If you want a guy to go crazy for you, you need to know how to touch him the right way. There are several reasons to brush against it, depending on the intimacy of your relationship. If you've just met him, you may want to approach him to show him affection. If you want things to evolve in a specific direction, contact can help you seduce him. And if you're already together, you'll need to know how to touch him to get him high. So, if you want to know how to touch a guy, read these steps.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: How to Touch a Boy to Show Him Affection
Step 1. Hug him if you want to show him affection
Hugging is always a great way to tell someone you care. Come closer, put your arms around him and hug him to you. But don't linger too long in the hold, or you'll make him think you like him. You must have a good reason to hug him, like congratulate him on an achievement, or say hello to him when he arrives, but before you do, you need to know him well enough.
Move your head to the side so you don't bring your face too close to hers
Step 2. Squeeze his shoulder
It's another way of telling him that you care about him. Get close and quickly and gently squeeze his shoulder when you are in front of him or while you are sitting next to him. You can do this to calm him down if something is bothering him, to let him know that everything is fine, or just to let him know that you are happy to see him.
Squeeze his shoulder for a moment, quickly. There is no need to linger
Step 3. Touch his elbow
When you stand in front of him, place your hand, open, on his elbow. Touch him gently to show your affection and to break the barrier that prevents physical contact. If your hand were to linger, it would feel too intimate, while a light touch would only communicate friendship or understanding.
Step 4. Give him a pat on the hand
Are you both sitting and holding your hands on a table? Or does he keep his hands on his knees? Approach to give her hand a little pat, then squeeze it quickly, for a second. It's a great way to reassure him, make him feel special, without making the gesture too intimate. Do not squeeze his hand too much and do not dwell too much; you can do it later if you like.
Step 5. Give him a pat on the back
It's another way to show affection. You need to touch him right under the shoulder, once or twice, lightly, before you leave or to welcome him. It's a kind of hug that isn't compromising at all.
Step 6. Put your arm around his body
This gesture is still aimed at showing affection. You can do this as you walk, keeping your arm just under his shoulders. It is a way to create a certain intimacy, but a friendly one. In some cases, it can even represent something more.
Method 2 of 3: How to Touch a Guy to Flirt
Step 1. Kiss him on the cheek
This type of contact is a shrewd way to touch him in a seductive way without being too explicit. The typical occasion is when you hug to greet each other: the kiss on the cheek becomes a natural gesture. Before trying it, you must reach a good degree of confidence with him and evaluate that the opportunity is favorable: do not do it if you are in the middle of a room or in the classroom. Better, however, at the end of a party or when you are out with friends.
- When you kiss him on the cheek, just touch his face with your lips. Be careful not to give him a sticky or wet kiss.
- Remember that before you try, you must have gotten the impression that he too was prepared for this type of greeting.
Step 2. Give him a playful slap
To flirt lightly and lightly, nudge him, lightly, softly, while you are talking. You can do this on your arm if you are standing, or on your knee if you are sitting. This move should read as "Oh, stop doing what you're doing … but don't really stop …". Make sure the touch is very soft, don't hit it seriously.
If you are playful, it must be reciprocal, and the gestures of the seductive game should also be proposed by him
Step 3. Give it a kick under the table
This is another way to keep a low profile but have some impact on him. If you are sitting across from each other and he says something to make you laugh, shock or impress, then you can give him a light and playful kick under the table. Then, move your feet so that you barely touch him, almost challenging him to move.
Step 4. Play with her hair
Fiddling with a guy's hair is a stronger form of flirting. For this reason it is not convenient to abuse it, and you should find a good reason to do so. For example, if he has just cut his hair, you can gently touch it to tease him a little. If it is a bit disheveled, you could try, jokingly, to fix it. Try to figure out if they like it - it's a rather intimate gesture and not all guys appreciate who touches their hair.
Step 5. Touch his knees with yours
If you are sitting opposite each other, lean out a little until you touch his knees. If he comes too close or you are simply in the mood for more decisive action, touch his knee with yours, or slip a leg between his and squeeze his knee with your knees.
Step 6. Remove something from his face
If you want to be particularly seductive, wait until she has an eyelash or crumb on her face. Lean towards him and gently remove the intruder by brushing his skin with your fingertips. Just linger long enough to let him know you're flirting. Simultaneously approach him, making him feel that intimacy is increasing.
