Have you always wondered if he likes you, but you don't know how to find out? If this happens to you, don't keep looking for methods - this article will solve your doubts!
Steps
Step 1. Find out the signs that reveal interest
If a person is interested in you, you can tell by how they look at you, their attempts to communicate with you, or the way they smile at you. There are many other signs but these are the most common; You will notice them in almost everyone who has a crush on them.
Step 2. Don't assume if you don't have tangible evidence
If you've seen him stare at you once or twice, don't assume he likes you. It is not pleasant to draw conclusions too early and then be disappointed.
Step 3. Try flirting with us and pay attention to the reaction
Do you reciprocate the flirtation? Does he just nod and say only a few words? Do you react with nervousness? If he flirts himself, he is obviously interested. If he just nods, he may be distracted or fearful of saying the wrong thing. If he is nervous, he may like you a lot and he may be afraid of being rejected, or he may be afraid to cut it short on you too roughly. In this case, it's more likely to be the first option, but you can't be 100% sure.
Step 4. Become her friend
Many great relationships started with simple friendships. If you become friends, you will get to know him better and he will feel more comfortable.
Step 5. Make one of those lines that only you can understand
It is a way to create intimacy and demonstrate friendship. You wouldn't make a joke like that with a stranger, would you?
Step 6. Watch it in class
If he looks back at you, and often, he probably likes you. Does he stare at you intently for several seconds? Do you shyly look elsewhere? Does he smile at you? These are all signs that he likes you.
Step 7. Pay attention to how he looks at you
When you talk to him, do you think he is listening and understanding you? Or does he look at you with a blank stare that gives you the idea of talking to a wall? Some people also believe that the pupils get bigger when they look at something or someone they like.
Step 8. Notice how he behaves towards you
When he's with friends, does he cut you off or invite you to join the group? If he turns you off, he probably doesn't like you, while if he invites you he might have an interest or a crush.
Step 9. Tell him a long boring story or a joke that is not funny
It sounds silly, but be careful how he reacts. If you talk about the holidays spent at Grandma's house and he listens to you and asks you questions, he likes you. If after 8 minutes of telling this story he says to you: "Were you saying something?", He has thought of something else and is not so much into you. As for the non-laughing joke, if he reacts with a laugh, he likes you.
Step 10. Go out with friends and invite them
In a group everything becomes easier.
Step 11. Ask him for the number
Do it nonchalantly, don't give it too much weight. Just grab your phone to text and, meanwhile, casually ask "Hey… what's your number '". If he asks why, tell him you want to add it to your address book.
Step 12. Add him as a friend, online
Facebook, Myspace, etc. are a great way to stay in touch outside of school.
Step 13. Send him some text messages
This is another great way to stay in touch when not in class. And if you are shy, it will be easier for you to talk to him.
Step 14. If the interest is mutual, ask him for a date
If he refuses, don't worry, forget about it: there are so many fish in the sea. He may also have declined the invitation out of nervousness or fear, that doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't like you.
Advice
- Don't put pressure on it. Respect him if he tells you that he likes you but doesn't want to hang out with you, or that he's not ready for a relationship. There's nothing wrong with that, and you never know what's going to happen in the future.
- Try gently touching his arm while talking to him. If he moves, he probably feels genuinely uncomfortable.
- Don't overdo it, let him chase you a bit. If he gives you the number and says "Hey, text me", you are handling the situation well.
- Ask him! If you have come to be friends, tell him about your feelings: if you don't ask you won't know! And if it weren't mutual, at least you weren't going to waste too much time.
- Just keep being friends with him, and when he gets out of a relationship or feels heartbroken, tell him you're always there for him.
Warnings
- Don't stare.
- Don't be creepy.
- Don't let it break your heart.
