Have you ever met a beautiful, smiling and polite girl and ask yourself "How does she do it?". Below you will find a detailed guide to becoming like her!
Steps
Step 1. Learn to love yourself
This is probably the most important part of the process. Believe it or not, however insecure you feel, you are not alone. Many girls, especially during adolescence, feel depressed or in competition with others. Observe yourself. What are your best sides? Maybe you are the top of the class: do your classmates make fun of you for this? Just think that in ten years you will be a successful woman and have a well-paid job! Maybe you are a little more robust than your friends: you don't have to follow a diet, just choose clothes that fit you well, exercise and smile, always and anyway. Many people notice the smile before the rest.
Step 2. Smile
Brush your teeth and use a whitening mouthwash at least twice a day. also use a toothbrush to clean your tongue before brushing your teeth in the morning. During the day, chew whitening gum.
Don't chew butts at school, in the library, during job interviews, or at work. There is nothing worse than chewing gum falling out of your mouth at an important moment
Step 3. Exercise
There's no need to spend big bucks on a gym membership. All you need is a good pair of sneakers! You can go for a run in the park, ride your bike to run errands, or get off the bus one stop before home. Every little thing helps. Also, fresh air works wonders for some problems like, for example, acne!
Step 4. Correct your posture
Stand up and place your left foot in a vertical line to the shoulder. Place the heel of your right foot close to the arch of your left foot and turn about 20 degrees. You will see how simple it is to be elegant! This posture not only makes you look more composed and charming, but it makes your legs look slimmer. When you walk, look ahead of you, with your shoulders down and back. Imagine that there is a wire that rises from your head to the sky and you must neither bend nor move it. That's it, now you have perfect posture. When you sit down, do not assume a sagging posture; lean back in your chair, with your feet firmly on the ground. If you often feel tense in the neck and shoulder area, lie on your back on the floor and do some stretches. Then, lie prone on the sofa with your head pointing towards the floor. This position helps to stretch the spine and reduce pain.
Step 5. Have fun
What do you like to do? If you are a sea lover, swim as much as possible and go to the beach when you can. Remember to put on your sunscreen and call your friends and fun is guaranteed. If, on the other hand, you are a lover of shopping, to avoid wasting money, go and buy what you like, but keep the receipts, leave the labels and hang the clothes in the closet. If you change your mind, you can simply return your purchases.
Step 6. Look great
As for clothing, always try before you buy. A dress that looks great on a friend of yours may not have the same effect on you. Choose only clothes that suit your body shape, skin color and lifestyle. Don't buy something just because it's in fashion. Focus on classic items that you can wear and love forever. At Zara you can find great cardigans, H&M sells great jeans, and always keep an eye on the shops you like when they are on sale.
Step 7. Choose the right accessories
As for the jewelry, don't overdo it. Faux gold necklaces with huge pendants are not never a good choice. Choose simple but classic accessories. A beautiful pendant, simple diamond earrings and a sophisticated pearl necklace never go out of style. Wear a plain black bag (you can find very nice ones at H&M too), a pair of sunglasses that fit the shape of your face (don't choose sunglasses based on current fashion for two reasons: first of all, they will go out of style, then, they'll make you look ridiculous!) and a silk scarf. The game is done!
Step 8. Take care of your skin
To keep your skin looking great, follow a simple beauty routine. Exfoliate your face in the shower (use a scrub suitable for your skin type). The Delicate Cleansing Lotion from the Nivea Visage line keeps the skin soft and eliminates imperfections. Garnier Synergie Pure Stylo Anti-imperfections eliminates all types of defects (even cold sores!). To hydrate your body, try a shea butter cream for supple and smooth skin. Note: Never use body moisturizers on your face. This is because they are often too rich and fragrant, so they could irritate sensitive skin. Use a deodorant that provides protection throughout the day. Another must-have product is Labello lip balm, which immediately takes care of chapped and dry lips!
Step 9. Be awesome
Time to take care of the makeup. For the day it is better to choose a simple make-up. Apply a concealer to hide pimples and imperfections, then a pressed loose powder (suitable for your skin) to even out the complexion, and finally a nice volumizing mascara (for example Mascara Scandaleyes by Rimmel). Note: If your lashes don't have a natural curved look, use an eyelash curler for a super sexy effect. For a special evening, or for a party, dare with a bolder look. Use all the products listed, then add a veil of eyeliner (Rimmel offers a wide range of different colors), face bronzer (applied gently) and shimmer eyeshadow for a femme fatale look.
Step 10. Work hard
Whether you are in college or still in school, having good grades is essential. If you apply yourself in the studio from a young age, it will be easier to find a job, pay the bills or attract the man of your dreams. Organize your work at school and get useful apps. Don't pay attention if any of your mates make fun of you for your intelligence, remember that you are doing it for a better future. In ten years, your life will be better than theirs professionally, economically and interpersonally. Being a good earning career woman is so much better than a McDonald's job!
Step 11. Eat right
Make sure you eat five servings of fruit and vegetables every day. Try adding a sliced banana to your cereal for breakfast, eating an apple as a snack, a salad for lunch, and two servings of vegetables for dinner. Also drink plenty of water every day. If you start to feel hungry, drink a glass of water before a meal, this way you will eat less and, often, you may find that you were not hungry, but thirsty!
Step 12. Discover your talent
Learn to play a musical instrument, such as the saxophone. Join a group to not only improve your skills, but also to make new friends and find like-minded people! You can also learn a new language; travel all over the world, have new experiences, meet people different from your culture and find nice foreign guys! Thanks to a new language, you will be talking to people you would never have met otherwise. If you're into sports, try taking dance or football lessons! Why not give it a try? It is much simpler than you think!
Step 13. Be yourself
Never change your personality to accommodate your friends' needs. If someone criticizes you, think "Do I trust this person?", "Do I respect them and is their advice constructive?". If the answer is yes, then take action and try to improve. If, on the other hand, the answer is no, it is likely to be just jealousy, and forget everything. Finally, never change for a guy. If he doesn't appreciate you as you are, he will never be able to love you. Keep your eyes peeled to find the perfect guy, he might be closer than you think!
Step 14. Remember that the concept of "ideal" is subjective
Your idea of an "ideal" may be very different from that of others. So, you have to try to be the girl you are you you think it's ideal.
Advice
- Organized! If you are not organized, it will be difficult to find your things. Arrange your room, closet, school backpack, email, phone, etc. Your cell phone is a great help, but if you prefer to write on paper, get a diary. You can also use both tools.
- Committed to school; study hard, but don't overdo it.
- Don't be clingy in relationships.
- Work hard, but don't overdo it.
