To be hot, the look is not enough: you also need to have a certain temperament. If you exude confidence when you walk down the street or stop for a chat, anyone who enters your orbit will immediately think you are hot. However, what to do if you are not sure that you are the sexy, intriguing and sensual person you have in mind?
Steps
Method 1 of 4: Way of Thinking
Step 1. Give yourself a chance to be hot
It is possible that you want to be an attractive boy or girl, but fear the judgments and teasing of others. For some people, the desire to be hot has negative connotations, as it is associated with an empty or superficial way of being. Don't let stereotypes and misconceptions stop you from cultivating this side of you. Give yourself permission to get hot.
Getting hot should be something you want, so don't cultivate that side of you just because you're feeling pressured. Today's society gives a lot of weight to certain standards of beauty, but it is not the absolute only way to be attractive
Step 2. Exudes self-esteem
To get hot you have to believe you are hot. Believe in your decisions, in your physical appearance, in who you are or who you want to become. This will also help you recover from setbacks and accept the most difficult challenges you will face.
- Remind yourself of the milestones you have achieved and enjoy success. As you try to cross a new milestone, don't forget everything you've accomplished and the goals you've achieved.
- Don't give too much importance to how you are perceived by others. If you're happy to be hot, that matters more than people might think.
Step 3. Try to have realistic goals regarding your body and image
You don't have to look like a model. You should have the physique that suits you best. This means finding a balance between modifying the body through physical activity / healthy eating and accepting its uniqueness.
- It is understandable to have a desire to achieve a healthy weight. However, it is not realistic to try to get a wasp waist if you have a large bust or to try to enlarge buttocks that are small by nature. Don't try to imitate another person by neglecting your strengths and unique characteristics.
- Avoid calling a certain body type "perfect". There are various types of physicists, all splendid in their uniqueness.
Method 2 of 4: Dressing Up
Step 1. Understand your body type and dress appropriately to enhance it (for women)
A good outfit should highlight the strong points and minimize the weak points. Here are some tips for dressing up the most common body types:
- Apple or circle: contrasts the roundness and softness of the body by adding structure to outfits, especially in the upper part of the body. Wear a fitted blazer or wrap dress that creates symmetrical lines. Cigarette pants help to streamline the legs and draw attention vertically. Chunky prints and patterns will enhance you better than small ones, especially in the bust area. Avoid covering yourself with oversized or loose-fitting shirts: instead, go for garments that are tight-fitting or that caress the body.
- Pear or triangle: create layers in the bust area to get a good balance with the hips. Cardigans and short jackets at the waist help balance the torso with the curves of the lower body. Show off your shoulders by wearing one-shoulder tops or embellished with necklaces. To streamline your legs, wear boot-cut or slightly flared trousers, paired with a pair of high heels.
- hourglass: it is the body everyone dreams of! To make the most of the coveted curves, dress simply. Solid-colored garments that are tight at the waist will show off your flat stomach. Avoid prints that would distract attention from the silhouette.
- Athletic or rectangle-shaped body: Since lean bodies can sometimes look square, avoid stripes and short shirts. Try wearing fitted tops with spaghetti straps or a halter neck top that flatters the bust. The high-waisted trousers and skirts create an optical illusion, so that the shape of the body approaches that of an hourglass. To contrast the sharp lines typical of an athletic build, go for soft fabrics that caress the body.
Step 2. Invest in clothing tailored to your body type (for men)
Find out what makes it the best, or hire a tailor to change the garments. There is nothing worse than wearing clothes that are too loose or too tight in the wrong places.
- Shoulders: the junction seam between the bust and the sleeves should coincide with the upper part of the shoulders, rather than falling on the arms.
- Arm: The fabric under the armpits should adhere well to the skin, still favoring proper joint movement.
- Chest: The chest should fill the front of the shirt, allowing its shape to be seen through the fabric. Additionally, you should be able to perform full joint movements. Try raising your arms, bending back and forth. If you can't do this, then the shirt is too tight. A shirt is too tight even if the buttons pull and crease the fabric.