If you want to touch his face, you can also pretend he has an eyelash under his eye. He won't know he wasn't there and will appreciate the contact
Step 7. Take his hand
When you get closer, you can reach out to her hand and squeeze it. You can do this while you are walking, chatting or watching a movie. If you are sitting opposite, you can take his hand under the table. Gently squeeze her from time to time to reiterate your desire to be seductive.
- While holding his hand is a nice way to flirt, you should avoid this if you're not "together" yet. Holding a person's hands in public is a declaration of possession and not everyone likes it.
- Remember, then, that many guys don't like being hand-in-hand, either alone or in public. Try it with caution.
Step 8. Touch his chest
If you want to be really seductive, put your hand on his chest and lean over while you talk. This gesture is particularly effective, especially if he is standing with his back to the wall and if you are in a small, confined space.
Method 3 of 3: How to Touch a Guy to Turn Him On
Step 1. Hug him from behind
Stand behind him and hug him, bringing your arms to his stomach and bringing your body closer to his. You can rest your chin on his shoulder or press your forehead to his back, depending on your height. Let me feel your breath on my neck. It won't be long before he turns around and kisses you.
Step 2. Kiss his neck from behind
To excite him with this type of kiss, stand behind him, hug him or squeeze his shoulders, and kiss him gently under the nape, moving from side to side, until you touch him with your lips under your ears.
You can also turn him towards you to kiss him on the neck. It is very exciting, especially if you are on the bed and both of you are reclining
Step 3. Put your hands on his lower back
If you put your hands right on top of his buttocks, you will let him know that you want something more. As you approach, place your hands in this position and squeeze it to you.
Step 4. Touch the back of his head
Just above the neck, at the beginning of the nape, you will find an erogenous point. Touch him there while kissing him or during an intimate conversation. You can also massage it gently, or run your fingertips through your hair, up to the nape of your neck.
Step 5. Touch it behind your ears
It's another erogenous zone that you can touch with both your fingertips and lips. He will feel chills running down his back. You can caress that area with your hands and move slowly, to touch the ears and lobe.
Step 6. Touch the inside of his ear
It is a very intimate gesture that will drive him crazy. Look for this contact with the tip of the tongue, then blowing very lightly. If you are not comfortable with putting your tongue in that area, then gently blow with your lips to your ear. You can also touch the inside of your ears with your lips as you approach to whisper something.
Step 7. Touch his feet
It will make him particularly high. Gently stroke his big toe, run your toes over the ends of his feet and lightly tickle him. Gently massage it by running your hands between your fingers, in a circular motion, to really send it into ecstasy.
Don't do this if you're wearing sneakers and socks. His feet may not be scented, but sweaty. If, on the other hand, you are in bed, barefoot, do not miss the opportunity
Step 8. Touch his skin
Any skin-to-skin contact excites the boys. Touch his neck, cheeks, arms, wrists, bare knees and brush his lips with your fingers. Don't worry about being too bold - he'll like this contact and want more.
Advice
- Don't be in a hurry, but take your time to make the moment more intimate.
- Do not be obvious and do not touch excessively, it may be unpleasant.
- Hygiene is essential. An intimate and exciting contact cannot be created without proper hygiene.
- During the conversation, briefly touch his knee, arm, or hand to emphasize the speech, as if it were part of your natural gestures.
- Contact can be used to emphasize a moment. So, for example, shake his hand when you apologize for spilling nachos on him.
- "Slip" and fall on him. It will likely catch you, but remember that it is more than just a slight touch and may not be well received. If you plan to do this, make it happen as if it were completely random. And make sure it catches you!
- Walk beside him. When you talk to him, put your fingertips (very lightly) on his bicep, just for a second or two. Before moving, pause gently, then resume walking and talking as if nothing had happened.
- Your touch should be firm enough for him to feel contact, but also light enough to feel like a brush.
- If you give him your hand, put your other hand on his. Hold for a couple of seconds longer than you normally would while looking into his eyes. This gesture is not very suitable for the first meeting.
Warnings
- Contacts can become useless if they are exaggerated, because they would seem flattery designed specifically to enter his affective sphere.
- Unless it's an innocent habit of yours and no double ends, don't touch a boyfriend who is already engaged!
- When you meet a guy for the first time, don't touch him for a long time, caressing him everywhere. He would consider you too bold and you would get a negative reaction.
- Avoid squeezing him, pulling him towards you, and touching him when he is talking to someone else; there is no need to do the tug-of-war.
