If you're looking for a prom guy and tired of waiting for someone to ask you, don't worry! Asking a guy to accompany you is a lot easier and less embarrassing than you think. Read this article to learn how.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Part One: Prepare
Step 1. Check if it's already busy
This will save you time and hassle, and will give you a way to find another guy if needed.
- If you're not sure, ask one of his friends or someone from his group. Try to understand his availability before asking him out.
- If he has a girlfriend, he is likely to go with her.
Step 2. Think in advance who else you could invite
In the event that your first choice isn't available, it might guarantee you won't go to prom without a boyfriend.
Step 3. Try to understand how you would like to ask him
You could do this in person or over the phone if you have her number. It is also acceptable to ask him with an email or with Facebook if you do not want to do it face to face.
Method 2 of 2: Part two: Ask him out
Step 1. Start by greeting him
Send him a friendly message: “Hi, how are you?” If, on the other hand, you ask him in person, then approach him and say hello.
- Make sure you smile and feel confident, even if you are very nervous. Many guys like confident, self-confident girls. (However, don't act pompous or arrogant.)
- Wear something that makes you feel attractive. If you felt beautiful inside, you will have to see outside as well.
Step 2. Introduce the subject of the dance
Ask him if he has to go or if he has other plans.
If it is already busy, NOT ask him to ditch his current girlfriend to go with you. It is unfair to the current girl, and it will appear as desperate and numb behavior.
Step 3. Ask him if he would like to go with you
Make sure you smile and make eye contact if you ask him in person.
Share your plans with him if you have any. For example, if you and your best friends have rented a limo, tell them. This will help him decide, and show him that you've already planned a fun afternoon
Step 4. Maintain your composure, regardless of his response
If he says yes, tell him you are enthusiastic, but don't jump up or scream for joy; you certainly don't want him to regret his decision! If he says no, kindly tell him that you have no hard feelings and walk away.
Step 5. Organize appropriate programs if he says yes
Decide who will pick up who, where you will meet, and what color your dress will be, if it's a formal ball, so that he too can determine which dress to wear.
Advice
- Avoid asking in front of other people. It may be unpleasant for both of you, especially if her answer is no.
- For best results, ask a guy who you think might be interested in you or your friend. However, don't be afraid to ask who you really like!