- Sleeves: If you are wearing a long-sleeved shirt, the cuff should fall exactly to the base of the thumb.
- Trousers: If you opt for a pair of slim or skinny trousers, make sure they are straight from the knees to the ankles. The hem should never turn up or collect on the feet. It should reach to the ankles or slightly exceed the shoes.
- Belts: in reality they should only have an accessory function, rather than holding up the pants. If you use a belt for this, then the pants are too big.
- Shoes: many stylists argue that they are the basis of the male look. An outfit depends on the color and model of footwear used, so choose the clothes according to the shoes.
Step 3. Perfect the look by combining simple colors and pieces of character
Solid-colored dresses allow you to highlight accessories that have great personality, such as big earrings, patterned shoes, colorful bags or special hats.
- Black is always on the safe side and can be combined with almost anything. An all-black outfit allows you to have a clean look, with a touch of decision and mystery.
- Use the power of contrast to your advantage. Dark clothes can slim you down or hide the features that value you the least, while patterns and light colors can bring out the parts you want to show off.
Step 4. Follow the trends
Fashion is constantly changing, so keep up to date with the latest trends to always be hot. In any case, not all fashions are good for everyone or deserve to be followed: choose the one that enhances you and that suits your style.
Avoid trends aimed at certain ages. Being hot doesn't mean looking younger or older
Step 5. Find out more or wear an outfit that caresses your curves
A pinch of sensuality will help you look even hotter. However, avoid discovering yourself too much. Here's how to tell if you're overdoing it:
- This prevents you from cultivating deep relationships. Living in a society that thrives on sex, it's no wonder when people can't help but look at a person dressed in a provocative way. This can alter the perception of others or divert attention from what you have to offer, shifting it towards the physical aspect. If you're not looking for this kind of attention, then you don't want to wear loose-fitting outfits.
- This prevents you from making a career or getting hired. It is not recommended to dress too provocatively in most professional environments.
- Get negative attention or run into danger. For many people, especially women, it is difficult to dress provocatively without attracting negativity. Since it is impossible to control the actions and reactions of others, you should always put your safety and comfort first.
Method 3 of 4: Looking Hot
Step 1. Try to have body language that denotes confidence
It is not always enough to dress in the right way to get into the role, you also need to have a certain way of doing. Here are some tips for improving body language:
- Stand up straight and try to exude confidence. Push your chest out and don't move your hands nervously. To assume a position of power, imitate Superman by placing your hands on your hips, keeping your chin up and legs apart.
- Act calmly and confidently. Speaking too fast or hastily performing an action conveys nervousness or anxiety.
- Try to be expressive with your face and body. Confident people know how to express themselves naturally without overdoing it. This will make you seem more approachable and open.
Step 2. Get in shape
Whether you want to achieve a certain weight or stay healthy, getting fit is an important step in becoming hot.
- Join the gym or hire a personal trainer. With the advice, guidance and encouragement of an instructor, you can start exercising your body in a targeted manner and achieving your goals in a safe and effective way.
- Eat healthy. Eliminate junk food and start eating better.
- Exercising and eating right will help you feel better about yourself and also enjoy better mental health.
Step 3. Try to have good posture
Improving it will not only make you look more confident, it will provide you with other health benefits as well. Correcting posture can help combat head and back pain, increase elasticity and maintain healthy muscles.
- Evaluate your posture to work on your specific problems. In principle, the shoulders should be balanced - avoid one being higher than the other. In addition, they should line up with the ears so that the neck and head do not protrude forward. Don't arch your back and relax your arms at your sides.
- Do postural exercises every day. They can be simple (like stretching your back while sitting, walking more, or stretching to relieve muscle pain) or complex (like doing a workout that corrects your posture).
- Try to be aware of your posture. When you work at your desk or relax, you risk hunching over very easily. Make an effort to sit in the right position, with your back straight, arms relaxed, head and neck aligned with your shoulders.
