Whether you want to get noticed on Youtube or at school, for a promotion or by the unsuspecting recipient of your love interest, wikiHow can help you grab everyone's attention! Start with step 1 below to become the center of attention.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Part 1: How to behave
Step 1. Respect yourself
When other people see that you don't respect you they start to fear (sometimes only subconsciously) that maybe you are not worthy of respect. Show them how deserving you are by taking care of yourself and letting them see how much you think you are worth. Eat healthy, exercise, and maintain good personal hygiene (such as showering, brushing your teeth, and using deodorant).
Step 2. Dress like you mean business
You should always be dressed as if you expect to be noticed. Do not wear clothes of a size other than yours that do not fit you, with stains, tears or that are not ironed. This indicates that you don't want to be seen. On the contrary, dress better than everyone else and commit to dressing yourself up.
Step 3. Be confident
Self-confidence is a very attractive quality. If you are sure, many people will notice you and seek your guidance and help (knowingly or not). From the people you hang out with to those you work with, everyone will notice when you start behaving confidently. Express your opinion, make decisions, speak as if you are confident, and stop talking as if you are worth little or nothing. Definitely stop apologizing for every little thing.
Step 4. Be sociable
If you want to get noticed, you need to start dating. Talk to people, attend events, make friends. You need to build a network (of friends, clients, future employers or colleagues, or even just people who can help you get a date).
Step 5. Be friendly
Be nice and friendly to people. Be positive. If you are a jerk who talks badly about others behind their backs, who gets angry or takes revenge for any nonsense, people will be afraid that they will be the next to receive your poor treatment. They may say they appreciate your ruthless "I'd do anything to get what I want" attitude, but it will actually make them suspicious. You're much more likely to get help, promotions, or positive social (and romantic!) Attention if you're a nice person to be around.
Step 6. Be current
Do you know how you care about your parents when they keep dressing like it's 1968? Other people will think that you are essentially just reworking old things, be it ideas, styles or habits. Sticking to the old ways means you don't know how to change and don't know how to be creative. Instead, try to push yourself to the limit, constantly pushing to find new and better ways of doing things.
Method 2 of 3: Part 2: What to do
Step 1. Take the initiative
Take the bull by the horns. Don't wait for things to happen, go out and make them happen. Whether it's asking a friend to go out together after 5 years of back and forth, asking for a promotion at work, or sending your demo to all the record companies on the planet: do what you need to do to start going where you want to go.. The best thing to do if you want people to notice you is to make them notice you.
Step 2. Take smart risks
To be noticed, you need to stand out. You have to have something to offer that no one else has. The best way to do this is to take smart risks. Do something great, but do it well. Weigh the risk versus the payoff and only take the leap if it's worth it. Taking risks is generally scary and you may be reluctant, but you will never go anywhere exciting, staying still and safe in the same place all your life.
Step 3. Adjust to the difficulties
Be flexible. Don't panic when things don't follow your plans. When something negative happens, make it positive. When something positive happens, find a way to take it with you for a rainy day. Your boss will be impressed, but even the guy you like will know that no matter what crazy things happen in life, you will help him get on without breaking a sweat.
Step 4. Be a good leader and teammate
Good leadership and the ability to work with others are attractive qualities for everyone, from your boss at work, to your teachers at school, to that girl you really want to hang out with. When you can, take control of the situation, keep people motivated and make them work hard, and sacrifice personal glory for the good of the team when the time comes. People will notice you because this is the behavior of a winner… and they will want you on their team.
Step 5. Go further
People will tell you that to get noticed you will have to work hard, but you are probably already doing it (and if not, start right away because nothing will ever fall out of the sky). What you need to do is not just work hard but go beyond the call of duty. No matter what you are doing, whether it is working or trying to conquer the object of your desires, you need to do more than you expect to be able to show people how great you are.
Step 6. Constantly improve
You should work to constantly improve and keep your current and ever-changing job and skills. A stagnant job or personality becomes boring and people will get tired of you. With an exciting and new life and job you can keep others interested and yourself happy.
Method 3 of 3: Part 3: Specific Help
Step 1. Get media success
Are you talented but no one seems to notice you in this media-filled culture? For that there is wikiHow.
- Become popular on Youtube. Let the people who follow you be fruitful and multiply.
- Be famous on Tumblr. Receive hundreds of reblogs!
- Become famous. You will definitely be the next Michael Jackson.
Step 2. Get social success
It may seem impossible to go from being that lonely guy in the corner of the room to being the center of attention, but it's really possible with a little determination and patience.
Step 3. Get the person of your dreams
Are you invisible to the object of your desires? Tired of getting confused with the landscape? You can get his attention and win him over. It's time to enjoy your happy ending.
Step 4. Get Success at Work
Do you do the bottom while your boss doesn't even notice? Are you tired of seeing fellow idiots being promoted while you essentially cook burgers? You can get a promotion if you follow some advice and take the initiative.
Advice
- Always remember to smile! A smile lets everyone know that you are a pleasant person to be around!
- Remember not to overdo it. You know when you are attractive, stick to that!
- Wear the clothes you like, not the ones your mother chose. It's normal for your mother not to know how boys your age dress.
- Be yourself, you can't please people if you are not. Be happy every day and keep a cheerful attitude!
- Don't be afraid to try new things. If your style is different, gothic, emo, don't change just to get noticed.
