How to dress to meet your boyfriend's parents

2024 Author: Samantha Chapman | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 09:13

First impressions are important. The first few moments won't determine your boyfriend's relationship with parents for the rest of your life, but they will affect the course of the evening, especially if the first impression is negative. Read this article to avoid very common embarrassing mistakes.

Steps

Step 1. About a week before you meet your boyfriend's parents, talk to him and ask him questions about them

Do it in a natural and reassuring way, avoid questioning him. When the atmosphere has become relaxed and not embarrassing, ask him questions that will help you understand what his parents are like. The more you know about what they love and what they hate, the better. Some possible questions are:

• Are your parents conservative or open?

  

• Are your parents strict or lenient?

  

• Will it be a formal or informal evening?

  

• Do they dress formal or informal when they are at home?

  

• What kind of clothes do they approve and disapprove of?

  

• Are they allergic to anything (for example to perfumes)?

  

Step 2. Think ahead of time about the occasion and how you should behave

The choice of clothes will depend on the type of event, whether it will be formal or informal. If you go for a coffee together you will dress one way, while if you opt for a dinner at the restaurant you will dress differently. Choose your clothes in time, so that you don't have to spend hours and hours in front of the closet thinking about what to wear. What to avoid:

• Transparent dresses

  

• Tops that show the bra or neckline

  

• Dresses or shorts above the knee

  

• Skimpy or vulgar clothing

  

Step 3. Get dressed a couple of hours before the meeting

Make sure the clothes fit and are suitable for your age, so don't overdo it. Dress as you like, but avoid dressing like when you are with your boyfriend, unless you always wear simple clothes. Make sure your clothes are wrinkle-free and well ironed, clean and stain-free.

Step 4. Go for a simple and light makeup

Too much makeup will make you think that you can't be beautiful without it. Choose natural colors that enhance your face, without going overboard. An understated makeup will be more appreciated by your boyfriend and his parents. If you wish, you can also avoid wearing makeup, it's a personal choice!

Step 5. Care for your hair

Wash your hair the day before so it's clean and dandruff-free. While it is not recommended to overdo it, you must make it clear that you have made an effort to look tidy. Don't tie your hair in a weird or messy way, but go for a sleek ponytail or bun. Avoid glitter or exaggerated accessories.

Curls are perfect for a feminine yet relaxed look

Step 6. Don't overdo the jewelry

Too much jewelry or too much makeup makes a girl too sophisticated and expensive to maintain. Be elegant - small earrings and a necklace are enough. If you have piercings elsewhere on your body make sure they are small and inconspicuous.

Step 7. Shoes

Avoid dizzying heels, excessive plateaus and dizzying wedges. Choose something simple and understated, like black pumps, sneakers or ballet flats so as not to upset her parents.

Step 8. Choose clothes that you feel comfortable in

If you feel comfortable with them, they are most likely perfect for you. Don't waste time looking for clothes that you think would suit your parents, but rather opt for something you wear on a daily basis, but with a special touch for the occasion.

Advice

• The secret is convenience. You will already be very agitated, so avoid uncomfortable clothes.
• Understand that your boyfriend's parents want the best for him. They want a confident, calm and purposeful girl. A positive attitude is more important than any dress you decide to wear.
• You want to be cute, mature and composed, but you don't know what to wear. Ask your parents for advice. Put on different dresses and ask your mom what she thinks if she meets you for the first time. Your parents may notice things that you may miss. For example, the peacock boa may not be suitable for the occasion!
• See how your boyfriend dresses. Ask if her parents like her look. It could help you understand how to dress for the occasion.

Warnings

• Avoid shirts and dresses that are too low-cut.
• Choose something elegant rather than extravagant.
• Avoid tops with tight straps unless they are covered or you have another layer underneath. If you are not convinced of the chosen look, avoid narrow straps to be on the safe side.
• Avoid skirts or dresses above the knee.