiding in a friend is fine, as long as it's not an excuse for silly chatter and you really want to solve your problem.
Step 13. Don't be lazy
We all have responsibilities and motivation is not something that grows ingrained. You have to do what you have to do. Find a job that you are passionate about and keep the passion for everything else. If you hate doing housework, remember that the faster you get rid of the boring stuff, the faster you'll get to the funniest ones.
Step 14. Don't depend on others
Remember you were born independent. If you refuse to go somewhere and complain that you are alone, people will not want to be with you because you are depressed.
Step 15. Don't always complain
And don't lower the morale of others. Remember that you have various fortunes. Nobody wants to date someone who claims to hate themselves and others, or feels they can't be loved. Mercy is not a way to attract others.
Step 16. Help those who help you
It is a two-way street and a balance that must be kept in balance. If you have problems and a friend helps you, it will be up to you to be there for them too. Exchange is the basis of friendship.
Step 17. Don't focus your life on how others see you
You should be comfortable with yourself without worrying about what others think. Other people don't dictate your life or your choices, so DON'T let them!
Step 18. Don't do things just because others think they are strong
It's okay to have preferences and flaunt them to meet people with similar interests, but being brash, boastful, and a braggart attitude doesn't make you attractive at all. Not to mention that it makes you look fake.
Step 19. Don't be fake
If someone tells you something you don't know, be honest. They probably talk about new things and you could learn them. In return, they will ask you what maybe you know and they would like to know. Keep up to date regarding your interests.
Step 20. Most importantly, be honest
Honesty is the best policy. Don't talk to someone who lies or thinks they know everything.
