Being a little silly can add some spice to a relationship. You can fiddle and let your guard down without fearing his judgment, and establish a connection with your boyfriend on a new level. You have to be yourself, and if you're willing to tread uncharted territory in your relationship, you might be surprised to learn that your boyfriend wants to do the same.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Things to Do Together
Step 1. Take some funny pictures in which you make faces
Compete to see who can make the weirdest faces and then make an album with all your photos. Or try to recreate famous paintings. For example, stand side by side holding a shovel and a pitchfork to recreate the American Gothic; bend over and touch your fingers to simulate the Sistine Chapel.
Step 2. Speak using foreign accents
You both pretend to come from a distant country while going about your daily activities. Or play some famous scenes from the movies: let yourself be overwhelmed by passion on a train to Paris or ask your boyfriend to "save you" from a bomb that will explode within ten minutes.
Step 3. Put on each other's makeup in a witty way
Put makeup on his face and get him to style his hair. Those who make the most original make-up will have the opportunity to post a photo of their masterpiece on Facebook as a reward.
Step 4. Have a fight with food
If you try your hand at cooking together, throw in flour, spaghetti or any other food, as long as it is not so expensive that you have to pay the rent.
Step 5. Go to the playground and climb up
Push each other on the swing, go down the slide and compete to see who climbs higher.
Step 6. Imitate the other
Imitate the voice of the other, habits and gait. Staged a typical day in your life, each playing the part of the other.
Step 7. Play with food
Divide a bag of popcorn in half and toss them into your partner's mouth. Whenever one of you throws a phenomenal throw, yell "GOOOOOOL !!!".
Step 8. Play the fight
Pretend to fight using a specific style such as boxing, martial arts or sumo. Take turns playing the part of the sports commentator.
Step 9. Play hide and seek
Reward him with a kiss when he can find you.
Step 10. Play a scene from a movie you both love
Use bizarre voices to do this or create alternate endings.
Method 2 of 2: Things You Could Do To Your Boyfriend
Step 1. Tickle him
If he is ticklish but likes to be tickled, tickle him often and keep looking for new weaknesses. Try tickling him on his belly, hips, ribs, etc. Tickle your feet using your fingernails.
Step 2. Bring surprise attacks
If you are on the ground, grab him by the feet and try to drag him somewhere. Or try to knock him down while you fight (gently) by yelling, "You'll never get me alive !!"
Step 3. Bite it (gently)
Sink your teeth into his shoulder and pretend you're a crazed Chihuahua picking on a huge chew toy. Grow to growl. Or munch on his ears or eyebrows (some guys get very ticklish when you do this and they'll start squirming).
Step 4. Find him a ridiculous nickname
For example: Budinuccio, Testa di Pera, Dormigliorso … Talk to him as if he were your "sweet darling" and cover him with kisses on his face, especially on his cheeks. Make sure he knows that you are joking and that this is not going to be a permanent lifestyle change.
Step 5. Jump on his back when he doesn't expect it and shout "Run, horse
. Make sure he does not have his knees bent while doing it or you risk making him fall (to be honest, there is always the possibility of both ending up on the floor one on top of the other).
Step 6. React to situations in an exaggerated way
"Did you eat two bananas? All by yourself? And are you sure you didn't shoot one?"
Step 7. When he is about to kiss you, close your lips tightly, cross your eyes and shake your head
Make sure he understands you're kidding, though, so he doesn't think you're really bothered. But only do this if you kiss often and are comfortable doing it - if your relationship is still in the early stages, it could make it insecure.
Step 8. Be spontaneous
Just fool yourself from time to time, or it'll stop being nice. If you're cuddling him and he does something you like (stroking your hair, brushing your cheek, etc.), purr by pretending to be a cat. Or just stare at it without saying anything. When he finally asks, "What?", Stare at him more intently, approach him and then whisper something nonsense to him. So give him a kiss.
Advice
This tactic works best with more down-to-earth guys. Be aware that your boyfriend may not like it
Warnings
- All of these things could cause embarrassment if you two aren't alone.
- This behavior could alienate some kids. Make sure your boyfriend is enjoying himself before doing anything that takes him away from you.
- Don't be pushy or annoying. Being a fool is only fun if there are two of you doing it.
- From what comes what. You decide where you want to go (that is, if you are in the mood for a fight to tickle each other or for a little intimacy on the sofa).
