Every guy wants to be a "macho" to their girlfriend, but ends up being left for some stupid move or a joke. Girls love the mature guy who totally adores them. Read this article to learn everything you need to know.
Steps
Step 1. Let her know that you would do anything to make her feel safe, but avoid petulant questions like:
"Who did you see?", "Who did you talk to?", "Where did you go?"
Step 2. If every now and then you can say:
"I don't want you to suffer" or something like that, do it.
Step 3. Be sweet, but also courageous
Women totally love the sweet man, but who also knows how to be the hero who saves their life.
Step 4. Put your arm around her waist and not over her shoulders
So it's more romantic.
Step 5. Don't look bored when she wants to do something for herself, as this is a way to tell if her needs are as important to you as yours
Step 6. Put her in front of everyone else and you will see that she will do the same for you
Step 7. Be as confident as possible - women love self-confident men
However, don't overdo it - if you are too confident, you will be considered arrogant and individualistic.
Step 8. Tell her you love her - don't use words, give her little surprises when she least expects it
Step 9. NEVER, ever go on a date without a strategy
If she asks you: "What do you want to do?" you have to answer somehow. Any answer is better than silence!
Step 10. If you see her talking to other men, don't lose your temper
Your calm, calm demeanor will show her that you trust and respect her. Remember that the presence of other men will make you better in his eyes. Sure, you know what they are looking for and obviously it pisses you off, but she also knows what they want and understanding that you don't get mad will show your confidence. OTHER MEN MAKE YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL.
Step 11. One of the most important things to remember is that you have to let her be free to be herself and do whatever she wants
The more you try to hold onto it, the more it will try to run away.
Step 12. Gentle fooling is okay
If she does something stupid in a nice way, do a silly thing or something similar too (example: if she gets hiccups, tease her by imitating the sound of hiccups). Compliment her at least once a day and NEVER tease her about some physical imperfection!
Step 13. Mark the boundaries and make her aware of your needs
Don't be afraid to defend your arguments but also be the big man who stops hostilities by giving her a hug or telling her that it's much more important to you to see her happy than to get the better of an argument. You will be gratified instead of having to put up with a long snout for the next few days.
Advice
- Provide for her. This does not mean that you have to pay all his expenses after the first date, BUT if you empty her fridge without bringing anything once in a while, chances are she'll think you won't have the intention of providing for her in the future.
- Girls get upset both about issues that concern you and when you prove you are yourself! So, take it easy.
- If you see someone disrespect her, stand up for her.
- You must NEVER, NEVER, under any circumstances, use abusive language. Girls don't like it.
- If the girl has children, ALWAYS bring something for them. This will affect her much more than receiving the most expensive of gifts.
- Protect it. If someone is bothering her, make sure you know that she is with you and that you don't want others to get their hands on her.
- Give her a call whenever you can.
Warnings
- Remember to always be yourself.
- This article does not address the personal issues that everyone faces. Even if you try your best, life goes on. Don't be discouraged if, despite being always at her disposal, she left you for other reasons.
- Not all women are the same, so not everyone appreciates a guy who acts this way. If your woman doesn't react positively, stop and try a new strategy!
- If you can't be yourself with her, find another partner, because you deserve better!
- Do not overdo it.
