To gain notoriety you can try to join the popular kids group. To do this, try to be more active in school and make sure you behave in a pleasant and helpful way. Just remember that the most important thing is to be yourself.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Be More Active in School
Step 1. Befriend a popular person
Sit next to a classmate who seems kind, friendly, and in the most coveted circle to you. Forming a friendship with a friend who is better known than you can give you access to the entire group. Start talking to him in a friendly tone and try to ingratiate yourself with him. Ask him if he wants to study with you or meet you after school.
If the friendship between you does not arise spontaneously, do not force it. The relationship will develop naturally or it will not develop at all
Step 2. Approach his group of friends
Once you've built a solid relationship with one of the most popular guys, gradually start interacting with the people you know when they're all together. A very simple first step is to say hello to your friend when he is around others. Over time you will be able to become more familiar with everyone and gradually begin to form relationships with the other members of the group.
Step 3. Participate in new activities
You shouldn't change your personality or your preferences, but if you want to get noticed by the most popular guys, you can try something new. Many popular people play a sport, dance or have other passions, but each of us is different. Consider trying a new activity where popular kids are involved. By sharing a hobby with them, you may be able to get noticed.
Step 4. Join the student representative bodies
This is a great way to get noticed in school. Becoming a class representative or participating in school activities is an ideal way to make yourself known. Popular kids are likely to notice you if you organize school assemblies, school events, and if you speak in front of all the pupils.
Step 5. Talk in class
Participate in classes actively. You don't have to try to become the professor's boyfriend; however, in some cases you should raise your hand, give answers and ask questions. This is a great way to get noticed by your peers, including the most popular ones.
Step 6. Get noticed for your talent
This way you will attract the attention of the most popular guys. You can be a smart student who wins awards or a great athlete who excels in sports. Find an activity that you do well and do it. Being successful will earn you notoriety and respect.
Method 2 of 2: Be Pleasant and Helpful
Step 1. Take care of personal hygiene
It is important to think about hygiene if you want to make new friends. Take a shower and put on deodorant every day. Make sure you brush your teeth twice a day. Brush your hair often and find a hairstyle that looks good on you.
Step 2. Be yourself
Don't change your personality to fit in with others and don't do anything you don't want. You will feel safer and happier if you act spontaneously. Accept your character and physical traits, as well as all the other elements that make you unique. It is better to form real friendships with people than to try to become something you are not. Be yourself and if someone doesn't like you, the worse for them.
Step 3. Find a style that suits you
Choose your clothes carefully, but don't change them to transform your personality. Find a style you like by searching the internet or fashion magazines for inspiration. Open the closet and decide which items to keep and which ones to throw away. Don't think that you have to wear expensive clothes; you can find a lot of trendy clothes in cheap shops or even in thrift markets. The most important thing is that they make you feel safe and comfortable.
Step 4. Be confident
Do what you can to believe in yourself and people will appreciate you more. Popular guys will also be more likely to notice you. Think positive affirmations about yourself, walk and talk confidently, listen to cheerful music. Learn to love yourself and appreciate your personality.
Don't be arrogant, or you might come across as obnoxious
Step 5. Be friendly and outgoing
Having social relationships with everyone will get you noticed by the most popular guys. If you are very shy, start small and improve little by little. Befriend the least popular kids in your class first. Attend a small event or school group to practice socializing with strangers. Try not to be insecure when talking to others, but just be yourself.
- Use positive language when talking to people.
- Engage in new social activities for even just a few minutes so that you gradually become familiar.
Step 6. Be friends with people you already know
If you can get popular guys noticed and make friends with them, don't forget the friends you already have. Don't change your nature and keep a good relationship with everyone, even those who aren't popular.
Advice
- Try reaching out to popular people on social media before talking to them in person.
- It is important to form genuine friendships, so be yourself.
- Remember that there are more important things than popularity.
- In some cases the change is positive, but that doesn't mean you should become a completely different person.
- Don't get too involved with social media. This is a common mistake and very often posting an unhappy joke or saying the wrong thing can completely ruin a friendship.
- If you're in middle school and you're a kid, don't try to befriend the popular kids who always get into trouble. They would insult and hurt you, especially if you are liked by popular girls.
