Want to get noticed by a guy? Try following the tips below to conquer it.
Steps
Step 1. Make sure you are happy with your appearance and personality
When you are unhappy or insecure, your feelings can also be seen from the outside. Stand in front of the mirror and smile while trying different expressions. Always smile when you are with him, or when you are around with your friends to let him know that you have a full life as well as wanting to attract the attention of the boys. You don't have to ignore it entirely, but still avoid obsessive attitudes.
Step 2. Practice walking when you are indoors
Walk with your shoulders relaxed; sway your hips, but not too much, so as not to give the impression of pretending too much.
Step 3. When you have classes together at school, compliment him:
for example, "Wow, I really like your writing", or "I like your shirt". Maybe he'll give you a compliment too. However, if he doesn't reciprocate, it is very likely that he is not interested; guys always look for the right opportunity to compliment a girl they like.
Step 4. If you drop something by accident, pick it up and give it to him with a smile
In this way he will understand that you feel comfortable helping him, and probably, you will start a conversation. However, don't turn yourself into the "boyfriend" of the relationship. If, in the opposite situation, he does not pick up an object that has fallen on you, do not force the situation and let some time pass, even one or two years, to make him "more man".
Step 5. Don't be too shy
Always laugh at his jokes, but not at all, otherwise he'll think you're exaggerating. Ask him questions about his interests and ask him what he does for fun.
Step 6. If you're SURE he likes you, but think he's too nervous to ask you out, play hard
Talk to other guys and behave independently and confidently. Guys go crazy when they see you flirting with others!
Step 7. Be intimate, but also private
If he really likes you, you don't need to always show him your sexy side. Get noticed, but don't put yourself in an uncomfortable situation. If he likes things you don't share, chances are he's not the right guy for you.
Step 8. If he doesn't like who you really are, that's his problem and he's obviously not the perfect guy for you
Just keep being yourself. Remember, there is definitely a great person who will love you for who you are; if you keep looking, you will eventually find it.
Advice
- Don't try to be the person you are not; behave naturally. If he doesn't notice you for the great person you are, then he's the one who's missing us. You will find the right person with time.
- Make sarcastic jokes, but make sure he understands that you are joking.
- When you are alone, talk about this and that, or pass love notes to flirt.
Warnings
- Don't laugh too much, you'll look clingy and push it away!
- If you don't like him that much, DON'T flirt! One of your friends might like it, or someone who is NOT your friend.
- Never talk about your past relationships, unless he asks you, and answer vaguely.
- Don't point out that you like him too much.
