Are you looking for a way to get closer to the girl you like? Laughing is an excellent strategy to break the ice when you are just starting out with someone, but also to let the person you have a crush on know that you care. With a little training and preparation you can fill any meeting or appointment with laughter, in order to push the girl you like to really imagine a future with you.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Determine Your Strategy
Step 1. Get to know the person you are interested in
When you're getting to know a girl, it may not be straightforward to understand what makes her laugh. If you don't know her very well yet, try talking to her more often to get an idea of her interests. Pay attention to the clothes she is wearing and the items she carries with her, looking for links to TV series she might be following, topics she might be passionate about, literary genres, music, movies, or whatever. These elements will allow you to get a more complete idea of the kind of humor that could impress her.
Spending more time with her and her friends is a great way to get to know her better. When you see her laughing, try to understand what kind of joke hit her and try to replicate that kind of humor when you are with her
Step 2. Test your jokes with other people
You will never know if a joke is effective or old unless you test it on other people. Your parents may have heard your jokes a million times, so try showing them off to your friends, or people you meet at a party, to see how it affects them. If you find that some jokes are funnier than others, focus on their winning characteristics and try to improve your less fun jokes as well.
Step 3. Learn to imitate other people's jokes
If you're not the type that joking around comes naturally, don't worry. You can find many types of jokes and jokes around, for example by browsing through books, blogs and videos: choose the ones you like best and memorize them. In this way, the next time you are with the girl you like, you can tell her a hilarious joke and no one will ever know that you copied it somewhere.
Make sure you find jokes that are right for you. You certainly don't want the girl you like to get the wrong idea of your personality by making jokes that don't suit you in the least
Step 4. Train
No matter what kind of humor you decide to show off with the person you like, practice putting it into practice. Comic tempos are key to any joke, imitations can always be perfected and sarcasm is not easy to hit the mark. Practice with your family or train in front of the mirror until you are perfect. You certainly don't want to get the words wrong or stumble when you say the highlight of your latest joke. You can never impress the girl you like if you just stammer in front of her.
If you've worked out, you'll feel more confident when it comes time to show off your humor to the girl you like. He will be able to admire how confident you are and appreciate your personality and strength of character
Method 2 of 2: Make the Girl You Like Laugh
Step 1. Tell her jokes
When you go out with the girl you like, choose the right time to tell her a joke. Whether you heard it from someone else or thought about it yourself, making a girl laugh is a great way to get her attention and look more attractive in her eyes. It can also be a great way to break the ice. Laughing will make you both feel more comfortable, relieving the tension that often builds in a new relationship.
- For example, try a pun. You make a joke like “What did a spit do on a ladder? Saliva." These are witty jokes that make almost everyone laugh.
- Try to place a slightly flirty joke at the right moment. Try something like this: "Knock knock!" "Who is?" "You" "You who?" "You who are so beautiful when you smile". This will give her a compliment and, in all likelihood, will be able to make her smile.
- Always be careful when making a joke. You certainly don't want to give the wrong impression of yourself, offending the girl you like at the beginning of your relationship. Limit yourself to topics that are appropriate for all types of people. Save the more intimate jokes for when you get to know her better.
Step 2. Make jokes about your surroundings
Try making funny comments about the environment around you. For example, you may notice a "push / pull" sign on a door and think it is a little too big. Take the opportunity to make a joke, for example by saying "Couldn't they have made that sign a little wider? We would have understood the concept anyway.”, Then deliberately exaggerate your movements as you push the door to open it. Or you pretend the sign is wrong, pretend to push to open the door and act like it doesn't work. By doing so, you will make her understand that you are attentive to the environment around you and will show her that you are capable of making jokes on the spot.
In this type of situation, you could also try to add a bit of sarcasm. If by any chance you see someone driving an oversized SUV, try to make a comment like this: “I don't understand people who buy such big cars to get around town. That they have to compensate for something? ". Shrewd humor is generally appreciated and will surely make her laugh. But make sure you don't just speak in sarcastic comments. They may think that you are a negative person and don't lose the desire to be around you
Step 3. Provoke it
Find out about minor aspects of her character or appearance that you can use to provoke her. Make a joke about how big her bag is or the size of her sunglasses, about anything small and insignificant. Try asking her, for example: “Are you going to rob a bank later? We could use your purse to empty the whole vault. Remember to use a light tone and smile. You don't want to make her think that you are making fun of her.
- Don't overdo it and don't hurt his feelings. Don't touch on sensitive topics such as her weight, appearance, or other issues that could be her weaknesses. You certainly don't want to make her think that you intend to offend her in the early stages of your courtship.
- Also make fun of yourself. Doing so will make her understand that you are a self-deprecating type and that you don't take yourself too seriously. Try saying something like “I'm a great driver. Today nobody even made fun of me while I was trying to park”. But I remembered not to overdo it and not to be too critical of you.
Step 4. Also use your body for jokes
You can spice up any company moment with some funny action. Pretend to bump into a door, fall and hurt yourself. Or try your hand at a funny and improvised ballet, pretending to jump on her back, or even simulate attacking her with a wrestling move. It's an engaging way to make her laugh, and you may also have fun with those around you.
You can also try to tickle her, or pretend to ruffle her hair. Doing so will allow you to touch her in a playful way, other than holding her hand or wrapping your arm around her shoulders
Step 5. Make an imitation
There is nothing better than a successful imitation to make people laugh. Pick a celebrity she likes or a mutual acquaintance, like a friend or professor. This way you will be sure that he gets the joke and can laugh with you.