Step 4. Choose a trendy hairstyle that flatters your overall look and face shape
Try tweaking the color, making a super short cut or using extensions to change up a bit and evolve your appearance.
- Take care of your hair. It is essential to wash them and use the conditioner. Invest in natural products or remedies to combat problems like frizz, dryness, or grease.
- Trim them once a month or every two months to prevent split ends and avoid looking scruffy.
Step 5. Adopt good skin care habits
It is essential to have a well-groomed appearance. Keep it clean, without impurities and other imperfections, by treating it properly and protecting it. Try different products to make sure you find the right ones.
- Use sunscreen. It's easy to forget, but wearing it every day can prevent wrinkles and pigmentation problems.
- Hydrate with lotions, creams or body butters for hands, arms, legs and face. Lip balms allow you to remedy cracks and chapping.
- If you have oily skin, use oil free products to cleanse your face.
- If you have acne-prone skin, avoid touching your face or squeezing pimples. To keep your skin well hydrated, wash it with an acne cleanser or warm water and a hypoallergenic soap instead. Acne develops when the sebum from the fingers or caused by the overactivity of hormones and glands mixes with dirt residue, blocking the pores.
Method 4 of 4: Way of Behavior
Step 1. Show your cool side
Having a relaxed attitude is a quality that attracts others. Here's how to grow it:
- Don't make too much effort, or at least try not to show it. This way others will feel that you are smart and charming enough to get everything you want without lifting a finger.
- If you gesticulate nervously, bite your lip, talk awkwardly, or tend to be anxious, try to feel "cool". It's hard to control or curb those little nervous tics that appear in moments of nervousness, so the best way to deal with them is by intervening from within. If you feel "cool", your body language will express it accordingly.
- Try to be a little bit rebellious. Sometimes breaking rules or taking risks is "cool" and makes you seem authoritative or influential. But avoid doing illegal actions!
Step 2. Highlight your sex appeal
There are several ways to be and look sexy. Try the following:
- Dress in red. Numerous studies have shown that this is the sexiest color ever and that most attracts the human brain.
- You smile. Looking serene and approachable is very sexy, so put a big smile on your face!
- Look people in the eye. It is a particularly safe move that attracts others. Pair it with a smile or a mischievous look to look even sexier.
- Flirt. It's a sexy and fun way to communicate with someone you care about. Discreetly draw attention to your body or tease it with mischievous looks and bold compliments.
Step 3. Be modest
The worst thing you can do is brag about how hot you are. Modesty and kindness are positive qualities. The safest people are those who know how to encourage others.
- Give sincere compliments to get someone's attention.
- Don't brag or feel superior to others. Being hot leads to attention that can make an ego outrageous. If you constantly feel the need to prove that you are hot or have too high a level of self-esteem, your friends, family and other people will value you less.
Advice
- At the end of the show you have to define yourself what it means to be hot. Many mistakenly believe that it means being sexy, which in turn means wearing provocative or skimpy clothes. However, being hot can have numerous meanings. For some it is a means of increasing self-esteem and confidence, for others it means being sexually attractive. There is no right or wrong way to be hot.
- Wear clothes that you think are comfortable. You can be tempted to wear clothes that you find hot, but uncomfortable. Don't ignore the inconvenience, rather compromise or gradually get used to certain types of garments.
- Don't neglect your friends because you think you are superior. Being hot doesn't mean you're better than others.
- Getting hot should be a nice goal. If it doesn't fit your way, don't insist. A person can be attractive in many different ways. For example, there is nothing wrong with being a sweet and pretty girl.
- Protect your identity. Looking hot doesn't mean trying to turn into another person. Instead, your goal should be to cultivate your more attractive and confident side by improving who you already are.
Warnings
- You may receive unwanted or dangerous sexual advances. But remember it's not your fault! While being hot, others have no right to verbally or sexually abuse you. You are not to blame if you should be harassed for your physical appearance.
- When developing a sexier attitude, don't lose control. Try not to be cheeky or overconfident.
