Meeting someone for the first time raises a whole series of doubts. Probably the first question that comes to your mind is: "How should I dress?". Find out some more information about the guy you will see and what you will do, in order to help you choose the right clothes for the occasion and highlight your style.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Dressing for the Occasion
Step 1. Find out where you will see yourself and prepare accordingly
To decide what to wear, it helps to know where you will go and at what time. Obviously the way you dress to go to church is different from what you would choose for school or a nightclub. Similarly, it is good to know what kind of clothing is considered acceptable at the meeting place. The outfit should be chosen based on the environment.
- Search for the place online and see pictures to see if it's sophisticated or relaxed. Also look for photos of people who have gone there to understand what clothing is most used.
- Go to this place before your appointment to see it in person and understand what kind of environment it is.
Step 2. Consider the time
The time of day you see each other is just as important in figuring out what to wear. In addition to dressing properly according to the climate, remember that a daytime outfit should be different from one for the evening.
- During the day it is preferable to use light or bright colors, a more casual style, with fewer accessories. You can still wear a dress, but tone it down by opting for a simple cut, maxi sweater or wrap style.
- An evening date requires a more formal style, such as a little black dress, a pair of heels and an accessory that stands out.
Step 3. If you opt for a casual look, create a good balance with a touch of class
If you decide to dress casual, make sure you still look neat, definitely not scruffy. Informal clothing needs a sophisticated touch to prevent it from looking neglected.
- For example, if you want to wear ripped jeans, pair them with black high heels and a sweater or silk shirt.
- If you decide to wear an oversized shirt, combine it with a pair of socks or leggings to play with proportions and avoid looking sloppy.
Step 4. If you are sophisticatedly dressed, don't ruin the outfit with a casual overcoat or casual accessories
After you've worked hard to come up with a perfect outfit for a night out, don't destroy it with an old coat or that huge, battered bag you use to go to the grocery store. Prepare the entire outfit in advance and be sure to enhance it, rather than ruin it.
- A black leather jacket has style and class, not to mention that it goes with almost everything. It cannot be missing in your wardrobe.
- As for the bag, choose one that leaves your hands free, like a wristlet. It is more elegant and sophisticated than a large and unnecessarily bulky bag. If you need more space for your things, use the jacket pockets.
Step 5. Wear comfortable shoes
Low-medium heels and ballet flats are perfect for a casual look. If you dress formal, high heels are ideal, although they can be quite painful. To choose a heel, fit is just as important as aesthetics. It must be comfortable for your feet and allow you to walk with ease.
Avoid heels that are too high. Not only will they give you trouble walking, you also risk looking taller than him
Method 2 of 3: Pass on Your Personality
Step 1. Decide what impression you want to make
The guy will draw conclusions about your behavior, personality and behavior based on what you wear. The outfit details will send information about your identity.
- People who dress formally tend to be considered intelligent and successful.
- People who dress casually are considered to be more friendly and adventurous.
Step 2. Ask your friends for their opinion
You know what you want to communicate through a certain outfit, but others may have an entirely different opinion. Talk to a friend or two and invite them to tell you what they honestly think about your outfit. They don't just have to tell you if they like it, but also what impression you make. What would they think of you if they didn't know you?
- Try asking a friend to get a masculine perspective.
- Ask for more than one opinion, as each friendship can affect the perception of your outfit differently.
- Make the outfit more or less elegant, or change it completely, based on their reactions.
Step 3. Add elements that make you identify with a certain community
If you know that you and the guy have similar interests, wear something that helps you connect with him. Certain items of clothing can help you identify with a group.
- If you both love music, you might want to wear a band t-shirt.
- Use a necklace, bracelet, or skirt you bought overseas to show that you have a free and adventurous spirit.
- If you wear cowboy boots, you can give the impression that you are a bit of a country girl who loves being outdoors, while the Doc Martens will make you look like a punk rocker.
Step 4. Be true to yourself
Remember that you don't just have to think about him, but also about yourself. Your goal is to attract the kind of guy you like. The outfit is an integral part of your brand and conveys information about you. Letting your personality emerge through clothing will help you figure out right from the start if this guy is right for you.
- For the first date, keep your personal style rather than trying to change it. The boy must know the real you.
- You don't have to look completely different - if you decide to see each other again, it will be against you.
Method 3 of 3: Make a Good First Impression
Step 1. Before you see him, find out everything you can about him
People tend to have a positive reaction to people they feel in tune with, including those who are similarly dressed. The more you know him, the easier it will be to leverage what he likes. Think of a few questions you can ask him to learn more about his personality and style.
- Ask him where he grew up. Certain regions are characterized by different styles. A person who grew up in the city may be more knowledgeable about the latest trends than someone who grew up in the countryside.
- Ask him about his hobbies. If he spends his time in bookstores and record stores, he probably has a hipster style. If he's into sports, he's probably a jeans and shorts guy.
Step 2. Wear everything casually
A first date already brings with it enough unknowns, so try to look confident. This is not the best time to create a new outfit. Choose clothes that you already like, that make you feel good.
- Think about the outfits they've complimented you on in the past.
- Choose comfortable clothes that fit you perfectly. You don't have to worry about arranging them all evening.
Step 3. Look for a middle ground
Avoid wearing clothes or accessories that you consider excessive, such as a skirt that is too short, a shirt that is too tight, a dress that is too colorful or an accessory that is too anonymous. If in doubt, don't wear it.
Reserve your boldest clothes or accessories for another date when you feel like spicing things up a bit
Step 4. Put on makeup, but not too much
Sad but true: people prefer girls with makeup to soap and water. However, it is a double-edged sword, because, if you overdo it, you risk having the opposite effect.
- Just a little bit of powder, blush, mascara and lip gloss.
- Don't go overboard with eye or lip makeup on a first date.
Step 5. Don't go crazy
He may not be the type of person who puts a lot of time, effort, or money into their clothing. In this case, he will hardly catch your efforts or notice what you are wearing.
If she spends a lot of money or spends time on clothing, then chances are she has the same concerns about her appearance as you
Advice
- The first thing to remember is that he is nervous too.
- Remember to be yourself and above all to have fun. This way he will know the real you. A laugh can play down any embarrassment.
