Having a boyfriend or girlfriend comes with ups and downs, but in the end you love each other. The point is, are you as close as you would like? This article can help you get closer to your significant other.
Steps
Step 1. Tap
Grab his hand and gently rub your thumb on his. Embrace slowly, completely and with feeling, hold the other in your arms. It's nice when a girl snuggles up on a man's chest, with her face against it, and when a guy hugs a girl from behind or around the waist. You should feel comfortable enough to touch any part of your partner's body, but with respect and expressing "I love you and your body". Hug or sleep together, but at first without necessarily having sexual intentions. Those may take place later, they will further strengthen the feelings already present between you.
Step 2. Kiss
The little kisses are very sweet. They should not be used in public, so as not to embarrass the people around you. They are really sweet and exciting. Kiss her neck, nose, hand, back, stomach, shoulder, or eye. Kisses usually lead to more intense kisses, which are more romantic and will make you feel closer to your partner. Deeply kissing someone slowly is romantic, but if it's too impetuous it feels more direct to the sexual act, which should only be done in private. If you're feeling playful, try exploring the other's mouth, or lick their nose or face. If you're feeling adventurous, bite her tongue, lip or ear. It is more beautiful when you joke and play with each other.
Step 3. Look into your eyes
It only takes two minutes and you will immediately feel much closer.
Step 4. Try new things together
Go on a sudden adventure. Get lost together.
Step 5. Talk every day
Ask him how he feels, how he slept, what he did. Ask questions to get to know him better, listen and memorize. Tell him you miss him and wish you could hug / kiss him.
Step 6. Maintain your positivity
Step 7. Always give compliments
"You are so sweet / beautiful / charming", "I love your smile, your laugh, your eyes, your scent".
Step 8. Always be there for your love
Stay on the phone when upset, even if he doesn't speak. Take care of it when it is not well.
Step 9. Stay on the phone when it puts you on hold
Step 10. Play and be stupid
Step 11. Try to always tell the truth
Step 12. Be interested in his interests
Step 13. Give it a nickname
Honey, baby, cuddle, love, my joy, my light, etc. It will make you feel even closer if you have secret nicknames that only the two of you know.
Step 14. Perform improvised acts of gentleness
Bring her flowers for no reason or throw pebbles at her window at night.
Step 15. Be willing to meet his parents, family and friends
Getting to know the people he knows will bring you closer, and you will know who he talks about in his speeches. It is also an advantage if you get married in the future.
Step 16. Take care of yourself
Brush your teeth before you meet your sweetheart, shower, shave, dress nicely, and it smells good.
Step 17. Clean your house, room or bathroom before it shows up
If he loves you despite your dirty habits, try to show him that you love him too by cleaning up for his arrival.
Advice
- Don't tell your partner that you are researching Wikipedia to find out how to approach them.
- You smile!!! Show that you are happy to see him and be with him.
- Always make him feel free to confide in you at any time. This will build a strong bond of trust.
- Let him know that he can talk to you and confide. Hold both hands, look deeply into his eyes and say "I love you" or "You can trust me". It will make him feel special.
- It's the little things that make him feel special.
- Don't rush things.
- Don't do all the steps in one day.
- Don't do or say the same things every day, or your relationship will become boring and predictable.
- If you can sing, give him a romantic serenade.
