Do you want to have an indifferent attitude? Whether you want to provoke parents and teachers or impress friends, having a strong personality is easy. All you need to do is just change your behavior and attitude. In no time you will be the cheeky person you want to become!
Steps
Step 1. Don't tell everyone you want to have a better attitude
It takes about two months (don't expect drastic changes).
Step 2. Talk in the mirror like you don't care, like you're arguing with someone
Surprised? See, you can do it! You just released a little piece of your inner personality!
Step 3. Speak loudly and clearly, maintain good posture and eye contact
When you are done, put your hands on your hips and stride away (if you are a girl. If you are a boy cross your arms, keep your eyes up and walk away). Don't be disheartened by the whispers behind you.
Step 4. Think about what others are saying for half a second and then speak
Do not think too much. However, watch out for what comes out of your mouth!
Step 5. Be assertive
You have to show that you are not afraid. Be outgoing and open to comparison, and just a little aggressive. People have to see you as a leader, and you have to prove that you are a strong person.
Step 6. Make decisions and participate in group life
You are a leader. Don't be shy and quiet, say what you think and don't be afraid to talk or say something stupid.
Step 7. Make sure your new attitude also shows in your eyes
Advice
- Don't think too much about people who don't like you, just ignore them and go your own way.
- Always be yourself and remember who you are. Don't copy others; you are a unique individual!
- Believe in yourself.
- Always take a deep breath when it comes to serious matters.
- Talk to the mirror at least 5 minutes a week or more.
- Take a cue from the famous guys, you have to be able to fake a certain level of vanity.
Warnings
- Don't be a bad copy of someone.
- Being insolent to teachers, parents, and authority figures could get you in trouble. Even if you haven't done anything wrong, they will see your attitude as a problem and treat you accordingly.
- If you misbehave people will see you as a bully - or a bully. So be careful!
