Are you a gay teenager and would like to have a boyfriend? Keep reading this article and you will find the answers to your questions.
Steps
Step 1. First, think if you really want it
Sometimes people make decisions without first thinking about it enough, and then regret it and suffer. Make sure you're ready for a relationship.
Step 2. Find a friend to hang out with who you feel comfortable with
Hang out often, get to know him better but avoid being "sticky".
Step 3. Don't rush
You shouldn't rush things. Even if the guy sends you signals to tell you he likes you, don't get rushed. It could simply be his character and not the expression of his feelings.
Step 4. Give him his space
You don't want to suffocate him with your presence. Let him have time to himself if you don't want him to become wary of you.
Step 5. Go for a walk or a movie together
You don't have to go out together every weekend, but at least every other weekend. If you find yourself too stuffy take a step back, but DO NOT take it away from you.
Step 6. After some time, a good confidence will have developed between you
Whatever you do, avoid becoming your "friend of the heart" for him. This is certainly not the type of relationship you want.
Step 7. If you think your friend reciprocates your interest, choose a neutral place where you can talk to him, for example a coffee shop
Think of a place that you can easily leave if the discussion takes an unexpected direction.
Step 8. Stay calm
Don't be too nervous when you step forward. Even if you are, try not to show it too much. He'll likely be agitated too, so it's important that you at least keep your nerve.
Step 9. If he says yes, it will be great news
From then on, you and your boyfriend will be free to express your feelings and the relationship could grow and last over time.
Step 10. If he says no, don't despair
Nobody likes to see a scene, so react like a mature person. Cry and let off steam when you are alone, in your room, but not in front of him.
Step 11. Enjoy the moment
There is no need to take yourself too seriously or make a drama out of it! Make fun of yourself, have fun, joke. Your relationship will strengthen.
