Has your friend moved to another city? Or maybe you have had a fight and don't talk to each other anymore. Friends come and go, whether it's for quarrels, separate ways, or other reasons, and it's never something easy to get over. It is a process that requires patience, acceptance and a willingness to expose yourself and meet new people.
Steps
Step 1. In case this friend no longer wants to have anything to do with you, whatever the reason, there is one
He can be made up, as stupid and ridiculous as you want, but respect his decision not to want to be a part of your life anymore.
Step 2. Even if you are no longer friends with this person, never forget the good times we had together
Everything happens for a reason, but know that this change is for the better, even if it doesn't seem that way at first.
Step 3. People change
It's life, and there's nothing you can do about it. One year you may be this person's best friend, and the next, they may have changed completely. Just know that he is the one who has lost something beautiful, and that something is you. You must have self-esteem and recognize your beauty.
Step 4. Do something to distract yourself from this loss
Step 5. Join a club or group
It's a great way to make new friends with the same interests as you. It's also a good way to get over the loss of someone who was a big part of your life.
Step 6. If he doesn't want to be your friend anymore, he's the loser and it should be his problem to deal with, not yours
Step 7. Understand that no matter how much you esteem and love someone, time can really blur things until they are too distant to bring them back to how they were
Step 8. Get to know some of your other friends better
Step 9. If he moves, you can still keep in touch
There are many sites, such as Facebook or Skype, which can be useful for this purpose, as well as emails and phone calls.
Step 10. Know that for every closed door there is a door that opens
Step 11. Also remember that if he doesn't want to make the effort to be your friend, he shouldn't care any more than it matters to him
Step 12. If you have lost someone to an argument, such as telling them the truth about something, and they won't forgive you, they are the one who loses
And if he can't understand you, then he's not a friend worth having.
Step 13. Rejoice in your ability to care about people and find someone who appreciates a caring friend like you
Step 14. Forgive yourself and move on with your life
There is no point in self-pitying too much for past mistakes.
